Which is more important, whether to give birth or to raise grace? This is a question worth pondering. 24 years ago, a wealthy business couple in Zhejiang sent their biological daughter to the mountains of Shaanxi, and then took the child back six years later.
When the girl Zhu Yuting was 23 years old, she concealed her biological parents' efforts to find adoptive parents in order to repay her kindness for raising her. What happened to her in those 6 years? Why did she be so obsessed with her adoptive parents?
left 3 Zhu Yuting, 4 on the left is Yuluqing
abandonment of biological parents, and adoptive parents never leave
In the winter of 1998, 5-year-old Zhu Yuting got up early as usual, brushed her teeth and washed her face. Her mother also braided her two braids and put on a beautiful dress.
Mother said that she would take her to visit her relatives today and let her behave well and cute in front of her relatives. Little Zhu Yuting nodded repeatedly.
In winter, it's too cold, and the wind hurts on your face, but when you can go out with your parents, little Zhu Yuting doesn't feel cold at all, but is happy and excited.
But Xiaoyuting doesn't know that after this, she will be separated from her parents for 7 years.
Because Zhu Yuting's parents are both in coal business, as the business increases, they become more and more busy, and it is difficult for both of them to take into account both their family and career.
Even if they find a nanny, it is difficult for them to take care of their daughter's feelings. After thinking for a long time, the couple decided to temporarily foster their daughter to someone else's house.
After a long investigation, they selected the Yu family couple in Shahezi Town, Shangluo City, Shaanxi Province. The couple has no children and are very good. They are a family that everyone praises in all villages. Zhu Yuting's parents think they will take good care of Xiao Yuting.
When Xiao Yuting was just taken to the Yu family, the Yu family and his wife liked this little girl with pink and jade. In order to welcome their arrival, the couple prepared a table of food.
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After lunch, Yuting's biological parents quietly left Yu's house while Yuting was not paying attention and returned to the city, leaving behind a 5-year-old daughter.
When Yuting realized that she was looking for her parents, the couple had been away for a long time. Xiao Yuting cried endlessly in the direction where her parents left.
In order to make Xiaoyuting happy, her adoptive mother gave her a drink, took her out to play, and made a face to make her laugh, but there was no way to comfort the child, and she was still crying and trying to go home.
Until the evening, Xiao Yuting fell asleep when she was tired from crying. Her adoptive mother Bai Shuyun hugged her and hummed a nursery rhyme gently. Looking at Xiao Yuting, who was still crying even when she fell asleep, Bai Shuyun felt very distressed.
However, slowly, under the patient guidance of Yu Luqing and his wife and their wholehearted love, Xiao Yuting gradually adapted to her new life and made many friends here.
What’s amazing is that Bai Shuyun has always suffered from an intermittent mental illness, and with the arrival of Xiao Yuting, this disease rarely occurs again.
It is not just that the Yu family raised Xiao Yuting and saved her complete and free childhood. It would be better to say that they are saving each other, and Xiao Yuting's arrival has also added a lot of joy and vitality to this family.
Since Xiao Yuting came to Yu’s house, the Yu couple has to take out their hearts and put them in front of Xiao Yuting. They really like Xiao Yuting and treat her sincerely.
Although life is difficult, Yu Luqing and his wife are willing to spend money on Yuting. Moreover, his adoptive father Yu Luqing often buys small toys and beautiful skirts for Yuting.
adoptive mother Bai Shuyun will also give Yuting various beautiful hairstyles every day, which will arouse the envy of Xiaoyuting's friends every time. Looking at Yuting's happy smile, the couple felt that everything they did was worth it.
Xiao Yuting When she was 6 years old, Yu Luqing and his wife sent her to school and started studying. The school facilities in the village were very dilapidated, and the desks and chairs were cold and hard. The adoptive mother was worried that Yuting was too tired to sit and study, so she sewed soft cotton mats for her overnight.
At this time, Xiaoyuting had spent nearly a year at the Yu family, but her biological parents had never seen her once.
Xiao Yuting fell ill without warning after several months of going to school and developed a high fever. The Yu family and his wife kept cooling her physically with a wet towel, and kept guarding her for the whole night.
Later, Yu Luqing saw that his daughter's fever had not subsided, so he was anxious. He put on his coat and carried Yuting on his back and ran to the town clinic. The adoptive mother, who had a weak bones, followed closely behind.
The two ran for more than ten kilometers of mountain road in the dark and sent Yuting to the town health center. It was already dawn at this time.
The adoptive father knocked on the door of the health center and asked the doctor in the clinic to treat Xiao Yuting. After the doctor's treatment, Xiao Yuting finally subsided, and the couple felt relieved.
In Xiaoyuting's childhood memory, her adoptive parents had too much kindness to her and gave her too much love.
Slowly, Xiao Yuting grew up, and her relationship with the Yu family couple became deeper and deeper, and the family lived a happier and happier life.
Bird parents returned, and once "flesh" separated
One day in 2004, the arrival of a couple broke the peaceful days of the Yu family.
When she saw the couple, her adoptive mother Bai Shuyun was stunned, and then she immediately realized the purpose of their visit. Bai Shuyun turned her head and looked at Zhu Yuting's room, unable to control her emotions and shed tears.
This couple is Zhu Yuting's biological parents. They are determined to see their daughter who has not seen for 6 years. Before Bai Shuyun can speak, they rushed into Zhu Yuting's room.
When they saw their daughter who had not seen for 6 years, they immediately rushed forward and hugged Yuting, and said excitedly: "My child, you have suffered. Do you still know your parents? Now we are here to pick you up and our family is finally going to reunite."
Hearing this sentence, the adoptive mother Bai Shuyun felt a lot empty. For a moment, she felt that the sky was falling and the earth was sinking. She was a little helpless, but her husband was not at home at this time, and she didn't know what to do.
But what she knew was that the day of parting was coming.
Zhu Yuting and her adoptive father
Zhu Yuting is a little unfamiliar with these two couples who claim to be their "biological parents". She broke free from their arms, ran to her adoptive mother, and hid behind her adoptive mother.
Seeing this scene, Zhu Yuting's biological parents felt even more uncomfortable. What else in this world is more sad than a biological daughter who refuses to recognize herself.
But it is understandable that Zhu Yuting doesn't recognize them. After all, they have never shown any of them in 6 years. Zhu Yuting once felt inferior when she was a child. She thought she was not obedient enough, so her parents didn't want her.
Fortunately, the love of adoptive parents filled Zhu Yuting's inner inferiority and sensitivity. They made Zhu Yuting realize that she was good and that she was worthy of being loved.
Faced with his daughter's alienation, Zhu Yuting's biological parents cried and told the reason why they did not come to pick Yuting up home over the years.
It turned out that Zhu Yuting's biological parents only wanted to ask the Yu family and his wife to help take care of their daughter for a few months. They thought that after they finished the work, they would take their daughter back.
But later, the small coal mine they operated suddenly had an accident, collapsed and caused many casualties. In order to compensate for the losses of the casualties, the two almost lost all their money and had to return to Zhejiang to avoid the limelight.
At that time, they wanted to pick up their daughter, but before leaving, they had no money, so they could not afford the expenses they promised to help the Yu family take care of their daughter, so they had no choice but to leave first.
In fact, they had secretly come to the village to see their daughter before. Seeing that her daughter was living here very happily, she thought to wait for a while. Their careers were stable and their lives were getting better before taking back their daughter.
I didn’t expect that this separation lasted for 6 years. Seeing that my daughter has grown up and become sensible.
And the couple finally paid off all their debts back then, and their lives gradually got better. That's why I decided to take my daughter home at this time.
However, at this time, there were only Bai Shuyun and Zhu Yuting at home. The adoptive father Yu Luqing went to work in the county construction site, and it took a long time to go home.
Yuting's biological father immediately called Yu Luqing. Maybe God didn't want him to watch his daughter leave, so several calls were not answered.
Zhu Yuting's biological parents were in a tangle at this time. They all knew that Bai Shuyun suffered from intermittent mental illness and could not be too emotional.
They were worried that Bai Shuyun would not be able to bear it. If something happened, the situation would be broken. So, Zhu Yuting's biological mother said to Bai Shuyun: "Sister, we haven't seen the child for a long time. Can we find a place with the child to play for a while? We will come back later."
Bai Shuyun was silent for a long time before nodding in agreement. She knew very well that it would be difficult for Yuting to come back after leaving.
But she had no reason to refuse, because Yuting was their biological child, and she did say that she would foster the child at her own home. Now, they have no reason to stop them from taking their children away.
Thinking of this, Bai Shuyun's tears rolled in her eyes. She held Yuting's hand tightly, unwilling to let go for a long time. In her heart, she still fantasized that maybe Yuting would be sent back.
The scene of the adoptive mother holding her hand and crying became Zhu Yuting's last memory of her adoptive mother.
Then, the reluctant Yuting was pulled into the car by her biological parents and went to the city of Shangluo together. They bought her a lot of things and kept asking her about her life stories over the years in a flattering tone along the way.
When Zhu Yuting asked them to send her home, her biological parents insisted on bringing her back to her original home no matter how she cried.
Although the living conditions, food, clothing, housing and use of this family are several times better than those of the Yu family, Zhu Yuting doesn't like it at all.
She deeply missed the home deep in Shangluo Mountains. She was worried that her adoptive father who was working outside of the city would have physical problems, and she was worried that her adoptive mother would be more serious because she was worried about herself.
Zhu Yuting rejects this family and her biological parents. Because in their eyes, adoptive parents do their best to take care of their daughter because they collect their money.
But Zhu Yuting knew that her adoptive parents really treated themselves as their biological daughter. Compared to being a little princess in a wealthy family, she wants to be the baby she is loved at her adoptive parents' home.
However, Zhu Yuting's parents were determined not to let Zhu Yuting contact with the Yu family couple again. No matter how Yuting cried, they were unwilling to tell her the specific family address of her adoptive parents.
This made Zhu Yuting’s later search extremely difficult.
The obsession in my heart, 12 years of searching for "family"
In 2015, Zhu Yuting, who graduated from college, found a job in Zhejiang. In addition, she will do some manual sales online so that she can be financially independent as soon as possible.
All this is to find the adoptive parents who have raised themselves for 6 years after saving enough money. Although 11 years have passed, Zhu Yuting's idea of finding her adoptive parents has not wavered.
in her opinion. The adoptive parents are now almost in their seventies. If they hesitate and refuse to act, they may not even have time to say thank you.
If you miss it in this life, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
But because Zhu Yuting was too young at that time and was separated from her adoptive parents' home for too long. She really couldn't remember the specific address of her adoptive parents' home. She only remembered that her adoptive father was working in Shangluo City, Shaanxi at that time, and the village was in the mountains around Shangluo.
She still remembers that when she was a child, she had to walk four or five hours a day when she went to school, and the name of the primary school was Hope Primary School.
Zhu Yuting walked through many villages near Shangluo and asked many people, but none of them found any valid information about their adoptive parents.
Zhu Yuting found the media for help, and the media released Yuting's information through the Internet.
After being forwarded by netizens and spread by the local public security bureau in Shaanxi, she finally got news about her adoptive parents.
In the process of looking for relatives, she met a local person. He told Zhu Yuting that there was a man named Yu Luqing in Jiulongdong Village, Shahezi Town nearby. He was probably the person Zhu Yuting was looking for.
After learning the news, Zhu Yuting couldn't wait to follow the locals to the village. As Yuting embarked on this journey, many memories were gradually awakened during the bumps along the way.
After a few hours of driving, Zhu Yuting recognized the village she lived in as a child.Even if 11 years apart, all the memories of childhood instantly emerge in my mind.
Standing at the entrance of the village, she knew that she had really returned to the village she had been dreaming about for 12 years, and soon she would meet her adoptive parents whom she had missed for many years.
Walking through the country road that I have walked countless times before, Zhu Yuting became more and more excited, her tears were spinning in her eyes, and her pace became faster and faster as the memories awakened.
Finally, she saw the adoptive father and ran towards her adoptive father desperately. And when his adoptive father saw the girl running towards him, he was in a daze for a few seconds.
He looked at Zhu Yuting several times, and then asked excitedly: "Doll, where are you from? Are you my girl Tingting?"
It has been 11 years since his daughter left, and no one can understand how desperate he felt when he returned home when he was facing the news that his daughter was taken away by his biological parents.
Over the years, he has been hoping that his daughter will come back to find him, but more than ten years have passed and there is no news at all. He has long since no hope in his heart. Unexpectedly, now, in his lifetime, he can meet his daughter again.
In Zhu Yuting's impression, her adoptive father has not changed much, but he is thinner and hunched than before. When Yu Luqing asked the words in a slightly trembling voice, Zhu Yuting ran towards Yu Luqing directly.
The thousands of words in my heart couldn't say a word for a moment, and just rushed over and hugged my adoptive father tightly, and the two hugged each other and cried bitterly.
When their emotions stabilized a little, Zhu Yuting asked where the adoptive mother had gone. Yu Luqing told her that Bai Shuyun had died of illness four years ago.
It turned out that after Zhu Yuting was taken away by her biological parents, Bai Shuyun's old illness relapsed, she was defeated like a mountain of defeat, and finally died of illness.
But even before leaving, Bai Shuyun kept reminding her wife that if Yuting comes back one day, remember to let her go to the grave to see me.
Yuting was sad when she heard the news of her adoptive mother's death. She blamed herself for why she didn't come back early. With her longing and regret for her adoptive mother, Zhu Yuting went to her adoptive mother's grave with her adoptive father.
In front of Bai Shuyun's grave, Zhu Yuting knelt down on her knees, kneeling deeply at her adoptive mother under the nine springs and cried in tears.
That night, Zhu Yuting and her adoptive father kept chatting, telling each other's experiences over the past 11 years, sighing at each other's happiness and impermanence in life, and the father and daughter who met again for a long time chatted all night.
Later, Zhu Yuting advised her adoptive father to go to the nursing home and she would pay the money. Yu Luqing said that he was still strong and used to living here. He also had his wife’s grave outside the door, so he was also comforted by looking at it every day.
After dawn, Zhu Yuting brought her adoptive father to Shangluo City , picked up a few more clothes for him, and bought some daily necessities for her family. Finally, she bought a mobile phone for her adoptive father, so that it would be more convenient to contact her adoptive father in the future.
After accompanying his adoptive father in the village for a few days, Zhu Yuting returned to Zhoushan, Zhejiang to continue working. Before leaving, she left a sum of money for her adoptive father to take good care of her health and said that she would visit him frequently.
From now on, no matter how busy Zhu Yuting is, she will always take time to call her adoptive father and tell him to eat and wear warmth. At the same time, she often buys some daily necessities online to her relatives’ homes in the city, so that they can bring them to their adoptive father when they return to the village when they have time.
Now, in order to avoid the regret of "the son wants to support him but the parents are not waiting for him". Zhu Yuting rented a house in Shangluo City and took her adoptive father to live there. After all, there are some relatives and friends there who can help her take care of her adoptive father more.
She said that her adoptive father is old and doesn't want him to go back to the countryside to suffer, and wants him to enjoy his old age in the city.
Her biological parents initially opposed their daughter's behavior.
But when they saw their daughter laughing happily in front of Yu Luqing, they suddenly felt relieved. As long as the daughter is happy, it will fulfill her wishes. After all, they have always expected their daughter to be grateful.
It is true that in today's complex world of material desires, good people may be more and more powerless to be rewarded. Many people believe that egoism is the key to opening the door to happiness.
However, not everyone is only concerned about themselves. Some people know how to be grateful than doing everything for themselves.
Although Zhu Yuting has no blood relationship with her adoptive parents, their emotions transcend the bonds of blood relationship. Love can heal everything. Even if there has been pain, it will be healed by love. However, the prerequisite for healing is to be able to accept love with a grateful heart.
(The pictures and story materials are all from the Internet)
