Introduction: As the economy develops better and better, various new industries are slowly emerging. The nanny industry is a new industry. Many families are in need of nannies, so the wages and benefits of nannies are particularly good. In order to support her family, 50-year-old

Introduction : As the economy develops better and better, various new industries are slowly emerging. The nanny industry is a new industry. Many families are in need of nannies, so the wages and benefits of nannies are particularly good. In order to support her family, 50-year-old Aunt Jin quickly joined the nanny industry.

Aunt Jin’s family situation is very poor. Her husband is an alcoholic and it costs a lot of money for her children to go to school. All the burden of supporting the family fell on her alone. She said frankly: "I accept paid companionship services, but I must abide by the relevant rules."

What is going on? Let's listen to what Aunt Jin has to say.

50-year-old Aunt Jin’s self-report

I dropped out of school very early and did not receive much education. My husband is a well-known local alcoholic and likes to drink every day. When you ran out of money, you reached out and asked me for it. I have thought about divorce, but the child cannot live without his father.

So I have been supporting this family. I've had a very hard time these years. I'm getting older, and my body really can't handle working in a factory. So I chose to be a live-in nanny.

originally thought that being a live-in nanny would be easy, as she only needed to prepare three meals a day and clean the house. I didn’t expect to have to deal with all kinds of unreasonable demands from my employer. Some employers ask me to give him massages, and some employers ask me to chat with him every day. I feel physically and mentally exhausted. It’s so hard to make money. But my family does need a lot of money, so I can only endure and work hard slowly.

What surprised me even more was that another employer fell in love with me. His name is Liu Lin, he is 68 years old this year. It can be said that he is very old. The children are busy doing business in other places and there is really no time or energy to take care of him. So I spent 6,000 yuan a month to take care of him. The first time he saw me, he praised me for my beauty and good figure. I feel very happy.

I also worked very hard in the following days. Prepare three delicious meals for him every day, and remind him to take medicine on time. Sometimes I see that his legs and feet are inconvenient, so I take the initiative to bring food to his room. He thanked me very much and often praised me in front of his children.

Therefore, his children gave me an additional salary of 2,000 yuan every month. I was so happy. Uncle Liu said he wanted me to give him a massage every night. I agreed without thinking too much. But I felt that Uncle Liu’s eyes were strange and lustful. I couldn't stand the sight of it. He would also ask me to rub his back and bathe him. I washed him well. Unexpectedly, he turned around and kissed me and said he liked me.

He said he wanted me to accompany him, no matter how much money he wanted. But I am a woman with a family, and I am not willing to sell myself to make money. So I rejected him directly. He scolded me for being ignorant, and then he kept making me wear small shoes and finding fault with me.

I couldn’t bear it anymore, so I resigned and found another employer.

The new employer is an old lady, very gentle. Because of previous experiences. I also kept an eye on it. I said that paid companionship services can be provided, but the relevant rules must be followed. The first is to respect me, and the second is to keep a normal distance. Now I get along very well with my new employer and we are both very happy.

Conclusion : Aunt Jin was not tempted by money, she abided by her duty and did not do anything immoral. This approach is very good and deserves our respect. Nannies and employers should also learn to tolerate and understand each other and not make unreasonable demands casually. The nanny is also a human being and cannot be forced to do anything.

can only adhere to certain principles. By being tolerant and understanding of each other, the housekeeping market will naturally survive healthily.

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