In the dark, there seems to be a bridge connecting us and them in another time and space. This bridge may be: we and they are both women.
In this book, the author tells the story of the top ten talented women in ancient times and their legendary lives. The author's articles are sometimes beautiful, humorous, and sad. I put readers into the lives of these women and appreciate their joy, helplessness and stubbornness. Yes, both women, is in line with the past and present, and they are in harmony with each other, making it easier to understand their choices and persistence.
Zhuo Wenjun married a phoenix man and gave his youth, but what he exchanged for was the "no memory" of Sima Xiangru . His sister had the courage to elope and sell wine in a gang. At this moment, she even cleaned up her embarrassment song " Resentful Poetry " accused Sima Xiangru of his indifference. If you don’t cherish the opportunity, don’t blame your sister for being rude. The “ White-headed Song ” attached to “Farewell Poem” completely conquered Sima Xiangru. Everyone in the world lamented her wisdom. Who has ever thought of her pain? Maybe she is as strong as her, and she can only lick her wounds alone in the middle of the night.
Marrying Adou who can't be helped, even if he is as wise as her and virtuous as her, it will be futile in the end. For thousands of years, who insisted on making women be "good women". If your kindness and rules cannot be exchanged for what you want, then change your lifestyle. This is what I want to say to Ban Jieyu the most.
After watching Cai Wenji 's life, I couldn't help but want to ask for a long time: Why do I have to land so much suffering on such a weak woman? Especially the pain of abandoning a child. "Hold my neck in front of my son and ask what my mother wants." "When I saw this, I was in a daze." After reading these two lines of poetry, I burst into tears. If a woman becomes a mother, the child will keep her mother's collapse, which will kill her woman!
Which girl is not in love with spring? Which girl who had not married before was not full of fantasies about her future husband? That person is not in his heart, and it is probably something that women can experience. Sigh only Xie Daoyuan is full of talent and has never found the man who can enjoy the snow with her in his life.
"I am riding a carriage on the oil wall, and my husband rides a green horse" Su Xiaoxiao , after all, was not with Mr. Ruan. As cool as she only spent her short life. As the saying goes, "Since ancient times, beauties are like famous generals, and they are not allowed to see white hair on earth."
Shangguan Wan'er eventually died in the palace fight; Xue Tao was hurt by love; looking at Yu Xuanji's life, it was like watching "The Life of Matsuko Despised", which really corresponds to the saying "I am sorry when I was born as a human being"; Li Qingzhao who was arbitrary when she was a girl was also wrongly paid Zhao Mingcheng . Isn't it good to continue to live arbitrary life in the "scent of flowers and wine"? The only one among the ten women is not well-born Li Xiangjun . Imagine that even a good family background cannot be replaced by the Jingquan of the first nine sisters, let alone her?
If these women have no talent, it may be good to live the life of ordinary people with peace of mind. I really don’t know whether women have talent or lack talent? After all, women can't escape the word "love"...
