"About Women's Liberation" is not interested in the author's topic of women's liberation. It would be fine if I didn’t talk about it, but when I talked about it, I either felt resentment or revealed some little-known truths.
I don’t know what the author thinks of Confucius. Today is here for me, and I am no longer what I was yesterday.
I have always known that "only women and villains are difficult to raise" comes from Master Confucius. But I never knew that the second half of the sentence turned out to be "If you are close, you will be not rude; if you are far away, you will be resentful." And it is an allusion, which is related to Confucius' personal affairs.
In "Historical Records of Confucius' Family ", it mentioned the trip to Wei State before Confucius . Confucius "had been in Wei for more than a month. Gong Ling and his wife were in the same car. The eunuch Yongqu took the ride out and asked Confucius to be the next ride, and he rushed to the market to pass it. Confucius said: 'I have not seen anyone who loves virtue like lust.' So he was ugly and went to Wei." To roughly translate this passage, Mr. Kong, a contemporary national education model worker, came to Wei State to visit, study and recuperate. But during this period, Mr. Kong suddenly found that he was being fooled. He was just using his identity to show off himself and elevate himself, and he did not really support him in educating the people here. Especially the wife of Wei Linggong , in order to enhance her physical expectations, she publicly showed off and belittled Confucius. Mr. Kong was very depressed and packed his luggage and left Weiguo. After leaving, he calmed down. When he remembered the bad things that his wife of Duke Weiguo relied on favor and was arrogant and domineering and chaotic government and disturbed the people, he sighed: "Only women and villains are hard to raise! If they are close, they are not grandchildren, and if they are far away, they are resentful." Looking at Confucius' trip to the State of Weiguo, he understood everything. He was definitely not saying that he suddenly started to scold all women, including his mother, but that he had a special object, which was the wife of Duke Ling of Wei, Nanzi and others.
originally said to a person, but it turned out to a group. Lao Fuzi is an educator and is not rigorous enough in speaking. Since you have said it, you should mark it. It is for personal grudges, otherwise you should not say it out.
Nowadays, people who can talk about this are usually men. Women cannot say it, even if they want to say it, they will step on their feet instead of putting it beside their mouths.
When I came to the author, my rebuttal to this statement expressed my thoughts. The author said: "Women and villains are included in the same category, but I don't know if their mother is included. Later, the gentlemen of Taoism and finally respected their mothers on the surface, but despite this, Chinese mother-like women are still contemptuous of all men except their sons."
I had a similar question once, and I also knew that this was an unsolvable question that no one could answer. Even if there is, it is perfunctory.
When facing some people, some so-called experts said: "If you can travel through time and space, I hope to travel to Song Dynasty ." It is because the Song Dynasty was first-class in both material and spiritual life. This may be the view of most boys. If they are girls and have some understanding of history, they will definitely not choose to go to the Song Dynasty. Most of them will choose to go to , Tang Dynasty, and , and the period when Wu Zetian ruled.
Only in the Tang Dynasty and under the rule of Wu Zetian could women have higher status. If you go to the Song Dynasty, you will either be bound with your feet or will be in your whole life without leaving the door or stepping on the door. One of the two is that I don’t know how many women’s time travel dreams have been broken, let alone other rules and regulations.