In November 2021, many friends who use Huawei mobile phones found out. My phone has been updated somehow. It turns out that the Hongmeng system of Huawei mobile phones is online. Moreover, the Hongmeng system has now been applied to almost all Huawei mobile phones, Ren Zhengfei is leading the Huawei to break through the technological blockade of European and American countries step by step. Huawei is also taking a broader road.
Ren Zhengfei has had three marriages on his road to success. It can be said that every marriage plays a vital role in Ren Zhengfei's success. Don't be as we know Meng Wanzhou Ms. is the daughter of Ren Zhengfei and his first wife Meng Jun. And the youngest daughter of the Ren family, who debuted in the entertainment industry a few years ago and has a sense of presence in reality shows, Yao Anna is the daughter of Ren Zhengfei and his second wife.
As the daughter of , the governor of in Sichuan Province, Meng Jun gave Ren Zhengfei a lot of help in his career. However, the two of them were ultimately unable to go on due to various reasons. And it is said that the key reason for the divorce between Meng Jun and Ren Zhengfei is that the two people have different attitudes towards their careers. In addition, at that time, Ren Zhengfei owed a debt to his ass and did not want to inflict Meng Jun and his daughter Meng Wanzhou. Coincidentally at this time, Yao Ling appeared in Ren Zhengfei's life. You know that Ren Zhengfei has never lacked good women around him. Why would Yao Ling get Ren Zhengfei's extra attention? For Huawei, which has grown into a Fortune 500 company today, what kind of help and contribution does Yao Ling have as Ren Zhengfei's second wife?
In 1987,Ren Zhengfei pieced together 21,000 yuan from friends to start Huawei. Because at that time Ren Zhengfei already owed a lot of foreign debts. Therefore, the success or failure of Huawei is very important to him personally. In order to let himself focus on his career, Ren Zhengfei sent his daughter Meng Wanzhou back to his hometown in Guizhou Province and gave it to his parents to take. And you can do your business wholeheartedly. Unexpectedly, at this time, Yao Ling appeared in his life. Yao Ling is younger than Ren Zhengfei's first wife, Meng Jun. And compared to the general personality of Meng Jun's "strong woman", Yao Ling also appears more considerate and gentle. Yao Ling knew that Ren Zhengfei, who had just started his own business, was utterly exhausted every day because of his work. From the bottom of her heart, she felt the same about Ren Zhengfei. Therefore, Yao Ling, who was still an employee of Huawei's marketing department, voluntarily asked to work with Ren Zhengfei. Slowly, Ren Zhengfei regarded Yao Ling as his absolute confidant.
In this way, Yao Ling became Ren Zhengfei's first secretary. Anything in the company is handed over to Yao Ling the first time, and then Yao Ling judges whether it is important enough, and then reports it to Ren Zhengfei. It can be said that this task is very important for the entire company. Therefore, Ren Zhengfei must also give it to someone who is absolutely trustworthy. Some people say, why does Ren Zhengfei believe in Yao Ling so much? Couldn't he see that Yao Ling found his side for his money and the position of the president's wife? In fact, the story of Yao Ling and Ren Zhengfei is really not as unbearable as many people think. Yao Ling and Ren Zhengfei met in 1986. At that time, Ren Zhengfei was still an ordinary businessman who had lost his soul due to unemployment and debt. Speaking of which, the story about Ren Zhengfei's unemployment is also very interesting. At that time, Ren Zhengfei joined a state-owned enterprise where Meng Jun was a manager, and was responsible for the external sales of communication equipment.
Perhaps Ren Zhengfei just entered the workplace and does not understand the various rules of the game in society. Or Ren Zhengfei is overconfident in his own ability and wants to make performance as soon as possible to gain a firm foothold in the company. He actually made a mistake when negotiating business with a client.No deposit from the other party was collected. As a result, the goods were finally delivered, but the final payment was not recovered. Meng Jun was furious when he heard the news. But on the one hand, because Ren Zhengfei is his husband, it's not easy to favor him too much. Therefore, Meng Jun first apologized to everyone at the working meeting of the leadership, and then personally went to the personnel department and fired Ren Zhengfei. This time, because his wife's six relatives did not recognize the thunder method. Ren Zhengfei turned from an enviable "state-owned enterprise employee" to an unemployed person overnight. However, as far as things are concerned, Ren Zhengfei's mistake is indeed very serious. A single order caused hundreds of thousands of losses to the company. Meng Jun asked Ren Zhengfei to leave his post secretly without expelling him publicly, which was quite a shame for him.
Therefore, when Yao Ling and Ren Zhengfei met, one of them was an unemployed man and the other was a gentle and considerate woman. Once two people get together, because of the catalytic effect of the environment, it is easy to wipe out the spark of love. And, don’t think that Yao Ling’s position as secretary of Ren Zhengfei is a "big housekeeper" who manages thousands of people. The just-established Huawei company, not to mention the number of employees, even the scale of its business is pitifully small. At that time, although Yao Ling was nominally Ren Zhengfei's secretary, she still had to do business development and part of sales at the same time. Basically, she is in the state of reporting to Ren Zhengfei with a folder in one hand, and communicating with customers with a receiver in the other. To talk about the degree of busyness. Yao Ling was no less than today's young people. Many people might have resigned long ago if they were put under the same pressure.
However, I have to admit that, in Ren Zhengfei's career, Yao Ling is still no better than Ren Zhengfei's first wife, Meng Jun. Because firstly, Meng Jun's own abilities are very strong, and secondly, her father is a senior cadre in the system. In terms of commercial policy, Ren Zhengfei still received more or less care and help from the former boss. Ren Zhengfei has been silently grateful for this.After Yao Ling came to Ren Zhengfei, in addition to taking on some regular company work. She is more likely to appease and relieve Ren Zhengfei's emotions. Use practical actions to relieve Ren Zhengfei's anxiety and provide him with as much warmth as possible. Therefore, we can also see from Yao Ling's character that she is a woman of "good help" style. In many of Ren Zhengfei's decisions, she was more about recruiting and obeying. She neither had a strong background like Meng Jun, nor had Ren Zhengfei's strategic vision. All she has to do is to help Ren Zhengfei manage this big stall in Huawei.
Yao Ling's gentle and virtuous character also enables Ren Zhengfei to return to the family quickly after marrying her. Ren Zhengfei once said bluntly to reporters: "To be honest, several of my wives have given me a lot of help. Meng Jun has given me career guidance, and Yao Ling has given me happiness in life. They are all. Treated me well. I am very grateful to them." When Ren Zhengfei was 54 years old, Yao Ling gave birth to a daughter for Ren Zhengfei. According to the old tradition of Ren Zhengfei's family that "daughters follow the mother's surname, sons follow the father's surname". Ren Zhengfei named this daughter "Yao Anna". I don't know if it is God's will in the dark. Yao Anna's name, which is obviously western and Western princesses, really matched her later character. When people all over the country are worried about Meng Wanzhou. Anna Yao said publicly: "I don't know why. Everyone only cares about my sister Meng Wanzhou, but few people pay attention to me." Suddenly, it attracted a group of ridicules from netizens and audiences.
However, aside from Yao Anna's character and controversial performance. Her academic achievements are also very impressive. Because Yao Ling herself was a college student in the 1980s. Therefore, her education and counseling for her daughter Yao Anna is naturally indispensable. In the end, Anna Yao was admitted to Harvard University in the United States without disappointing expectations. You know, the overall admission rate for higher education at that time was less than 10%. Being able to enter the university means that you can enjoy the benefits of assigned jobs. However, at that time, Yao Ling felt that she still wanted to make another breakthrough, so she chose independent employment and came to Huawei.After marrying Ren Zhengfei, Yao Ling also knew that he could not replace Meng Jun's position in Ren Zhengfei's heart, because Meng Jun was too strong. Therefore, facing the friendliness of Meng Jun, Yao Ling chose to accept it calmly. Therefore, even now, Meng Jun has maintained a very good private relationship with Yao Ling. Sometimes two people will sit together and chat to discuss the education of their children.
However, perhaps Yao Ling's personality is too gentle and lacks the toughness that should be. The relationship between her and Ren Zhengfei finally came to an end. When she divorced Ren Zhengfei, Ren Zhengfei also had a new female secretary. This person is younger than Yao Linglai, and of course he is more powerful. I don’t know what Yao Ling thinks about his failed marriage with Ren Zhengfei. Perhaps, when it was late at night, she would secretly cry while there was no one around. Perhaps, thinking about it now, she has completely let go of this matter. However, no matter what, this is also a regretful and happy experience in her life. Like Meng Jun, Yao Ling, who left Ren Zhengfei, did not completely fade out of Ren Zhengfei's circle of friends and Huawei. Because, anyway, when Huawei was just a small workshop, Yao Ling, as the company's senior leader, also contributed to the company. On this basis, Huawei should not let Yao Ling down either.
We often say that years give a woman not only the wrinkles on the face, but also endless experience and wisdom. Obviously Yao Ling's story also confirms this. She met Ren Zhengfei in her best years, gained her love, and at the same time, she also worked hard to create her own world. There is no doubt that this is what Yao Ling deserves. It is also her wisdom in life that gives her the best return.
.References:
"Yao Ling and Huawei" Chinese Entrepreneur
"Ren Zhengfei and His "Three Wives"" Marriage and Family
"Ren Zhengfei's Addition and Subtraction" Chaoshang
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