There was a girl who left me a message asking why even though I was sick, my mother scolded me, threw away my medicine, grabbed my phone, and blocked those who comforted me? This girl has been diagnosed with moderate depression for two years. Because her parents feel embarrassed,

There was a girl who left me a message asking why even though I was sick, my mother still scolded me, threw away my medicine, grabbed my phone, and blocked those who comforted me?

This girl has been diagnosed with moderate depression for two years. Because her parents feel embarrassed, she is used to going online to talk and seek help. But this time her mother even locked up the only tree hole where she could rest her emotions. She said she couldn't stand it anymore. I felt very sad.

In fact, as an anti-depressant blogger, I know that there are too many people who have similar experiences to him. If you don’t believe it, you can click on my comment area now to take a look. Depression itself brings despair, and family members believe that mental illness is shameful. This kind of critical thinking is a catalyst for despair.

So I want to speak for our group, depression is not equal to shame. What is really shameful is the vanity of the person who is unwilling to admit that his child is sick for the sake of face, and attributes his lack of psychological education to his child's indiscriminate friends. The child has done something wrong. He just wants to hear a sentence when he is wronged, don't be afraid of you, and I, those who mislead him astray in your eyes, are trying every means to make him believe it. There is still beauty in this world, tell him again, look at the sunset today, it is so beautiful, so we have to live well and have the opportunity to watch the sunset together.

Yes, your crazy words can easily destroy this hard-earned hope. When you throw those things into the trash can, pick up your daughter's cell phone, and blacklist those friends one by one, you also extinguish the light that the sunset should be emitting. Parents are always eager to prove that this is all for the sake of their children, so since you love him so much, when he says that I am really sad, can you not rush to deny him and say that you just think too much? Can you ask him what happened, understand his life, and admit his grievances that he is really sad now!

Don't just talk about what troubles a child may have, but can you really be nice to him for once? Don't ignore the negative emotions they express. Wipe his tears, talk to him, hug him, put away the arrogance and contempt of someone who has been through it, and really don't hurt him anymore.