Chinese culture is profound and profound. The most connotative word "virtuous" is to tell men that you must have a virtuous and kind woman at home so that your heart can be safe.
The old saying goes: "A good wife and a good husband" may be the most profound explanation of this word.
Whether a family is safe and happy, and whether the younger generation is prepared, are directly related to the behavior of the mistress of this family
Women are well-mannered, kind-hearted, and kind-hearted will bring endless blessings to their family and offspring, avoiding countless misfortunes. If the mistress in the family has poisonous thoughts, misbehavior, and promiscuousness and perversion, it will cause the family to lose peace, which will not only endanger yourself and your family, but also affect your descendants.
So it is said: "Good women are prosperous for three generations, and bad women are harmed for three generations."
A virtuous wife, who cares about husband and children, is a virtuous person in dealing with people, and will not bring unnecessary disasters to men. Behind you can also guide men what can be done and what can’t be done. When a husband and wife are united, their strength will break the gold. Go to the same place, and work to the same place.
A good woman can allow men to go bravely in their careers and have no worries in their family. There are warm harbors to dock at any time and anywhere. On the contrary, it means that the family is restless and the land is messy.
Therefore, the happiness and prosperity of a family cannot be separated from such a woman. The best Feng Shui for a family is women
1 Virtue
0 Since ancient times, women have the responsibility to "take care of their husbands and children". Together with "Meng's Mother Three Movements", "Handling Mother with Tao" and "Handling Mother with Yu", "Handling Mother with Ou", "Handling Mother with Di", and "Handling Mother-in-law's Tattoo ", these stories are passed down from generation to generation and are forever praised.
A woman's temper and character seriously affect the next generation. People often say that "there is a mother, the same daughter," "the upper beam is not straight, the lower beam is crooked", etc. Parents cannot be said to be a true portrayal of the child's future, but it has an absolute impact.
In most families, mothers are often with their children, so mothers have a great impact on their children.
In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Cao Cao took a fancy to the talent of Xu Shu and wanted him to serve him. But Cao Cao used the wrong method. First, he banned Xu's mother, and then imitated Xu's mother's handwriting and wrote a letter to Xu Shu, allowing Xu Shu to enter Cao's camp. The filial son Xu Shu bid farewell to Liu Bei . He only realized that he was cheated when he came to Cao's camp, but it was too late.
Xu's mother is a virtuous mother with a straightforward personality. She wrote down justice with her life. From then on, Xu Shu did not offer a plan in Cao's camp. This is the famous allusion of "Xu Shu entered Cao's camp without saying a word".
First there is a virtuous mother, then there will be filial sons and grandchildren; only with a good mother, there will be loyal ministers and righteous men. The mother is virtuous and kind, and the children are loyal and kind. The mother has a gentle atmosphere and the child is broad-minded. The mother is calm and introverted, and the child is smart and wise. The mother's pattern determines the child's life index
2 Good
Kindness is a woman's nature.
Women can have no "show outside" but not "wisdom in the middle".
Women, have no beauty, but they cannot abandon kindness.
Because beautiful faces will eventually age, and a kind heart can last forever.
Writer Lin Qingxuan in the book "Beautiful Heart, Everything is Beautiful": Beautiful Heart, Everything is Beautiful; Beautiful Heart, Everything is Beautiful; Be sincere, everything is sincere.
If a woman is kind, she will not always cause trouble and will not have negative impact on her children.
I have seen such words: "The face is born from the heart, and a kind heart means beautiful. It is better to be calm than plastic surgery!" Yes, the beauty of the soul is more important than all external decorative beauty.
So women must be kind, so that the family atmosphere will be better, and the children at home will be more polite and sensible. After all, children are the future of the motherland and the future of a family. If you educate your children well, the blessings of your family will naturally come.
The role of a woman in the family is very important. They are family thermometers and also family umbrellas.
In a family, women are kind-hearted, and the relationship between husband and wife is good, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be wrong. The family will be harmonious and intimate, and blessings will naturally come.
Therefore, women must be kind, which not only preserves themselves, but also nourishes others and inherits virtues.
3 De
The ancients said: "You will know your wife as soon as you have a meal, and you must know that the mother looks at the child's clothes."
Throughout history, how many virtuous women have supported the happiness and harmony of countless families with their diligence, perseverance, love, tolerance, understanding and magnanimity.
A woman is the best Feng Shui in the family. Her virtue at home determines the happiness of the family.
There is a virtuous mistress in a family, and this family will definitely prosper.
"Zengguang Xianwen" once said: "A good wife and husband are less harmful to each other, and a filial son and a broad mind for the father." Behind a successful man, there must be a wife who silently supports him.
The famous Empress Ma in history, his relationship with Zhu Yuanzhang is not just a couple, they support each other and share the hardships. If Queen Ma had no good moral contribution, there would be no Ming Dynasty of Zhu Yuanzhang.
When Zhu Yuanzhang was detained by Guo Zixing , it was Empress Ma who risked his life to deliver food to him. In order to let the husband have hot rice, he secretly slapped his chest, causing burns on his chest.
When Zhu Yuanzhang and Chen Youliang fought with Chen Youliang , Empress Ma used all her money and jewelry to comfort the military, and also organized women to sew clothes. Boost soldiers' morale. Let Zhu Yuanzhang fight without worries.
Even though Zhu Yuanzhang later became Huangdi , Empress Ma was still thrifty. He also often advised Zhu Yuanzhang to reduce taxes for the people.
, and Empress Ma repeatedly dissuaded Zhu Yuanzhang from killing heroes. Song Lian, Li Wenzhong , Zhu Wenzheng and others were all rescued by Empress Ma.
Even though Queen Ma was seriously ill later, she refused to treat the imperial doctor because she was worried that she would implicate the imperial doctor.
Empress Ma's virtue affected Zhu Yuanzhang's life. After Empress Ma's death, Zhu Yuanzhang also began to become extreme and suspicious.
Han Gaozu Liu Bang's Empress Lü , virtuous, virtuous, virtuous, well-behaved, and knowledgeable, polite and knowledgeable, and with one heart and virtue with her husband, helping Liu Bang conquer the world with peace of mind and ultimately achieve hegemony.
As the saying goes: If a man wants to achieve brilliant success, he must have a woman of good character behind him.
All amazing women are hermaphrodites, gentle and strong, tender and tender, and hard and soft. Women are as gentle as water and warm as the sun. The strong shoulders support the blue sky of their career and family.
Therefore, the best Feng Shui in a family is to have a virtuous and kind woman.
