In 2021, an 18-year-old girl in Liangshan disappeared from her home. She was wearing a blue and white striped top and black pants when she disappeared. Relatives searched for her all night but could not find her. According to family members, the child is in high school and feels

In 2021, Liangshan an 18-year-old girl disappeared from her home. She was wearing a blue and white striped top and black pants when she disappeared. Relatives searched for her all night but could not find her. According to family members, the child is in high school and feels a lot of pressure to study and is tired of studying.

"She just didn't want to study, and her parents wanted her to study. Yesterday, her mother sent her to study, but she disappeared after taking her to the bus."

Later, the family found that the child had left a letter, writing: "Mom, I don't want to Live, by the time you see this piece of paper, I may have jumped into the river and died. There is no need to look for me, and I can’t be found. Living is stressful, and I don’t want to waste your money. Death is easy, and I have nothing. And Thank you for raising me so well...”

Is being tired of studying depression ?

However, some parents think that misanthropy and are depression. Let me answer this again: Academia is not entirely depression.. Study-weariness is different from general study-weariness. Its main characteristics are that it has no interest in learning, regards learning as a burden, regards learning as a painful thing, and thinks that it is torturing oneself in despair and cannot engage in normal learning activities. Frequently asking for leave, skipping school or skipping classes may lead to dropping out of school.

There are many reasons for learning weariness. From the perspective of external factors, there are mistakes in family education and school education, such as excessive parents' expectations, improper education methods, teachers' stiff attitudes, and the influence of bad school atmosphere; from the perspective of internal factors, the purpose of learning is unclear, lack of interest in learning, and self-control. Poor strength, laziness, etc.

There are the following main reasons for learning weariness

1. The limitations of learning itself

2. Students' learning motivation is insufficient or unclear

3. Students are indifferent to learning and lack interest

4. Students are weak-willed and have poor frustration tolerance

5. From Negative evaluations from various aspects

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The main manifestations of learning disorder are not liking to do homework, having no interest in learning, feeling that learning is a burden, passively coping with learning, having a weak sense of responsibility, being sloppy, and The behavior is lax, often absent from school, late, or even skipping school. In severe cases, they even want to drop out of school, and the purpose of learning is unclear. In severe cases, they feel sick, dizzy, grumpy, or even hysterical when they mention going to school. "Some children will commit suicide by jumping off a building because they are tired of studying, but it does not mean that they have no expectations for life. It is just because of one aspect of study that the child has suicidal thoughts. One-sided reasons can be corrected. In fact, research shows that only 33% of students have positive thoughts about learning.

However, the main clinical feature of depression is continuous and long-term depression. , is the most important type of mental illness in modern people. This type of patients is depressed and depressed for a long time. From being unhappy at the beginning to being devastated at the end, they have low self-esteem, pain, pessimism, and world-weariness. They feel that every day of their lives is a life of despair. Torturing themselves, being negative, escaping, and finally even having suicidal tendencies and behaviors. They just want to lie in bed every day and don't want to move. In more severe cases, they will have auditory hallucinations and persecution delusion . , multiple personality and other schizophrenia symptoms. Each episode of depression lasts for at least 2 weeks, a year, or even several years, and most cases have a tendency to relapse.

How to solve the problem of learning sickness in children? ✦

1. Learning with goals

Parents should help their children make their own daily learning plans. Only by setting learning goals will children not be confused about learning. With clear goals and good study time, children will be free of mind. When it comes to completing the goals, it is less likely to become tired of studying.

2. Create a learning atmosphere

Parents and teachers should create a good learning atmosphere for their children. Having fun alone is not as good as having fun with others. Learning together is both lively and competitive. Psychologically achieve the purpose of learning.

3. Guiding interest

The main reason why children are tired of learning is because they are not interested in the teacher's lessons, or they simply cannot understand them. Their learning gradually falls behind, and their confidence in learning becomes less and less. Therefore, teachers should pay attention to creating a classroom atmosphere and make every class full of interest.

4. Three-party cooperation

Parents, teachers, and students cooperate. Don’t blame the children for not learning well. Whether a child learns well or poorly depends not only on the child, but also on the parents and teachers. Therefore, when a child does not learn well, don’t just blame the child. Everyone must take their own responsibilities and improve educational methods and teaching methods.

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