In late June 2022, Yang Huice said in an interview with the media. However, less than 20 days later, Yu Xiuhua posted on Weibo that she was subjected to domestic violence by her boyfriend Yang Weice and was "slapped hundreds of times"!

"No matter what the outside world says, the most important thing is for both of us to live our own lives." In late June 2022, Yang Huice said in an interview with the media.

However, less than 20 days later, Yu Xiuhua posted on Weibo that she was subjected to domestic violence by her boyfriend Yang Huice and "was slapped hundreds of times"! This is also the first time that Yu Xiuhua publicly exposed the domestic violence incident 69 days after the two took wedding photos.

Wedding photos taken by Yu Xiuhua and her boyfriend Yang Huice.

Yu Xiuhua, born in 1976 in Hengdian Village, Shipai Town, Zhongxiang City, Hubei Province, is a poet.

Yu Xiuhua suffered from cerebral palsy due to miscarriage and hypoxia at birth. She has difficulty moving and has slurred speech. After graduating from high school, she stayed at home and officially started writing poetry in 2009. In January and February 2015, the poetry collections " Moonlight Falls on the Left Hand" and " The Shaking World" were published successively. On January 28, 2015, Yu Xiuhua was elected vice chairman of the Zhongxiang Writers Association of Hubei Province. After that, she published many collections of poems, essays and autobiographical novels. "The Shaking World" was also filmed as a documentary, in which she starred as herself.

June 30, 2017, Beijing, Yu Xiuhua.

Posted wedding photos only 69 days ago

Since becoming famous with a series of love poems in 2015, Yu Xiuhua’s name has been active in the public opinion field with a lot of controversy. Her publication of a new collection of poems, divorce, rejection of her confession, love, etc., were all placed within the framework of public discussion. The entire relationship between her and Yang Huice was witnessed by netizens like a TV series, and it conformed to almost all the characteristics of the "live broadcast era".

Yu Xiuhua is 46 years old and Yang Weice is 32 years old. The two met in the winter of 2021 and confirmed their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend on December 24 last year. On January 1, 2022, Yang Huice released a Douyin video, publicizing the relationship between the two for the first time. On February 14, Yu Xiuhua made another official announcement on Weibo.

According to Yu Xiuhua's self-report, the two met and met during the live broadcast. The other party kept bees and sold honey in Shennongjia . After learning that Yu Xiuhua had a stomachache, he sent honey, and once "walked from the foot of Wudang Mountain to the top of the mountain." , wishing "I hope Yu Xiuhua is happy".

html On April 29, the two took a set of wedding photos.

In May 2022, Yu Xiuhua came from her hometown Zhongxiang to Shennongjia where Yang Huice was located. The two showed off their affection: they sat in front of the rapeseed field and played on the swing together. He planted 99 roses for her, and she was waiting for him at home. Come back and have dinner together...

Because Yu Xiuhua is famous, Yang Huice, who was born in the 90s, is just a honey seller. There are various differences in age, appearance, status, etc. between the two parties. Previously, some netizens were worried that Yang Huice's purpose of being with her was impure.

But Yu Xiuhua didn't take it seriously. In June this year, she even posted on Weibo: "Many people want to see Yang Huice and I separate. I feel that separation will not be a slap in the face. Gaining me may not be a blessing, and losing may not be fate." . He can stay with me for as long as he wants. Love is precious and life is freer. Yes, I am old, disabled and ugly, so when a person treats me well, I should go all out."

Yu Xiuhua said. Self-reported domestic violence

html At 10:6 pm on July 6, Yu Xiuhua posted on Weibo, "Actually, he is very good to me, but he has a bad temper. When he was in Shennongjia, on May 20, a woman sent him 1314, 520. I felt uncomfortable and asked him what happened. He said that he choked me and almost killed me if he had not deleted the surveillance video. Many people would have visited me the next day. , he still beat me. This time, he kept calling my son a fool, and he slapped me hundreds of times. Maybe I was not good enough for him, so he returned to Shennongjia. , thank him for his company, and wish him to find a better one!"

However, Yu Xiuhua deleted the content about domestic violence that night and updated a Weibo: "My life has been really hard, and I have been gritting my teeth and persisting. I can't hold on anymore.I hope that those who insult me ​​or hit me will be held legally responsible. "

In the early morning of July 7, the reporter called Yu Xiuhua's phone number. The following is the content of the conversation:

Reporter: How is your health now?

Yu Xiuhua: My health is fine. I want to go out and hide. If I don't go out, I will be beaten. Die.

Reporter: What does it mean to go out and hide?

Yu Xiuhua: After I posted it on Weibo, he felt that I had destroyed him and he was going to hit me.

Reporter: How were you sure he would hit you? Old couples quarrel.

Yu Xiuhua: I blocked him, and he called my aunt and told me that he would come to see me tomorrow.

Reporter: He looking for you cannot be equated with hitting you, maybe he is coming. Negotiated.

Yu Xiuhua: It’s impossible. He was too violent.

Reporter: Is it true that you said on Weibo that he was beaten? , the video is in his hands.

Reporter: If you feel that your personal safety is not guaranteed, I can help you call the police.

Yu Xiuhua told reporters that there is no need to call the police and said: No more, no more, go out and hide tomorrow. .

According to Yu Xiuhua’s description, she was subjected to domestic violence on May 20. On May 21, she was beaten in public when someone came to see her. In the online live broadcast room on July 5, the two had an argument. There was a heated argument over domestic violence. Yu Xiuhua asked: "You choked me, why didn't you live broadcast when you hit me." Yang Huice said, "Where do I hit you? I can bear it when you say others, but I can't bear it when you say my daughter is XX. You don't You should curse, you shouldn’t swear, you shouldn’t say dirty words.”

html Some screenshots of the live broadcast on July 5th.

These statements indicate that Yu Xiuhua has been subjected to domestic violence more than once, and Yu Xiuhua chose to make it public, objectively with the intention of seeking support and protection from public opinion.

Police and Women’s Federation responded

html On July 7, The Paper learned from the Shipai Town Police Station where Yu Xiuhua lived that before Yu Xiuhua exposed herself on Weibo, the police station had intervened in her beating incident.

On the same day, the Zhongxiang City Women’s Federation stated that it had immediately paid attention to the incident of Yu Xiuhua’s beating and also went to the hotel to visit her. She is currently in stable condition , "there is slight redness and swelling on the face, but her body is fine" and "has no complaints for the time being." The Women's Federation also said that Yu Xiuhua and her boyfriend had not yet obtained their certificates.

Yu Xiuhua’s agent:

Violent behavior is definitely unacceptable

html In the early morning of the 17th, reporters also contacted Yu Xiuhua’s agent Hu Tao about this matter. The other party revealed that after the incident, many relatives and friends of Yu Xiuhua rushed to her home. The two have now broken up. Hu Tao revealed that after one of Yu Xiuhua's fans learned about it through the live broadcast platform, he called the police on the afternoon of the 6th. After coordination with the police, Yang Huice has now left the Hengdian Village where the two are located.

Hu Tao said, "In the eyes of outsiders, Yang Huice and Yu Xiuhua usually have a relatively harmonious relationship, but due to personality issues, they have some differences and quarrels when they are together." He believes that the nature of hitting and swearing are different, Violence is certainly unacceptable.

Many netizens are worried about Yu Xiuhua’s life. Hu Tao said: "Teacher Yu is recovering. I hope she can get through this and start over. I also hope that everyone will not disturb her. "

Yang Weice responded to domestic violence Yu Xiuhua:

Is it my fault that I can force the person who loves her to beat him?

In response to Yu Xiuhua's self-reported domestic violence, on the morning of July 7, Yang Weice responded to a third person entrusted by reporters Said: "Is it really my fault that I can force someone who loves her so much to hit her? "The following is the content of the conversation:

Third person: Have you seen Yu Xiuhua's Weibo?

Yang Huice: I saw it. She can blackmail me as she likes. I still love her. Let her step on my shoulders. .

Third person: Did you hit her?

Yang Huice: , not as hard as she said, , slapped her a dozen times, didn’t choke her, and didn’t call her son stupid. But I did. It's not that she didn't have a sense of control. If she lost control, she wouldn't be able to post on Weibo.

The third person: It's wrong to hit people no matter what, why do you want to hit them?

Yang Huice: But there is a secret: She. After drinking, she behaved erratically; she scolded everyone in my family, not just my daughter; after she insulted my character with extremely vulgar language, she said she wanted to find someone else. I couldn't hold it back and slapped her more than a dozen times. It's heavy and light, but it's still measured.

The third person: You can handle this matter reasonably, why do you want to do it?

Yang Huice: I know it is wrong to do it, but in that situation, few people could. Hold it back. We had a conflict at the end of June, and I have been restrained at that time. I still love her, and she can do it if she wants to. It’s really me who forces someone who loves her to hit her. Is it human's fault?

Third person: What's the next step?

Yang Huice: I want to go to Tibet to relax. I am calming down now.

Third person: Stay away. You can’t sell honey live on the Internet.

Yang Huice: ’s gross income from selling honey is more than 50,000 yuan. I didn’t spend more than 300,000 yuan on her. I spent more than 300,000 yuan on her. With her.

The third person: Yu Xiuhua said that someone sent out red envelopes of "520" and "1314" on May 20. Is it true?

Yang Huice: is real. But that person is my benefactor , who has always been of great help to me. After Yu Xiuhua saw it, she took my cell phone while I wasn't paying attention and scolded all her family members.

Third person: At this time and at this point, sending this red envelope will indeed make people think too much.

Yang Huice: That’s just a benefactor. He bought me a lot of honey before.

Third person: You have taken wedding photos, have you received your marriage certificate? Can we get back together in the next step?

Yang Huice: did not receive a marriage certificate. True love is not bound by a marriage certificate. It is impossible for to be reconciled now and there is no way to go back.

Third person: How is your personal safety?

Yang Huice: She has family members to protect her, I thought about committing suicide, but I can’t, I can hold on. Once I calm down, I just want to take care of my family and daughter.

Yu Xiuhua, who accused domestic violence

, should not be ridiculed

During this domestic violence crisis, many netizens expressed their "feeling for Yu Xiuhua" and encouraged her to use legal means to protect her legitimate rights and interests. But there are also some cynical voices - a cerebral palsy patient with limited mobility, an "older woman" chasing love, suspected of experiencing domestic violence, has become the "laughing stock" of some people.

Beijing News commented on this: A poet who writes about love does not have an enviable love. This is not ridiculous, nor is it a source of conversation. Any love that is not favored, or a marriage that is not blessed, is never a reason for domestic violence, let alone a reason for being ridiculed after experiencing domestic violence. From a broader perspective, this kind of ridicule and spectatorship mentality not only harms Yu Xiuhua, but also condones domestic violence.

In the face of domestic violence, laws and regulations such as "Marriage Law" and "Civil Code" have clear provisions, but more often than not, they still require moral restraint. At the social level, a voice should be formed to condemn and stop domestic violence, so as to eliminate the seeds of domestic violence to the greatest extent.

Every person who bravely pursues love should be respected; every act of domestic violence needs to be severely stopped. Yu Xiuhua is suspected of being involved in domestic violence. Perhaps the higher value lies in breaking away from individual tragic experiences and focusing on protecting the group rights of those who have been victims of domestic violence. The essence of the incident should not be obscured with cynicism.

It is worth noting that most netizens did not buy Yang Huice’s response..

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