Introduction:
I believe many people have encountered those who borrow money but don’t pay it back. When borrowing money, they say it’s a lot of money, but it’s difficult to get them to pay it back. It is said that brothers settle the score clearly, but it is really difficult for them to deal with this situation when it is your turn. If you don’t lend money, he says you are ruthless, but if you borrow it, it is difficult to say that you will definitely get it back if you have urgent needs.
Sister Wang lent her cousin to 100,000 yuan to buy a house. Six months later, she paid back the money, but she said, "Don't deal with each other in the future." What kind of things did Sister Wang experience?
Self-reporter: Sister Wang
My surname is Wang, and others call me Sister Wang. In fact, I am only forty years old and the mother of two children. My husband and I met in college. This is how life in college is. It is easy to have emotions, let alone people who go to class together and play together after class. After graduating from college, we don’t get married as soon as others do, but we choose to get married after we work together to save enough of the down payment for the house. We both think that one home must look like a home, and the harbor where we love each other is home.
Every time I get home, I can think of our happy times. After all, we won’t complain even if we work hard outside. There is bitterness and sweetness. It is not unreasonable. We have also waited for the days when the bitterness is over. The first child was born when I was 26 years old. Although my career was just starting, the company is still quite humane. I gave me maternity leave, and my husband can also take a leave to accompany me. Although
has no salary per month, we still have parents, brothers and sisters. Of course, we only pay 3,000 yuan a month, and we still have enough life. The birth of the child affected our normal work, so not long after I was born, I chose to leave it to his grandmother for her after I started working. Sometimes we work overtime until 11 or 2 o'clock in the evening, but it does not affect our meeting with our children.
When I have time, my husband and I go to see the child together. It is simple and happy. Because my husband's father passed away very early, he worked very hard when he was in college. That's how he has something that attracts me. Study hard and have a mentality that is unwilling to be calm, both sunny boys and girls like it. In this way, my husband and I lived a sweet and happy life. Many people say that college love is unreliable. Although many couples in our school broke up, I don’t dislike my husband and he will not abandon me.
When we have a child, we don’t want to have a second child, but the accident is always so sudden, and then we chose to give birth to a second child. There is five years apart. The older one is the son and the younger one is the daughter. In this way, we have both children and children, so we are so happy. Later, my mother-in-law felt that it was not enough to take care of two people, so she moved into our house. My mother-in-law used to say that she didn't want to live in anything. She said, "Who would be willing to leave suddenly when my wife and I live for the rest of our lives? I can just take care of my grandson by myself." In the end, once my husband and I want to see the child, basically my mother-in-law will bring the child over.
may also be the thoughtful mother-in-law. She lives at my house at night. Once she cries, I will definitely be worried. She will definitely be listless at work during the day, so she chose to say this. In the end, I saw that my work was much easier, and I even could work at home, so I chose to let my children live with me at night. Life is indeed fast when the hardships come. Although the children still have to study, my husband and I are old employees and leaders of the company. The two of us earn 10,000 or 20,000 yuan a month.
slowly saved a lot of money, and I also bought a car and lived a better life. My mother's brother's daughter, I called her eldest cousin. When we were young, we were very good at chatting. Even in college, we could still go to parties often, and in the end we slowly stopped contacting each other due to family and work. It was also when I went back to visit my parents that I realized that she was very far away, but life is like this: marrying a chicken and following the chicken, and marrying a dog.
My cousin complained to me that my husband didn’t work hard and that he didn’t make enough money for him, so he wanted to borrow money from me. I was also opposed, but she said, "I will definitely pay you back. Sisters over the years can't trust me? That is, now I want to buy a house with a balance of 100,000 yuan, otherwise I won't borrow it from you."I lent her the money. After all, those who have money can buy a house in full should not be worth the money we have.
, but in the end it was really urgent, because my mother-in-law was hospitalized, but her heart couldn't bear it. At that time, the money I lent to my cousin was already all the money. In order not to let the money be idle, my husband and I took it out to invest in business and asked employees to manage it, but the money was not collected in a short time. In less than half a year, I found my cousin.
Actually, during this period, I asked her to pay back the money on the surface, but my cousin kept saying that there was no way to do it without money, so I delayed it until now. Fortunately, I borrowed money and wrote an IOU at that time. I took out the IOU and told my cousin: "It's written clearly. If you say you will definitely pay back the money in four months. And I'm really urgent. Now you are not short of money and have bought such a luxurious car. "
The car was the property she got from divorce from her husband, and she also received partial compensation. Because her husband kept spending her money, a strong woman would have no money. It was because she was a strong woman that I chose to believe her. Perhaps it was because she was a strong woman that my cousin's husband chose to divorce and spend money randomly! Although I am a strong woman, I have no temper with my family.
in the end, the money was back, but the cousin said, "Let's not get in contact anymore. I also used an IOU to make me pay back the money. I said it was late, but I didn't believe it. I still made excuses to say that my mother-in-law was hospitalized. I despise you. "In the end, I walked out of the house with a very luxurious decoration. I borrowed it from me, but I didn't ask for interest yet, why did it feel like I owe her money? Although I was a little confused, I still knew who could get in contact with what kind of people should not get in contact.
was a little angry afterwards, but I finally held it back. Some people obviously helped her, but they became the fault of others. It was too difficult. Finally, I complained to my husband and said, "Brothers all settle the score clearly, let alone cousins who have not seen each other for many years. It is not necessary to have a deep relationship. Borrowing money hurts feelings, whether it is you or someone else lends you. "Finally, I accepted this reality with a wry smile.
wrote to the end:
We are young and are carefree. Why do we get along with each other because of money when we grow up, and even cut off the beauty of our youth? It’s not that we will become bad when we grow up, but that everyone’s growth experience is different. It’s not that everyone will stick to their original aspirations in the process of growth. So friends are not about having many friends, but about treating each other sincerely.
