The ancients said: "Thirty years ago, thirty years, Hexi , don't bully the young and poor."
More than a year ago, maybe your family is more powerful. But after many years, I can’t say it. Maybe I will gradually become rich when I get to their family. This is the "circulation of heaven" in the world.
No family can always be rich and noble, and no family can always be down and out. Anyway, every family has the opportunity to "turn over". This is the so-called "Everything goes back and forth, it must be repeated."
How should a family turn around? It’s not that complicated. As long as there is a noble person in the family, it will turn over. By the same token, as long as there is a villain in the family, it will gradually decline.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang said that many people lined up in two lines before they came to this world. One team is the son of the family, and the other team is the son of the family. The former is dedicated to poor families, while the latter is dedicated to wealthy families.
Rich families are prone to promiscuous and arrogant prodigal sons, so their development trends are deviated. Poor families are prone to family development, so they gradually move uphill.
After all, it is inevitable that people will appear in which family.
These people were arranged by God to save your family, so you should cherish them.
1. The children who were the ones who were in the family are here to save your family.
Everyone’s IQ and EQ are similar, but everyone’s achievements are different.
Some people live in a rich and frugal environment and cannot take on their own responsibilities and their family. Whenever they encounter any major difficulties, they will be helpless and have no idea what to do.
In fact, this is not their fault, it is just that they are spoiled and cannot rely on themselves.
Some people live in families with average environments. They have to take on their own responsibilities and their family since childhood, and also need to take care of their brothers and sisters. Therefore, these people have particularly tough personalities and are easier to accomplish.
Of course, the reason why they are so strong is not because they are born strong, but because the poor family environment forces them to be strong. Everything is "forced out".
This may be a particularly interesting place in life. A good environment will destroy a person, while a bad environment can stimulate the potential of ordinary people.
2. The companion who can share the joys and sorrows with you is here to save your family.
As the saying goes, "House and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly away when the disaster strikes."
The relationship between the couple is difficult to predict. Perhaps, you will meet a partner who will never leave you, and even if you encounter any problems, he will not leave you.
Maybe, you will meet a partner who has no feelings. As long as something happens to your family, he will leave you, regardless of your life or death. Being with these people will only affect your family's luck.
It is better for men to find a wife, or to find a good wife who is good at taking care of her husband and children. Only with a good wife can you prosper for three generations. Without a good wife, it will harm the entire family.
The same is true for women to find a dedicated and sincere husband. Those men who don’t know how to take responsibility will eventually make you feel the mess of marriage.
Whether a partner is good or not determines where your family can go. Perhaps, you who accumulate blessings and virtues will encounter your own good fate and benefit future generations.
3. The respected old man is here to save your family.
It is said that "the elderly have virtue and benefit three generations. The elderly have no virtue and will affect their descendants."
Whether an elderly person has virtue or not, what he affects is not only his own children, but also his descendants.Because future generations will regard him as a role model to learn from.
If you can set a good example, future generations will not be bad. On the contrary, What you do set a bad example for your descendants, then in your later years, you will only encounter unfilial sons, and your family will fall into a negative vicious cycle.
The so-called "The upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked" is the reason.
We often say "the blessings of our ancestors are shining." These blessings are the virtues of the elderly. We must firmly believe that you are a good person, be kind all your life and work hard all your life. No matter whether you can be rich or not, your children and grandchildren will definitely be down-to-earth people.
A family that accumulates good will have good fortune, and a family that accumulates bad will have good fortune. The virtues of elders are enough to affect the vitality of a family.
Written to the end
In a family, The elderly are the pillars, the husband and wife are the core, and the children are the fresh blood of the family. Whatever the three manifestations of will affect the rise and fall of a family.
Many people don’t understand. As long as the child is done well, that’s fine. Why do both husband and wife and the elderly also demand themselves so harshly?
Whether the children are good or not, parents and the elderly have to bear most of the responsibility. Rome cannot be built in one day, and a good family cannot prosper in one day. Therefore, the efforts of each generation are essential.
Which family did God let you be born in actually have its profound meaning. And the only thing you have to do is to do your duty. This is the right way.
text/Shushan Youlu
