When things go wrong, the person who used to praise you may suddenly pick up a big stick and become the most effective among those who scolded you. But I still feel a little sorry for Yang Weice's daughter. After all, the child is completely passive. She can neither choose her pa

The relationship between Yu Xiuhua and Yang Huice has become a hot topic now, and the man has basically been scolded to the point where he can't hold his head up.

He deserves it no matter what. Since ancient times, traffic has been a double-edged sword. At both ends of the traffic are those who praise you and those who scold you. When you are doing well, many people will praise you; when things are not going well, the people who used to praise you may instantly pick up a big stick and become the most powerful among those who scold you.

Since you want to eat data, you must be prepared to be bullied by the Internet. There is no foolproof way for adults to make choices.

But I still feel a little sorry for Yang Huice's daughter. After all, the child is completely passive. She can neither choose her parents nor influence public opinion. In the current hostile public opinion environment, the father's willful pursuit of love has left a mess, and it is almost certain that the little girl will be criticized as well.

When she grows up and sees this farce online in person, it may take her a lifetime to digest and resolve it - The Internet has memories, but it will take her a lifetime to forget, but all this is not her fault.

As for Teacher Yu, who we dare to love and hate, has a sensitive and fragile heart, and behaves radically and impulsively, I support her no matter what she chooses. But there is a voice on the Internet that makes me unable to help but want to say a few words.

I work in mass communication myself, and I know deeply that even if a person has a firm heart, when the Internet information is muddy and muddy, there are three aunts and six women with ideas coming from all over the world. They bring their own preferences and have their own purposes, giving a person When advising Yu Xiuhua in her own imagination, it is inevitable that she will have a strong sense of idealism that will influence the client's judgment.

Nowadays, there are a group of people on Weibo, especially women, who constantly encourage Yu Xiuhua to pursue love bravely, telling her that although you are disabled, you are the most beautiful woman, Yang Mice is not worthy of you, and you deserve a better man.

Looking in depth, beauty is indeed a very broad concept. said that Yu Xiuhua is a woman with a beautiful soul because of her talent and ups and downs given by God. I completely agree. But if this kind of beauty can take advantage in the relationship between the sexes, this kind of chicken soup will inevitably have too much chicken essence, is neither scientific nor humane.

Yu Xiuhua actually had a very clear understanding before. She longed for love, but she also knew that the biggest reason that hindered her from getting the love she expected was her disability and the deformation of appearance caused by the disability.

The Creator is fair.

All living beings in this world often have ordinary lives and ordinary happiness, but there are always chosen people. God opens a door to infinite scenery for them, but closes another small door to an ordinary life.

All the poet Yu Xiuhua’s luck was probably spent on encountering her talents and talents, so the Creator closed the door to health for her. The former makes her soul rich and attractive, while the latter makes her body contrary to public aesthetics; and in the balance of love, the vast majority of men are ordinary and secular.

Unfortunately, in the world of sex and love, good-looking people are born to win at the starting line.

Fortunately, besides sex and love, there are many wonderful things in this world that are worthy of our pursuit. Love is beautiful, but no one will die without love.

Yu Xiuhua’s rich experience in the world of love has actually exceeded that of many ordinary healthy women. She got married, divorced, and had a son. From her interviews, it can be seen that her close relationship with her son seems to be handled well. She can also treat her children with an equal attitude and is a wise mother.

She traveled across half of China to sleep with Yang Huice, a young man. Although the ending was not satisfactory, she did fall in love with her, was sweet, and was satisfied as if she were the apple of her eye; at the same time, she also experienced glory because of love and received too much. What kind wishes.

Yu Xiuhua may not be able to help but imagine what kind of sweet and long-term love she will have if she is healthy and beautiful. This kind of imagination has become an obsession because it cannot come true. But in fact, the problem of love also tortures many healthy and beautiful girls, and in the end they choose to recover from their injuries and give up.

After this turmoil, instead of telling Yu Xiuhua that she must love boldly and find the right one, it is better to let her calmly think about the cost of traveling across half of China to sleep with someone; let her live her life as an behavior Between artistic and living as an ordinary person, calm down and make a trade-off.

encourages others to fight bravely, to reach for stars and create fairy tales; to always move forward, never to retreat, and not even to stop. It sounds really burning.

On the one hand, it appears to be positive energy; on the other hand, it can vent the real-life cowardice of the viewers; thirdly, our era is essentially about winners and losers. When you are strong, you must be stronger, and strong in everything.

This kind of chicken blood and chicken soup can easily create a god, and the person who is being created may be speechless even if it is cold at a high place. In fact, there is no god in the world. No matter Yu Xiuhua or we, we are all mortal. As long as there is a second way, we will not become soldiers and cannon fodder.

At least at this stage, Yu Xiuhua has many paths to take, and love may be a dead end in front of her.

There is another outrageous saying that Yu Xiuhua must work hard to pursue love. If she does not love and suffer, her talents will dry up and she will no longer be an excellent poet.

Not to mention whether this statement has scientific basis, even if it does, it is too cruel and is even tantamount to kidnapping Yu Xiuhua.

Is it more important to be a human being or a poet? In my opinion, is definitely more important as a human being; , whether to live as a talented totem, or to retreat under the fame and live a prosperous and comfortable life, I think Teacher Yu should not only choose the former.

Yu Xiuhua has endured too much pain in her life. Now she loves and tears her apart. She has gained fame and made some money. It is not an exaggeration to let go of the emotional wandering and choose to live a good and comfortable life.

A good life does not necessarily require a good man. A man will most likely be a burden to Yu Xiuhua - she is too lacking in love, and all men in the world love her deeply.

Instead of trying to fill the hole that will never be filled, it is better to take a different approach and go to hell, let it be empty, and nothing will kill anyone. Idle clouds and wild cranes, love the mountains and rivers, enjoy it if you have an affair, secretly don't let others know; if you don't have , fall in love with life, avoid all people and things that may cause unhappiness, just be happy, even if this happiness is extremely shallow.

If Yu Xiuhua can only be an experiential poet, maybe she will "exhaust her talent" because of joy and happiness, like Jay Chou who now has three children.

Yes, Teacher Yu! There is nothing wrong with changing from god to human. Anyway, in the end, everyone will return to a pile of loess, and nothing can last forever.