Now, Dalong works in a technology company in Shanghai, and Erlong works as a manager in a company in Suzhou. The two brothers go home for the New Year every Spring Festival, and the second uncle also asks the matchmaker to propose marriage, but they end up in failure every time.
There is a local woman in Dalong's unit. This woman's family is quite rich. Her parents hope that her daughter will recruit a son-in-law at home, but Dalong's father strongly opposes it. Later, the two lovers had to break up.
Dalong has been sad for many years because of this. Can diplomas be used as money? So what if a boy is a graduate student? The girl is interested in the boy's house, not the diploma.
For example, there are two men, one is a rural person, with an average wealth and a university diploma. Another first-tier city has commercial housing and a primary school diploma. If two people go on blind dates with a girl at the same time, who will the girl choose?
The reason is very simple, girls will definitely choose men with houses in first-tier cities.
30 years ago, the family planning is relatively strict. The first child belongs to a girl and will do everything possible to give birth to a boy. If the first child is a boy, rebirth is not allowed. There is also Pu Ji of B-ultrasound. Some people try every means to inquire about pregnant boys or girls. Once they learn that they are baby girls, they will try every means to abort.
Under the strict family planning environment, the ratio of men and women to babies born in those years is severely dysfunctional, resulting in a large number of boys being unable to get married.
Girls will also choose to be a good match when they get married and a boy get married. If a boy has a college diploma, of course, they will marry a girl with a college diploma. Girls with college diplomas have a higher vision and narrow choices, which makes it more difficult for boys with college diplomas to choose.
For example, the two brothers Dalong and Erlong failed to repeatedly date? In the early stage, their parents chose girls, but now they have lost their golden age. In addition, due to their own eloquence, the only few girls were flirted with by men with good eloquence. Nowadays, even if you have a high diploma, there is no one to choose. Their parents said that their son is very outstanding and will not consider a second-marriage woman for the time being.
All concepts of looking at "money" have completely affected women's view of choosing a partner. Even if the man has a high diploma, it will not tempt them. On the contrary, handsome guys and handsome men are more good at making women happy, and they never lack women around them.
Men are not bad, women do not love them.
Women prefer men who are good at sweet words.
As rural college students and graduate students, it is difficult for their parents to help themselves because rural girls are scarce resources. For rural girls, they have a wider range of choices. They will first choose to marry into big cities rather than to be interested in rural college students.
Dalong. Erlong's parents have a mentality of not being too insignificant than being too indiscriminate, which makes it more difficult for them to choose a spouse.
Currently, the two dragon brothers should lower the standards for choosing a spouse, and even if they are second or third marriage, they should consider it. After all, marrying a wife is the perfect family. What should I do when my parents get old? After reading so many books, I became a bachelor, and the sadness in my heart is incomprehensible to ordinary people.
is too ambitious and unrealistic. After all, the general environment determines everything. Women's resources themselves are scarce. Men naturally have to look down to succeed in choosing a spouse.
Men should get married when they are old, and women should get married when they are old. Marrying a wife is perfect. A diploma can help your career. However, at a time when there are too many monks and fewer meat, no matter what method you use, marrying a wife and getting married can make your parents feel at ease.
Men have high diplomas, so it is best to use their diplomas as a springboard. They can start a business or invest in shares. After all, educated men have developed thinking. Going out to make friends from all walks of life, connections also have a positive boost to marriage. If a man owns a factory, would he be afraid that he will not be able to marry a wife?
