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people are busy all their lives?
Some people say that we make money to support our families and to live a better life. But money is something like life and death.
No matter how hard you make, you can't escape the fate of becoming a handful of loess. When it becomes loess, many things that I had been extremely concerned about before will become less important.
My sister Lin, who is nearly 60 years old, is very touched by this. She said:
"I only realized after I suffered from cancer. In fact, women will win if they do three things well in this life."
This is her feeling that she almost reached the end of her life when she was seriously ill, and it is worth everyone's reflection. People will only know how to cherish something when they are about to lose something, but fortunately, everything is in time.
1: Take good care of your body, this is the basis of everything
Sister Lin is busy with her career and will just take care of her meals. Over time, she has an stomachache and problem. At first, she didn't care very much, and when faced with doctors' advice, she always went in and out of the right ear. After all, in most people's perception, stomach pain is a very normal trivial matter.
But I never thought that her stomachache turned out to be because she had gastric cancer .
After the examination results came out, she collapsed and cried. It was not until the second half of her life that she truly felt the fragility of life and regretted her previous stupidity.
She just wants to use her own personal experience to tell everyone that no matter how busy she is, she must put her body first.
Only with health can life have more exciting possibilities. Without health, no matter how many ambitions you have, you will eventually become empty. Treating your body well is the top priority in life.
2: Be as filial to your parents as possible, and don’t let the tragedy of your children raising them but not waiting for their parents to happen
Getting gastric cancer means that the god of death may take Sister Lin away at any time.
Sister Lin was worried about her body, and prayed that God would be kind to her and give her more time so that she could accompany her elderly parents more.
Every time I see my parents secretly wiping tears due to her illness, Sister Lin feels like a knife. She is a strong woman who is determined to make more money. On the road of hard work, her ex-husband couldn't stand the loneliness and left her early.
In that darkest stage, it was her parents who gave her the greatest spiritual comfort. But as soon as she adjusted her condition, she immediately devoted herself to the intense work and left no time for her parents to accompany her.
so that she is seriously ill now that she can slow down and think about her relationship with her parents. She realized that in recent years, she had only met her parents for a few times.
And her parents' temples were already gray, and she regretted that she had never left time for her parents, so she could only leave this regret.
Don't let the tragedy of children wanting to support themselves but their parents are not waiting. When everything is too late, spend as much time with your parents.
3: Love your children well, cherish the mother-son relationship in this life, and don’t leave regrets because of selfishness
Children come because of us and have the deepest connection with us. No matter whether the children are filial or capable, we cannot erase this fact.
Sister Lin also regrets the child.
She is a strict mother. When she teaches her children on weekdays, she always puts forward many requirements that do not meet the children's age cognition and ability, so that under her strict discipline, there is a gap between the child and Sister Lin.
In their home, it is rare to see a kind mother and a filial son. It was not until the last journey of life that Sister Lin woke up and felt that she was indeed too harsh in her children's education methods.
If she does it again, she will definitely put mother-son family ties first and will never force her children into enemies who are afraid of her.
at the end:
Women's life will be worthwhile to make their life worthwhile.
Live up to those who gave birth to me, don’t treat me badly, don’t treat my body perfunctorily, and take all the people in this world who love me seriously. Only in this way can one gain more truth, goodness and beauty that can comfort the soul in a limited life.
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