Continuing from yesterday, the word "confidant" here refers to the verb phrase - "know yourself". Rather than the person in the noun phrases "confidant" and "confidant". So, what does this understanding of oneself have to do with road rage? "Road rage" is a very common problem in

continues yesterday, so the "confidant" here refers to the verb phrase - "know yourself". Rather than the person in the noun phrases "confidant" and "confidant". So, what does this understanding of oneself have to do with " road rage "?

"Road rage" is a very common problem in modern society, and I believe many people have it. But most people have never thought about this question: Are you in the car still the same person you are in daily life? Here I first propose a new concept (my own original one): inter-vehicle communication relationship. It refers to the relationship between people when driving vehicles and other vehicles when they share road resources. Next, let’s take a look at several characteristics of car-to-car relationships:

First, strangers to each other, almost all are one-time relationships, so you don’t have to worry about the dilemma of dating because there may be interests in the future. You can directly protect your own interests. to make behavioral choices;

2, each other will not communicate face to face, that is, there is no communication in language, eyes, or body (except when you or he wants to get off the car and do something with the other person);

3, people's social attributes are basically Hidden, there are no civil servants (except government fleets, you will have nothing to do with government fleets), teachers, doctors, lawyers, businessmen, soldiers ( military vehicles , except police cars) and other social attributes in vehicle-to-vehicle interactions, and even There are almost no distinctions between men and women and between elder and younger, and both parties in the relationship have no rules of interpersonal communication to maintain.

Generally speaking, there are three points: first, if you only meet once, you don’t have to worry about meeting in the future; second, if you have nothing to say, you can only use the car and the speaker; third, it is also the core factor, that is, the vehicle erases the necessary disguise in interpersonal communication (that is, we Almost all the manifestations in acquaintance relationships or general social relationships to maintain interpersonal relationships), but wrap up the "you" in the heart without social attributes (the outer shell of the car is the body and language of the materialized "you" , and the "you" in the car is the "self" in your heart that is usually difficult to understand), protecting and then condoning the actions taken by "you" in such a relationship. So, when you are "road rage", if you are the only one in the car, that is the best time for you to understand another deep self. If there are others in the car, then you are "exposed".

PS: The current overall traffic civilization in China still needs to be improved. This is a fact. It is no wonder that many people get angry as soon as they hit the road. But everyone should ask themselves silently deep in their hearts to be a "modesty gentleman" when holding the steering wheel.