One of the signs of adulthood is financial independence, but not all adults are able to support themselves. Some media released relevant data in 2019. Through a set of studies, it was found that the number of people who chew on the elderly was as high as 60%.
Although this statistic was questioned by many in the past, and most people believed that this proportion was obviously high, it also proved from the side that there are indeed many old people in our lives.
In fact, most people do not agree with the "gnawing old people", but the "new type of gnaling old people" emerging today is very different from the "gnawing old people" in the past. Not only are these new types of "gnawing old people" not ridiculed by people, It also got "likes" from parents.
So what is the new type of gnawing on the elderly? Why do parents still not take it seriously when their children gnaw on the elderly?
In order to avoid employment, college students have tried their best to avoid employment.
Let’s first take a look at what is gnawing at the elderly? This term mainly refers to the living conditions of some adults who do not go out to work at all and only rely on their parents' financial support.
Of course, the adults here mainly refer to college students. They have studied for many years and were supposed to join the society and work actively after graduation., but instead they ended up living a life of gnawing at old age.
Moreover, college students are really trying their best not to go out to work. For example, studying abroad, staying home to prepare for exams, etc.
Many people may not understand. This is obviously an effort for better development. Why has it become a new form of gnawing at the old? In fact, some students study abroad to improve themselves, but more people are escaping to not work.
In addition, some fresh graduates actually don't think about working at all after graduation. They focus exclusively on taking public exams and postgraduate entrance exams. They seem to be studying every day, but they are actually just messing around. There are also some more extreme situations, that is, students are busy looking for jobs on the surface, but in fact they are trying to find ways to stay unemployed and stay at home.
In short, the new type of old people will tell their parents in their own way that it’s not that they don’t want to get a job, but they are just trying hard to find a good job.
The "new type of gnawing at the elderly" is quietly emerging. Parents don't take it seriously, and they are showing off that their children are promising and decent.
The biggest headache for the rise of the new type of gnawing at the elderly should be the parents of graduates. After all, it is not a long-term solution for children to avoid employment. But in fact, parents don't take it seriously when their children take advantage of their parents. Some people even go around showing off that their children are promising. What has happened here?
Today’s employment situation is jokingly called by many people as “undergraduate students everywhere”. Under such circumstances, the job search threshold for some leading companies has naturally increased. It is very difficult for graduates who do not have an advantage in academic qualifications to find a job. A natural thing.
Therefore, considering the future development of students, parents will naturally support their children to take the postgraduate entrance examination to improve their academic qualifications, or directly apply for the civil service examination in the hope of successfully landing.
Therefore, when graduates tell their parents that they will spend a lot of time and energy preparing for the exam, the vast majority of parents agree, and think it is a very decent thing, and they are satisfied even talking about it with relatives and friends. face of relief.
But they don’t know that among these students taking public and postgraduate entrance examinations, some are really working hard, while others are trying to find ways to “delay time”. To put it bluntly, they find a reason not to go to work.
Faced with a similar situation, netizens have completely different views.
Netizens have many opinions on the new type of gnawing on the elderly. Some people think it is understandable, but others express their disapproval of this behavior.
In the opinion of some netizens, parents actually know in their hearts that their children are gnawing at their old age. They are just in a better economic situation and want young people to pursue their own ideals and goals, and are willing to unconditionally support all their children's choices.
And the so-called new type of gnawing on the elderly is not the traditional gnawing on the elderly. Because you want to join a better company or a civil servant, can only spend time preparing for exams, so this is a realistic choice and cannot be counted as gnawing on the elderly;
and Some netizens hold the opposite view. They believe that the behavior and mentality of chewing on the elderly is incorrect. Graduates are in their youth and should work hard while they are young instead of relying on their parents. cannot use learning as an excuse. In fact, But they are avoiding employment.
The editor-in-chief and postgraduate entrance examinations are not a "safe haven" to avoid employment. You can hide for a while but you can't hide forever.
It cannot be denied that many people in the army who are preparing for the exam are indeed studying seriously, and they are not "intentionally" gnawing at their old age. However, there are indeed some people who use exam preparation as an excuse, but in fact they are avoiding the matter of finding a job. Therefore, we still need to analyze the specific issues of and in detail.
Whether taking the exam for editing or postgraduate entrance examination, it is not a "safe haven" to avoid employment. No one can hide behind his parents forever. Pretend that he has not grown up, especially college graduates.
And whether you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination or not, whether you can take the postgraduate entrance examination depends on your actual situation. If you don't have a certain level of strength, blindly applying for the examination will only be a waste of time and money.
Everyone's destiny is in their own hands. I hope that students can recognize the reality and take every step steadily. If you don't work, you can only hide for a while but not for the rest of your life!
