"Hello everyone, everyone, welcome to listen to today's Voice of the Disabled Persons' Federation program. I am the host Liang Shuai--"
This voice is both soft and quiet, warm and powerful, just like a ray of sunshine in the morning.
can't help but imagine what kind of girl would be with this wonderful sound.
But unlike everyone's expectations, she is a severely burned girl with a strange appearance.
6 years ago, she was 5 years old and suffered a car accident. The area of burns was 87%, and she burned ten fingers, right leg and right foot, and even her lips were burned.
But later, she learned calligraphy, learned several languages, went to college... twice to win the gold medal in the international calligraphy competition, ten times to win the gold medal in the national competition, and was awarded the title of "Contemporary Chinese Calligrapher" by Chinese Calligraphers Association .
She also realized her dream and became a radio host.
Her name is Liang Shuai.
(Liang Shuai)
How did she spend these 26 years? Why is her life so glorious?
Let’s take a look at Liang Shuai’s story.
July 1, in Shenyang, the bright cry of a baby girl broke the sound of rain outside the window, and a little life was born, she was Liang Shuai.
Round face, big eyes, small mouth, sweet dimples, Liang Shuai is a beautiful girl.
Liang Zhongyang and Shao Jianmin, who were first father and mother, were so happy that they spoiled their daughter in a perfect way, "If you hold it in your mouth, you will be afraid of melting it, and if you hold it in your palm, you will be afraid of falling off."
Xiao Liang Shuai grew up lively and cutely under the care of her parents and relatives.
(Liang Shuai and his parents when he was a child)
But when she was 5 years old, just the day before Children's Day, her fate was severely strangled.
In the evening of May 31, 1996, Liang Zhongyang rode a sideboard motorcycle, took his wife and daughter back to his hometown in Faku County to attend the wedding.
At the same time, I also took this opportunity to visit my parents, let the elderly see their granddaughter and enjoy this joy of family.
Walked to a dry bridge. Because the bridge was narrow, Liang Zhongyang drove carefully.
But man-made disasters came from the sky, a large truck crashed into it, the motorcycle was knocked away and fell under a 3-meter-high bridge. The moment
hit the ground, the motorcycle fuel tank burst, and the oil encountered the hot engine, instantly igniting the entire vehicle.
After Liang Zhongyang woke up, he instinctively searched for his wife and daughter.
My wife crawled out of the car like a fire man, and he desperately slapped the flames on his wife.
The wife shouted in pain, "Save the child quickly, she is in the car..."
Liang Zhongyang dragged one of the scratched legs and went to the motorcycle with fire to look for the child.
He pulled the child out of the locked car. The couple didn't care about the injuries on their bodies and tried their best to put out the fire with the sand on the ground.
In just a few minutes, Xiao Liang's facial features were so burnt that he couldn't see clearly. The part of his mouth became an "O" shape, his fingers were charred, his right foot was burned, and only a piece of his right leg was left.
Shao Jianmin screamed and fainted from crying.
Liang Zhongyang picked up his daughter and ran to the shore. He met a truck driver who took them to the hospital.
Liang Zhongyang is a person who knows how to be grateful. Many years later, he can still blurt out the driver's name Wang Yingjie.
After diagnosis and measurement, Xiao Liang Shuai's whole body burned to 87%, and a third-degree burn , and his life was in danger.
During the rescue process, the doctor told the couple that the child was no longer good.
Liang Zhongyang burst into tears and knelt down at the doctor with a plop, "Doctor, please save my daughter no matter how you lose everything, even if you lose everything, as long as she can live, I will be satisfied."
Doctor was moved by this Northeastern man who loved his daughter and tried his best to rescue him.
After more than ten hours of surgery, Xiao Liang Shuai finally broke free from the claws of the god of death.
life was saved, but Xiao Liangshuai's ten fingers were brushed together and two sections were amputated, and his right leg was amputated. The burn wound still needs a long repair and recovery process.
She began to undergo various surgery of all sizes and sizes .
Wherever the skin is tight, just loosen. Wherever the skin is not enough, just graft the skin.
Skin grafting should be taken from the scalp, cut the scalp into corn-sized pieces with scalp and stuff it onto the wound, so that it can grow into new skin.
After the scalp is grown, take it and spread it again...
gauze wrapped around your body, just like a mummy; because to prevent adhesion, all limbs must be hung up;
can't eat, so you can only cut open a large artery on the root of your thigh, eat needles, and hang nutrient solution.
The other leg is hung with anti-inflammatory drugs, because there is no skin protection, liquid will seep out of the gauze.
Shao Jianmin was also seriously burned, with an area of 50% of the whole body.
Liang Zhongyang's leg was forcibly sutured for 46 stitches due to serious injuries.
Liang Zhongyang felt guilty and felt that he would rather suffer this crime than protect his wife and daughter.
In Xiao Liangshuai's memory, she was in a semi-coma state, and it was a luxury to take a look at it more.
But she still saw her father dragging his injured leg, guarding herself outside the glass plate of in the intensive care unit of again and again.
is a little older. She often wonders how he hugged himself and climbed up step by step.
In fact, under the inspiration of love, human potential is unlimited.
The hospitalization fee is sometimes 1,000 yuan a day, and it costs 60,000 yuan in 3 months.
Liang Zhongyang went to the exchange to sell his only house with crutches, borrowed all his relatives, and paid medical expenses.
Neither of the couple was willing to spend money on themselves. Without hesitation, they would do their best to treat their daughter.
But due to the cost issue, Xiao Liangshuai was discharged from the hospital without completely recovering.
A family of three, three patients, rode a bicycle to Xiaoliang Shuai's grandma's house.
When I got home, the doctor's words were like a "curse", gnawing on the hearts of the couple.
is lucky to be able to save one's life. The skin stickiness is very strong. You can take a wheelchair in the future.
has obtained the scalp too many times, so you can wear a wig in the future.
Both husband and wife were soldiers in their early years and had tenacious and optimistic qualities.
Liang Zhongyang stubbornly hides a belief in his heart that his daughter can live a normal life like other children.
even, he subconsciously refused to accept the fact that his daughter was burned.
Once, Liang Zhongyang went home to pick up things, knocking on the door and calling his daughter's name habitually.
The daughter staggered and opened the door, raised her little face to look at him.
He was shocked first, then suddenly woke up, and then hugged his daughter and cried.
There is a big mirror at home. Once, Xiao Liangshuai looked at himself in the mirror and asked his father why he became like this.
The daughter's question broke Liang Zhongyang's heart. He picked up the scissors beside him and poked the mirror in one go.
(Liang Shuai wrote with a pen)
In order to make up for the surgery fee for his daughter, Liang Zhongyang and his wife went to work during the day, set up stalls and sold barbecues at night.
They have also sold blood and thought about selling kidneys.
According to a friend, Liang Zhongyang went to a hotel and a nightclub to make money.
After returning home, the couple also had to bathe their daughter, change their dressings, massage and do rehabilitation training.
Local citizens also donated money to help Liang Shuai complete "face-changing" operations again and again.
And Xiao Liangshuai is getting stronger and stronger, gritting his teeth and enduring the pain, and enduring the level after level.
Half a year later, Xiao Liangshuai installed a prosthetic limb on his right leg.
From being shaking and not daring to walking, to being stumbled and bleeding, to finally being able to walk, it was heartbreaking all the way.
Once, Liang Shuai was going to the bathroom. She insisted on not letting her mother help her, so she moved over step by step.
As soon as he entered the door, Liang Zhongyang and his wife heard a gurgle.
The wife was so distressed that she wanted to rush over to help her daughter, but Liang Zhongyang waved her hand and signaled her not to go over.
"Let her get up by herself, she must face this day."
The couple listened to their daughter's movements with their ears. As long as she called them, they would rush over immediately.
But Xiao Liangshuai never called them.
After the daughter came back, they asked her, "Are you okay?" She said, "It's okay."
Seeing that the daughter's right leg prosthetic limb was already bleeding in her eyes, the couple felt distressed, but they were more relieved.
They choose to let go "ruthlessly" and are the most heavy love.
I am very lucky, Xiao Liang's handsome hair has grown dense again.
Just like that, the original "curse" was broken one by one, and it was impossible to become possible.
The couple is always considering their daughter's future, and make up their minds to let their daughter have a skill and try to live a normal life.
They sent Liang Shuai to an ordinary school and received a normal education.
Seeing that Liang Shuai likes to draw and write, they hired a calligraphy teacher for her.
A caring female college student also guided Liang Shuai to learn English.
Can't hold the pen in your hand, so Xiao Liangshuai wrote with his mouth.
The pen tube is very hard, the teeth cannot bite, and the cavity is grinding. It often makes saliva and blood flow along the pen to the paper.
Wait until my father wiped her dry, then I bite my pen and practice.
Xiao Liang's mouth hurts so much that he dares not eat hard foods. He can only drink porridge, and oral ulcers are even more common.
The mother said with heartache: "Lao Liang, don't let the child learn."
"No, you must have a skill."
Just like that, after practicing hard for half a year, Xiao Liang didn't know how much blood was in his mouth, and how many brushes he had bald, he finally could use his brush with his mouth to use his mouth to freely use his brush.
Seeing her writing the word "life" for the first time, Liang Zhongyang and his wife cried with joy.
While they take care of their daughter's body and exercise her skills, they are also maintaining her mental health.
When Xiao Liangshuai was in the second grade of elementary school, a girl suddenly said:
"You burned it like this, it's so ugly, what kind of book you read! Do you know that you look scary?"
Moreover, elementary school students also like to call nicknames and play pranks, so Xiao Liangshuai naturally cannot be spared.
When walking on the road, she is always pointed at by others.
Xiao Liang Shuai told her parents, and her mother cried with pain.
Mother wiped her tears and told her that when she became excellent, no one dared to underestimate her.
The father walked over by her side and came over, saying something she would never forget:
"Daughter, remember, there are only people in this world that are looked down upon, and there is no face that is looked down upon."
I can't bear to tell my daughter what she will face in the future, Liang Zhongyang told a lie carefully.
"Daughter, as long as you cooperate with the treatment, your hands and feet will grow."
Xiao Liang Shuai always believed in her father until the sixth grade of elementary school. She knew that this was just a beautiful lie of her father.
Xiao Liang Shuai also gradually understood the good intentions of his parents, the inner is more important than the outer. She wants to cultivate her inner self and regain her confidence.
999, in the World Chinese Calligraphy Competition, 8-year-old Liang Shuai wrote the 10 big words "Heroic spirit of heaven and earth, great love for wanderers" with his pen in his mouth and won the gold medal.001, at a charity sale, Liang Shuai's work "True Love" was auctioned at a maximum price of 3,500 yuan on the spot, and Liang Zhongyang and his wife donated the money on the spot.At the award ceremony, her fluent English speech won everyone's applause.
Since then, she has participated in international and domestic calligraphy competitions many times, won the gold medal in international competitions twice, won the gold medal in national competitions ten times, and was awarded the title of "Chinese Contemporary Calligrapher" by the Chinese Calligraphers Association.
On December 3, 2003, the 12th World Disability Day, At the city’s report on advanced deeds of disabled people, Liang Shuai took the stage to give a speech as a representative of disabled teenagers. Her speech moved more than 1,300 viewers to tears.
After entering high school, Liang Shuai was interested in choosing the direction of the art exam, and she wanted to realize her dream of broadcasting and hosting.
My father found a training school for her, and she had the opportunity to learn from experienced directors.
After careful preparation for the exam, her initial exam score ranked third in the campus.
But among the outstanding art candidates, her strangeness made the examiners vote against it.
Finally, she failed the exam.
failed the art exam, suffered indifference and rolling eyes. Even though she was strong, Liang Shuai still couldn't hold on. When she returned home, she burst into tears.
She questioned the sentence "There are only people who look down on people in this world, and no faces that are looked down on people."
As a last resort, Liang Shuai had to prepare for the normal college entrance examination review.
Fortunately, she has a solid foundation in cultural courses and was admitted to the economics major of Northeastern University.
But she missed the broadcasting and hosting major, which made her feel a lot of blow, and she often talked to herself, and was under a lot of pressure.
The father was anxious when he saw it. During that time, he smoked three packs of cigarettes a day, racked his brains to think about how to open the knot of his daughter's heart.
He mobilized his daughter to study psychology in class.
Liang Zhongyang took Liang Shuai to participate in the psychology knowledge training and both obtained the national second-level psychological counselor certificate.
Liang Shuai has always had a warm memory.
After the college entrance examination, my father captured a detail of her and found that she looked at her classmate's SLR camera with envious expression.
So, without telling her family, my father paid in installments to buy her one.
She looked happy.
"Dad will give you what you can give to you. Dad never thinks you are different from other children, and you even have what other children don't have..."
The mother was in a daze, looking at the expensive camera, and asked her father angrily what she bought this for.
The father said, "I hope my daughter can see more."
Indeed, Liang Shuai's life has been passing after the car accident.
But every hurdle and every hurdle, my father is participating in it, giving her a mountain of fatherly love.
Through psychology learning, she was able to face everything she had calmly.
"A lot of things, when they have happened to you, all you can do is how to make it better, instead of staying in the same place and complaining. I never thought of giving up."
The optimistic, strong and warm company of parents not only gave her the courage to face disaster, but also gave her a healthy heart.
In the kitchen, the mother and daughter chat while cooking, and bursts of laughter came from laughter;
Both father and Liang Shuai love k songs, and they also like to sing Teresa Teng songs;
Parents will accompany her to take the exam and encourage her before entering the exam room...
In this warm and loving home, Liang Shuai has also grown into a girl who loves life and is meticulous and capable.
She likes to do things to the extreme.
Mother praised her: "She can't manage everything at home without her, and she will be a good person in the future."
What to use and what you need to buy at home, she made it clear that she is a well-managed girl born in the 1990s.
She has a wide range of interests and likes online games; she taught herself Japanese, translated foreign videos with netizens; she likes photography, astronomy, geography... Her inner world is rich enough.
She will also make an appointment with friends to visit with her when she is free On the street, I have been able to face the fingers and fingers of others calmly.
There is a saying that if you never forget it, there will be a response.
In my junior year, Liang Shuai received a call from the Shenyang Disabled Persons' Federation. It turned out that he was the recruiting host of the Voice of the Disabled Persons' Federation program of the Provincial Radio and Television Station, and wanted her to try it.
His father told her: "Be prepared well, the opportunity is for those who are prepared. "
arrived at the scene and saw multiple candidates preparing for the audition. Liang Shuai suddenly felt nervous during the art exam.
But she still did psychological construction for herself and achieved the best results.
Her excellence attracted the attention of the former host. After perfectly writing an article about her experience and showing her good writing skills, she was hired.
Her "autobiographical" article also moved the host. Because it was too inspirational, the host put the article on it. Printed and posted it in her daughter's room.
With the help of the host, Liang Shuai's voice finally appeared on the show, and his dream finally came true.
At this moment, she cried with joy.
She became the host of the Voice of the Disabled Persons' Federation of Radio and Television Station.
At this moment, she finally believed in her father's sentence, "There are only people who look down on people in this world, and no faces that are looked down on people. "
Over the past 20 years, Liang Shuai has undergone 29 major surgeries and countless minor surgeries, and has been sewn with more than 10,000 needles on his body. was confirmed by the "Guinness's Best in the World" as the person with the largest number of stitches in the world. She also received the name of "patch girl" because of this.
In September 2017, Liang Shuai came to the "Thank you for coming" program, and she came to thank her father.
She has thick hair, her eyes are firm, and her whole body is confident. When she opens her voice, she feels like a spring breeze.
3 She said that her father is her hero and her eternal male god. From a car accident, to her going to elementary school, learning calligraphy, and then graduating from college, walking back to the radio station... From his kind lies to his words "There are only people who look down on this world, and no faces that look down on people." The father helped her all the way and made her reborn. The father gave too much for her. After the car accident, her father never celebrated his birthday, but celebrated her birthday every year. At the scene, Liang Shuai gave his father an birthday cake html l2, The picture of a family of three smiling and holding a cake in their hands makes people feel warm. Liang Shuai is a person who knows how to be grateful. She remembers the help people in society to her. Now, she has the ability to repay and care for others. Liang Shuai has established a public welfare psychology studio, and she has helped many people. Whenever she sees them suddenly enlightened, she is very happy. This time she is on the show, she also wants to take this opportunity to let more people know about her studio, hoping that she can bring positive energy to more people.
Liang Shuai is like a flame, illuminating himself and illuminating others.
Her story makes us see too many touches in life.
Finally, I would like to borrow Liang Shuai's words to encourage everyone.
Every operation is like a torture, and it is like rebirth, but I am not afraid, because I have dreams and hope in my heart.
Let us wish Liang Shuai better and better.
Author: Zhu Xiaolu & Lele
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