Time is not forgiving people, but the shadows of the temples know whether the stars are known. Those years have passed by like a flash of white horses. In the blink of an eye, we slowly ushered in our middle age.
Today I saw an article that after a man is 35 years old, there are a few things that need to be paid attention to. Then I compared myself and carefully reviewed it. Friends who have never met you, you can also review it yourself after reading it. I hope it will be helpful to everyone.
Put your own health first
Men are the pillars of the family. Men at this age usually have old people and young people. They mediate in the middle, and they cannot tolerate any mistakes. They are afraid of getting sick and dare not get sick. If you fall down, you will fall into darkness at home and outside. The key factor that determines a person's wealth accumulation is physical health.
The same ordinary family has a house and a car, and a little savings. But after getting sick, I was unable to work and my income returned to zero, and I became poor all of a sudden. When a person reaches middle age, he will carry a career with his left hand and a family with his right hand. Without a strong body, it will be difficult to shoulder these two heavy burdens.
35-55 years old should be one of the golden age groups in life, but it is also a high-risk period for life. Diseases are very prone to break out during this period, and many tragedies of premature death occurred in this age group, which doctors call the swamp of life journey. "
When I was young, I always felt that money and status were the most important things in the world. Now I need to reorder the important things in life and put health first. Eat clean food, reduce takeout and dine-in outside, brush less at night and go to bed early and keep enough sleep, and live an orderly life. Only in this way can I have the ability to protect the people who love you and the people you love.
I believe that everyone has seen the recent video of Li Yuchun . A big-name star with a career and financial strength, and has major problems with her health. She needs to spend it in a wheelchair. She also said that there is a luxury car parked in her garage, but it has nothing to do with her. She can no longer drive freely and go wherever she wants. Your cloakroom is full of angels. Expensive clothes, but now they are covered by the white sheets of the hospital. Her money can only be moved in the hospital. Her signature is only left on the hospital list. I feel a little sad when I look at it. So we must pay attention to our health. If we can exercise, pay attention to exercise more. The disease comes from the mouth and eat. Don’t just enjoy it. You should also pay attention to supplementing some nutrition in daily life. Although it is important to save money for the family, you can only create more wealth if you are healthy. I also bought myself an egg-boiled artifact, which is very cheap but very useful. I cook two eggs every day and add my own meals, and I also bought milk. Don’t be too stingy with your body. It’s also a big deal to take care of yourself.
Unemployed plan for the future
In addition to health, the work you have worked hard to abandon you. The workplace crisis of middle-aged people is often not an age crisis, but a lack of skill. When the tide of survival hits, your skills are your lifebuoy.
In addition to doing our job well, we must pay attention to learning more, accepting new things, not letting our thinking be solid, nor do we say how motivated we are, but just letting ourselves bear the pressure of unemployment and plan for the next survival. Learn more skills, and open more outlets in life; and gain more skills, and have more choices in life. As the old saying goes, if you have more skills, just say fewer words to ask for help and make yourself feel safe.
Now we have entered the Internet era. There are too many learning courses online. You can choose what you are interested in to study. While enriching yourself, wouldn’t it be better if it can bring economic benefits? The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago and now. Come on, middle-aged people.
Be kind to your wife
A good woman can prosper the family for three generations, so you should be kind to your wife. She is the lifelong companion you have found. She is your dearest relative. In addition to your parents, she is also the person who has been with you for the longest time in the world.
Maybe you will find that when you first got married, your lover had a good temper, good skin, and good figure, slowly over time. Now you start quarrels over some trivial matters, and some even have the idea of divorce. Do you know that in a woman's best years, she gave up a lot and devoted her entire energy to this family to give birth to children for you, from raising her newborn 7 kilograms to being able to run around and play around. She hasn't slept well in those years, and she is haggard and doesn't go shopping to buy it. She has clothes and cosmetics, and she is surrounded by her children all day long. Her hair turns white and her skin is rough. She has no complaints. As the child grows up, the elderly grow older little by little, and she is busier. She teaches homework, accompanys the elderly to see a doctor, etc. No matter how good the temper is, it will be exhausted. Therefore, as a man, you cannot care about her. You must understand that it is difficult for her. Do more housework, and do more housework. Men do not embarrass at all. There is no perfect partner in the world. A happy marriage means you accommodate me and I accommodate you. So you must treat your lover well, so that your family will be more harmonious, with more laughter and joy, your children's childhood will be full of love protection, more confident and sunny, and if the backyard is settled, you can only gallop on the battlefield ahead and your career will flourish.
Although middle age is difficult and the road ahead is long, we have noticed the above three points. I believe that with enough confidence and ability to fight against the thorns on the road ahead, life will get better and better, and family will be harmonious and happy.
Friends, have you gained something? Meeting is not easy. Paying attention is the continuation of fate. Accompanying along the way and sharing positive energy growth along the way. I am the evening breeze and shallow day.
