The hot 11th wedding season is coming soon. Are many young ladies preparing for marriage also experiencing pre-marital anxiety? "Do you suddenly feel that there is not enough time, but you are worried about this and that, and you are afraid that there are some missing things that

Recently, he saw a blogger saying that when the wedding was two months away, he had already started pre-marital anxiety .

is about to arrive at . The popular 11th wedding season of . Are many young ladies preparing for marriage also experiencing pre-marital anxiety?

"Did you suddenly feel that there is not enough time, but you are worried about this and that, and you are afraid that there are some missing things. You are too anxious."

Let's first share with you The manifestations of anxiety before marriage :

) The originally joyful mood suddenly became restless

Because of the complicated wedding preparations before marriage, many newlyweds have stressed out. If the pressure is too great, you will have the idea of ​​wanting to escape or even not wanting to get married .

) The temper becomes irritable and wants to get angry if something goes wrong

During the marriage preparation process, there may be disagreements between the two families or conflicts. Many newcomers will miss the carefree time when they were in love and did not need to bear pressure, and will also have the idea of ​​ "Whether to get married" .

From the budget and layout style of the wedding to the color and style of the wedding candy box, it has become one of the reasons why the two are "inappropriate". Ask yourself 100 times a day "Are we really suitable for getting married?"

) Fear of future life, always worrying about various conflicts and contradictions

There are many brides who want to worry about whether they can get along well with their future mother-in-law before marriage, and worry about not being able to integrate into each other's family. If you think too much about , you will naturally be anxious about .

Baby newbies, please see if you have these pre-marital anxiety symptoms~

There is a saying that goes well "10 newbies 11 pre-marital anxiety" .

If a newcomer says that he has never experienced pre-marriage anxiety, he must have been a fake marriage.

There are thousands of anxiety before marriage. After hearing thousands of anxiety about newcomers, the editor summarizes what will happen to newcomers before marriage? See if you have the same anxiety as these newcomers ~

Trouble because of money

@Girls who love to laugh:

Speaking of the problem of money, the first thing is the dowry. We met on blind dates, and the relationship was smooth and there was no big fuss, but it was because of the bride price that almost broke down. Later I realized that Love is the basis of marriage, but not the whole of marriage .

@Incupsting:

What is the anxiety before marriage in the face of no money? Our wedding fee is paid by the man's parents, but the wedding his parents want is simply unwilling to watch. I really don't want the thing that I only hate once in my life. Fortunately, my husband finally convinced his parents, compromised with each other, and held a relatively satisfactory wedding.

@An Momo:

As a bride-to-be, my good expectations for the wedding were defeated by the budget. My husband calculated that it had already spent 60,000 yuan on engagement. has been compromising from the 50,000 wedding I shared with him to the later small budget wedding...

@Ting Nizi:

Have a wedding a lot of money in , constantly over-budget

hm l1 Worry about the wedding not being perfect

@abcgmn:

Worry about whether I was beautiful or not at the wedding , can take good-looking photos, can the ceremony be completed successfully ...

@Luna:

@Luna:

nightmare dreaming that I was stepping on the wedding dress hem , fell down, and woke up in fear; I also dreamed that the bridesmaid lost the ring, The wedding scene turned into a lost and found scene ~ Help, it was really a mess.

@No. 1\(^o^)/~:

Parents say that the most common thing to offend people at a wedding is about the arrangement of guests' seats. If the arrangement is not good, the guests will have a bad experience. What if the guests quarrel? But is my wedding the priority of my happiness or is it that the guests are satisfied?

@ It's Thirteenth month:

One month before marriage, in order to make yourself the most beautiful bride, I urgently lose weight, go to the gym every day, eat vegetarian food, and the ball ball, must be on camera to look good~

Doubt whether this person is "suitable"

@Pesy cute NA:

I was also worried a month before my marriage, and I was particularly suspicious of my partner. I didn't like it at all. I felt that the two of them seemed to be inappropriate for a little bit of a small matter. Doubt whether my choice was made wrong .

@August:

Everyone says Marriage is the grave of love , but I don’t think so, but after hearing the complaints from many people around me, I also began to worry ~ Worry about whether the other party is really worth entrusting my life to ?

Worry about the relationship after marriage

@Xiao Zhou is chubby:

I watched TV series a lot of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along with her, and I am afraid that I can’t handle it well mother-in-law and daughter-in-law’s relationship . What should I do if I feel so scary?

@Fugui Le Xiaoyao:

So worried about getting along with his parents. Why can't you come out to live by yourself after getting married? You have to live with his parents? is so worried about not being able to live in harmony after marriage. What should I do with ?

@Jingwen:

My mouth is not too sweet, It feels difficult to shout "Mom" to my mother-in-law . What should I do if it is so embarrassing? Does anyone have the same feeling?

These pre-marriage anxiety listed by the editor are just the tip of the iceberg. I want to tell you through these real anxiety voices of newcomers: Pre-marriage anxiety is a normal state. We must face it with the correct attitude and do not escape~

So here, the editor will give you a few small Tips alleviate pre-marriage anxiety , don’t forget to forward it to your partner~

. Relax yourself physically and mentally, temporarily put aside the wedding preparations and let your mind have a vacation.

. Make a list of wedding preparations, and prepare step by step according to the list.

. Find a friend to complain, tell you the unhappiness in your heart and let them give you advice, or simply talk about gossip and complain wildly.

. Prepare the right medicine and communicate. should calmly analyze the causes and communicate with your partner in a timely manner to solve the problem more effectively and avoid anxiety.

. Exercise, although exercise cannot eliminate all worries, it can at least relieve emotions and allow you to calm down and think seriously.

7. Planners are trustworthy. An excellent wedding planner can help newlyweds share a lot of anxiety. There are too many trivial things in the wedding, what time should be arranged, how to coordinate, etc., and you will feel at ease to leave these to them.

Teacher Luo Xiang once said: "use it to fight against the anxiety and fear of life" and the same is true for premarital anxiety.

So don’t worry, Dongqing Fairy Tale One-stop Wedding Banquet Center prepares a quick preparations and checklist for the newlyweds before the wedding , so that you can check for omissions before the wedding, so that you can be the most calm and composed bride on the wedding day! Must keep it off~

I hope everyone can prepare for the wedding easily and hold a successful and unforgettable wedding as scheduled~