At noon, I had a dispute with my husband. What I took is to use calmness to control and respond to changes with constant change. His is to use common girls to nag and complain. Hi! The one-on-one move of the man and woman quarrel was indeed the perfect victory for the woman, and the man suffered a crushing defeat [covering his face].
I don’t blame me, my husband took the initiative, I had to face the challenge [laughing].
Originally, I made a lot of breakfast, so I happily made it this morning and posted this meal of Hu La Soup on the headlines and oil buns . I had two classes in the morning and I was so tired that I didn’t want to move after the class. Call my husband to put the quick freezing dumplings. Generally, my family doesn’t buy frozen dumplings, but they just make them by themselves. He and his daughter bought two packs of them to visit Dennis Supermarket in Wanda Plaza on the night before yesterday, and ate half of the pack that night.
Oops! Unexpectedly, in the past two months, I have become obsessed with headlines, in order not to affect my work or delay my meals, and to support him in working with peace of mind. I consciously work more and I never had time to work with him, but I kept him tricked.
I saw him enter the kitchen and start shouting loudly - where is the pot? Where are the dumplings?
Because the pots that were not used in my house are usually packed up, I also know that two pots are occupied, but they are just such a big place, won’t he look for them? Of course, quick-frozen dumplings must be stored in the refrigerator! I was so tired that I didn't want to say anything more. In order not to exhale more, I patiently told him which pot is there and where is it, and of course the dumplings are in the refrigerator!
Unexpectedly, he flipped through the remaining half bag of dumplings. I couldn't put it in the freezer, so I had already stuck together when I was refrigerating. He was so angry that he said, "This is all stuck together!"
He is a very law-loving person, but he is very stern. Looking at the sticky dumplings made him collapse.
I said, it’s okay to stick together, open the pancake pan and fry the dumplings and cook the frozen dumplings.
He angrily went to open the pancake pan, ding tinkling. As a result, I found that some broth in the hot pot was broken, and now I became even more angry. He is very sensitive to the taste and wants to suck it when he says he smells bad smell.
Well, I saw it in a daze yesterday, and I was wondering why he didn't finish the soup. The ribs I stewed yesterday were all full. When I saw the oil pan, I was too lazy to clean the hot pot, so I washed the pots and pans I used yesterday. But I had hot pot the day before yesterday, and my daughter and I didn’t eat at night. He ate the soup again.
So, I said, "This is also my fault? This is the bottom of the pot you eat, why don't you clean it up? I do more work, so many mistakes are wrong, right?" He had nothing to say.
Then I was too lazy to pay attention to him. My daughter was at home, and I didn’t want to quarrel, and we haven’t quarreled for many years. I no longer like the family atmosphere of quarrels. In the past, I quickly solved whatever he was dissatisfied with. Even though I know that he is not as good as me, I am too lazy to care about it, as long as he works well. Since I am a woman, he is a man, big women don’t care about family matters, who knows, it won’t work!
Once my favorite song Zhang Yu's "Big Woman"
He was stopped, and he said, "Okay! OK! My fault." Then I especially wanted to yell at him and have a roar in Hedong. How could he endure it? It's so uncomfortable! With an extroverted personality like me, a straightforward temper, I endure it and don’t explode. It’s really exhausting myself. It seems to be full of gas, I’m stepped on the brakes and pulled the brakes.
I want to yell at
But, thinking about how long I practiced, isn’t it in vain? Besides, the important thing is that my daughter is at home, and he is already busy with work. I made up my mind that I just didn't do it today, just let him work. Therefore, I didn't say anything, sat on the sofa in the living room and continued to read the headlines.
He had prepared it, and the cooked dumplings and fried dumplings were brought to the dining table, and he was just eating them alone. I stood up, walked over, and told him, "I cooked the meal, and I asked for it three times and four times. You are still late and pressed. If you prepare it, you don't ask me to eat. You still have to study hard. How do I make it? Treat me according to my level."
He was so angry that he only ate but didn't speak.I said, "You made it well today, and I don't accept it either. You lose your temper and don't talk now. The atmosphere in the room is not good, which affects my mood. I eat a pissy rice, which affects my health."
I sat down and ate a dumpling. I felt it was not good. It made me hold my breath too much. I stood up again and made some garlic juice to soothe. Eat again and feel better and eat better.
After a while, he had eaten and started cleaning up, and went downstairs to throw garbage and wash pots and pans.
At this time, my daughter came late and started to have a meal. I gave her the remaining dumplings and told her daughter what had just happened. My daughter still wants to eat fried dumplings, but I said there is nothing, so if you want to eat them, you can fry them again.
My mood has already recovered at this time. I said calmly and objectively: Your father loses his temper because he is affected by the lifestyle of your grandpa and your grandma. Your grandfather just wants to lose his temper when he sees what doesn’t suit his own meaning. It just so happens that your grandma is the kind of person who is particularly tolerant. This has led your dad to learn that he thought that someone else did something wrong and would lose his temper when encountering things, and he would be inflexible. In fact, there are not many things at home that have regulations and procedures. You should be more aware of your life and deal with them in a reasonable way when encountering things. If I see the dumplings sticking, I don’t say a word. The fried dumplings are also delicious, as long as they are not broken.
Family genetic tantrum
After hearing this, my daughter still declared the rights of men and women again. OK~_~, I don’t want to affect my daughter’s view on marriage, so I won’t say more.
Her father finished brushing the pot and asked me again: "Where is the pot?" I really want to put it on top of your head. I paused for a moment—and said I would put it wherever I wanted. My daughter also cares about her father asking everything.
To prove my self-evident test, I said to him with a family tradition: "From today, you have to cook for a week, so that you can feel the feeling of cooking every day. Don't ask me what you want to do," he said, "It must be because the fried dumplings are delicious, and my daughter still can't eat enough, so I feel relieved.
Actually, I understand that my husband is a simple and down-to-earth person. He has classes in the afternoon, so he is anxious to have lunch and want to take a break after dinner. He has the energy to attend class in the afternoon. But I am not a full-time nanny, of course he knows it too, so he is a little angry and has nowhere to send it.
I said to my daughter: The money your father earns and the salary paid by the state, he is definitely worthy of this salary. A job is a job that I wish I could put in three times the effort, so only such a person would be an excellent teacher. If you think of so many teachers, your dad will never be careless if you can stand out.
After class in the afternoon, my husband returned to his smile and began to show his attentiveness to the mother and mother. That's how he is, he won't hold grudges and will not investigate the past. OK ~_~, so do I.
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Teachers have a lot of reasoning in their families, and
Right and wrong are all about grievances.
If the inclusion can be limited, I don’t want to say more about
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What can’t be done with it? Human nature [cover your face]!
Men cannot be accustomed to it, the more they become, the more bastard it becomes; women have to be favored, and the more they are pampered, the more they are, the more they are! Haha, famous sayings and aphorisms are truly not to deceive me [laughing and crying]!
