How hard the days were in the past, young people nowadays don’t know. I want to talk to them carefully, but what will they feel? Isn’t it just that the times are different? There is nothing we can do about it!
Before, not only rural people wore patched clothes, but also those of us young intellectuals who went to the countryside to go to the countryside, there were still a few patches on their clothes. As for meat, it would be a happy life to be able to eat once or twice a month!
Before, everyone was poor together, and no one was more noble than anyone else. Even the superiors went to the countryside to inspect agriculture, and they were wearing straw hats and rolled up their trousers and walking on the ridge of the field.
I can’t finish talking about the past. I just want to talk about a rural girl - Zhaodi, because she remembers the most profoundly in my memory. I’m afraid she can’t forget it even when I swallow her last breath!
The reason why Zhaodi is called Zhaodi is because her parents hope she can attract a younger brother and give birth to a boy. However, she called her younger sister again, so there was a joke: the boss called Zhao brother, the second brother called Zao Zhao, and the last one was so angry that he couldn't help but call her third daughter "The Trick". This joke reveals the common and simple traditional ideas of rural people back then. In that era, we had no right to laugh at their backward ideas.
Zhaodi’s cuteness lies in her smile. As long as she smiles, I feel that the whole village is smiling, so kind and so lovable.
When I first met her, I felt very sympathetic to her. She put a patch on the knee of her pants that was at least half a foot long, and another small patch on this big patch, which is really a patch plus a patch. I was afraid of hurting her self-esteem, so when I looked at her, I tried not to look at her pants, but to look at her face, trying to tell her that she was very beautiful to give her some comfort.
That day, she finally wore a pair of unpatched pants. I couldn't help but say, "Oh, brother Zhao, I'm wearing new pants today!"
"I knew you would say that." She pursed her lips and smiled.
"Then what else do you know me?" I joked with her.
"Hehe..." She smiled and refused to answer.
After a few days, she suddenly asked me: "Xiao Shao, I want to ask you something, you must tell the truth."
"It seems like I have been telling lies, tell me." I wanted to make a fuss with her again.
"That's right, I'm already nineteen years old, and I'm considered an old girl. It's time to implement a family, but I don't know how to choose." She's already blushed, but she's finished speaking, "What kind of boy do you think should a girl choose? You don't let you joke and tell lies."
"Hehe... it turns out that's the problem." I feel good in my heart. Laugh, why did she ask me if she chose a partner? Seeing her serious look, she said, "I will definitely choose a honest and honest person. If you choose a careless person, like me, you will never have a good life in your life."
She laughed so hard that she couldn't stand up and said, "Xiao Shao, you have self-knowledge."
I don't like to listen to this sentence. I'm humble, she actually said I have self-knowledge. In terms of appearance, I am a handsome guy; in terms of reading, writing, I am also one in a hundred; in terms of hard work, who is worse than me? She doesn't understand my humility, so why should I worry about her affairs?
"You don't like people like me, so what kind of person do you want to marry?" I was really a little angry.
She stopped smiling and said, "I think men cannot only know how to do farm work, but also know how to live and feel sorry for others. However, it is really hard to find such a man, and I am very confused."
"Confused!" I was a little surprised. She could actually say these two words. It seems that she can still recognize a few words.
"Do you think it's strange? There's a lot of fog, it's really confused, so confused." Seeing that I wanted to laugh but didn't laugh, she tried hard to explain her confusion.
"Don't be confused, just rush to your confused pain. Forget it, marry me, I'm not confused, haha..." I laughed arrogantly.
She couldn't stand my joke without bottom line and said, "I won't tell you anymore. The more I talk, the more I talk, the more I get rid of it, and the more I talk, the more I get confused."
Can this confused rural girl find a perfect husband? Now, I feel confused about her.
However, I was not confused for her for long. She finally took a fancy to a young man from Yaojiabian Village. She also picked chickens, ducks and geese to her house to celebrate the lottery, which was considered to be officially engaged.
I have seen that young man. His standard figure and a standard honest face are really OK.
She already has a partner, and it is a bit inappropriate for me to talk to her again. Therefore, when I saw her, I just smiled politely and stopped teasing her.
What I never thought was that A few days later, bad rumors about her suddenly spread in the village, saying that she went back on her word and didn't trust, and even wanted to break the marriage after eating the man's food. What's the situation?
Breakup is rare in the local area, and both men and women will feel very embarrassing. Her mother didn't mention this, and others couldn't ask the reason. The more this happens, the more others want to know the whole story. Some people with particularly strong curiosity deliberately wandered back and forth at her door, just to hear what the people in the house were talking about, which is outside the wall.
Hard work pays off. Some people heard her mother say sadly and angrily in the house: "That's just picking a duck and a chicken. Now they say they pick two ducks. I don't know if I kill them with my own hands? Who are you blamed? Don’t you blame this grandmother Zhaodi? I think that others are like wood, and they are also meticulous people. Alas..."
broke the marriage, and the man picked something and vomited out after eating it. It seems that her mother felt sorry for her and vomited out one more duck, but Zhaodi despised her. Even if she vomited ten more ducks, it would not be too much. I need to ask about this matter of
. Be honest in life, and you cannot regret what you agree with. You must consider other people's feelings.
"Zhaodi, what's going on? Everyone in the village was talking about you, have you broken your marriage? "I asked straight to the point.
" That's right, it was my ruined marriage. They will compensate for the losses they have to pay without any regrets! "She is not afraid of my questions at all.
"Are you confused again? "I didn't smile and asked.
" just was confused. "She laughed again when I asked.
" Tell me why, I'm very curious. "I said.
"I came to my house and didn't talk to me, as if I owed him rice and returned his bran. If you think I am not worthy of him, just say it out loud. I don't like people like this. "When she spoke, she looked at me openly with her eyes, and seemed to have some expectations in her heart.
" Love is slowly cultivated. I want to find a young man who is both strong in labor and can coax people, but it is difficult to find. "I could only say this, for fear of falling into her eyes and unable to extricate myself.
She pondered for a while, and suddenly said, "I want to wait until you leave before getting married. "
Wait for me to leave?! Where can I go? I don't know when I can return to the city. What does she mean by saying this? I can't figure it out.
She has been reluctant to get engaged, and her sister's age is at the time of talking about marriage, but her parents are so anxious. If my sister doesn't look for her in-laws' family, it's impossible for her to look for her first. What should I do? She said it very simply. My sister can marry first. If she can't get married then, she won't get married. She doesn't want to marry anymore. This is said lightly, but who would leave a girl who can't get married by her side, which is too embarrassing.
Her stubbornness hurts her parents too much. No matter how good the temper is, it's common to scold her, but she doesn't care at all.
"I'll go crazy, Xiao Shao, tell me, what should I do? "On that day, she said to me very painfully.
"A girl is not a big girl, she stays for many worries. I think you should consider your parents' mood. Don't ask too much, just forget it if you are careless. "I also advised her to find a household as soon as possible.
"I am not satisfied with the person who came to propose marriage, why do I do something against my will? This is a lifelong thing. "She said.
"Then you say, you must have a clear idea of what kind of young man you like. "I was puzzled, why is there no young man in the world who likes her?
"I won't tell you anymore, I won't tell you anymore, you won't understand at all, you won't understand at all!" She became angry and ran away.
"It's ridiculous, ridiculous. She has such a bad temper and wants to find a man who can weed and plant flowers." I shook my head and sighed again and again.
Later, something incredible happened. She actually fell in love with a young man who only knows how to work and only knows how to smile foolishly. I heard that the first sentence that young man said when he saw her was: "Brother Zhao, hehe, you are so beautiful." The second sentence is still this sentence, and the third sentence is still this sentence. Isn’t this what everyone calls a fool? Why did she fall in love with him?
As long as she likes it, others have no right to interfere. She said that I don’t understand her heart, so why should I ask myself for boredom and ask her why she chose a fool in the eyes of others to live her life.
She also heard some ridicule and discussion from others and complained to me: "The person I like doesn't understand me, so I would rather marry a fool, because he knows how to appreciate me, praise me, and cherish me! I just want to marry a fool!"
"No matter what they say, being with the person they like is happiness." I wish her.
html More than 0 years later, I experienced some emotional setbacks. When I think back to Zhaodi, I understand everything. Yes, sometimes, people who are worthy of your cherishing are looking at you in front of you, but you choose to ignore them; people who are not worthy of your love are far away, but you will never stop pursuing them, which will only increase sadness and regret.Zhaodi is my regret in this life, just because I didn’t understand her heart back then. I wish her a happy life, good health and longevity!
