The development of today's society is getting faster and faster. The development of science and technology and the development of Internet technology have brought many conveniences to people's lives and have also changed people's lives and ways of living.
1. The Internet changes people's lives
Relying on the development of science and Internet technology, many ways of life have undergone various changes, , for example, our social methods have undergone earth-shaking changes .
In the past when Internet technology was underdeveloped, people could only socialize through offline face-to-face, but since the introduction of Internet technology, even if people are thousands of miles apart, can still communicate through the Internet through .
Nowadays, people engage in social interactions with others through various social platforms on the Internet, such as QQ, WeChat and Weibo, the most common social software in China. In addition to chatting functions, social software such as
also has social functions for sharing. Take WeChat as an example. In addition to the most common private message function in WeChat, we also have the familiar circle of friends.
2. You can see a person's personality through the circle of friends
The function of the circle of friends actually publishes your daily life on the circle of friends in the form of pictures, texts or videos, and WeChat friends can see their own dynamics.
This is also a behavior of sharing your recent situation with friends in the social circle . In reality, many people attach great importance to the role of the circle of friends. Some people can even judge a person's personality through the situation in the circle of friends .
Everyone has different opinions on the circle of friends. Some people like to visit the circle of friends very much and like to read the circle of friends very much, but some people have very different opinions on the circle of friends. They think this is a relatively private circle, so some people limit the time limit of their circle of friends . We also found that some people in have a very indifferent attitude towards friends, and have never even posted a friend.
3. People who do not post on Moments have the following advantages
Psychologists have a positive attitude towards those who have never posted on Moments. In the eyes of psychologists, those who have never posted on Moments have the following advantages:
(1) The first advantage is that they have a relatively high sense of self-worth.
In psychology theory, has a famous theory called self-worth . The so-called self-worth is simply a perception of others' own value . In reality, we will find that in many cases, we form our own perceptions through the outside world's evaluation of ourselves.
Based on such theories and ideas, more and more people post to Moments and watch it very important. More and more people regard Moments as a place to show their living conditions , bringing all kinds of things in life.
When people over-create their circle of friends, it is actually a phenomenon of establishing their own personalities. By posting the style and content of the circle of friends, we can establish our own image and personality.
However, establishing a character can create your own image in the minds of others. This behavior of happens to be a vain behavior , and is actually a manifestation of inferiority. A person who is truly confident in his heart does not need to create his image by posting on Moments.
(2) The second advantage is the high degree of self-differentiation.
Self-differentiation is a common theory in psychology . In psychology, self-differentiation can help a person judge whether he can truly distinguish the boundary between himself and others. In other words, whether we attach too much importance to the outside world and whether we can stick to our own ideas.
Those who never post to Moments have a relatively high degree of self-differentiation because they don’t care much about the outside world’s evaluations and opinions, and will not have a great impact on themselves because of some external evaluations .
People with high degree of self-differentiation will have a very clear sense of boundaries and have a standard for all kinds of things in their lives. It is precisely because they have a very clear sense of boundaries. so they respect others and can also be respected by others.
written at the end
The reason why humans become humans is because we have more developed ideas and minds than other animals. Every human in the world must live in the human world. A person cannot exist independently from society. Although seems to be very cold on the surface, the various words and deeds they see can show their advantages in this society. and these advantages are also something we deserve to learn from.
