The neighbor passed away and was buried the next afternoon.
On that day, Xiao Zheng said that there was a quarrel next door and it was very violent.
I was in the studio and it was strange. What was going on?
Disputes broke out before the bones were cold? Because of what!
Of course Xiao Zheng doesn’t know.
This morning, I gave an injection to another aunt in our family building. The aunt talked about the quarrel that day.
The thing is like this:
The elder next door has two sons. The second son died of a heart disease a few years ago, leaving behind two daughters and three wives. The eldest daughter Jing is married, and the younger daughter Xuan'er is only in the fourth grade. , the second sister-in-law has never found anyone to run a decoration materials store. In the past few years, business has not been good due to the epidemic.
The boss is engaged in breeding and has only one daughter, who is also married. The eldest son and daughter-in-law are capable people. I often see her and the boss chatting outside, looking very strong.
Especially in recent years, I have noticed that my sister-in-law is getting more and more dressed up, with high-end clothes and beautiful cosmetics. She was originally a good-looking person, but her appearance has become better, but it seems that the elder brother who raises shrimps is not like her. A perfect match.
It is said that she cooked for a company boss, and she didn’t know what the means were. She had the final say. Besides not cooking, she also ate and drank.
The old lady next door bought the cemetery before her death. The old lady asked her eldest son to buy it. It cost 30,000 yuan or more. The old lady paid for more money, so she bought a 50,000 yuan cemetery.
is gone. Relatives and friends follow each other. Whoever receives the gift gets it. The remaining expenses are shared between the two sons. Calculated in this way, it is accurate to dozens of yuan. Each family has to pay 37,000 yuan. At that time, the second daughter-in-law took the money. If he didn't come out, he said he would have to wait two days, so the elder couple got very angry and started to quarrel.
The eldest couple wants the house where the elder currently lives. This house is relatively large and has a two-story building. However, it cannot be justified to only give it to the eldest son. Although the second child is gone, the third daughter and daughter are still there, so how can they only give it to one?
This is also the reason for the quarrel.
In short, money is a curse.
On the day Da Da passed away, Da Da’s sister was very angry because people didn’t cry much, so she said: No one cries, I miss you all in vain, I cry.
started to cry a little after someone set an example.
When we passed by, I saw that my aunt was not very sad and was very calm when she recounted to me the circumstances of her death.
It is hard to imagine that an old couple who have been together for more than 50 years could be so calm and thoughtful when they parted.
I still remember that when my second brother passed away suddenly due to a heart disease, my aunt was not overly sad. I was surprised at how strong people's psychological endurance is.
The aunt who got the acupuncture said:
The old lady was very angry when they had a quarrel. The elder couple said that the old lady could not live in such a big house by herself and that she had to live with them, or they could live here. The old lady disagreed and said that she could do it on her own.
Then the sister-in-law ran away in anger and did not come for two days.
The second sister-in-law was left to clean up the house and take care of the house, and her performance was praised by everyone.
However, for some reason the next day, the blame shifted from the eldest to the second, saying that the second sister-in-law would not pay. People advised the old lady: They didn’t say not to pay, but they can’t get it now. Who can do it all at once? Pay so much!
On the third day, when it was time to burn paper together, my sister-in-law didn’t come and she was still angry!
The helpers said that the old lady didn't have any money, so she just pretended that she didn't have to pay the big burial expenses, so she could afford it on her own, and the children were not rich.
The old lady refused.
Later, I heard that my sister-in-law was getting a divorce, her body was still cold, and the family was about to break up. There was nothing I could do.
At seven o'clock on the first day, my sister-in-law came and stayed here. She was very close to the old lady. It was magical to buy clothes for her mother-in-law and take her on trips.
As onlookers, we can only express a few words of emotion:
Life is complex even if it is complex, involving various relationships, and it is nothing more than a word of profit if it is simple.
Harmony can only come when there is less self-interest.
