The TV is showing a man kneeling on the ground, holding a bouquet of pink roses in both hands, looking at the woman in front of him with loving eyes, and loudly saying: "The person I love most is you." This kind of scene is very common in emotional programs, but this time the aud

TV is playing a man kneeling on the ground, holding a bouquet of pink roses in both hands, looking at the woman in front of him with loving eyes, and saying loudly: "The person I love most is you."

This kind of scene is very common in emotional programs, but this time the audience and the host made exclamations one after another. Why is this?

The reason lies in their age. The woman is 30 years old, but the man is an old man in his 70s.

Wen Changlin and Zhang Feng

One is in his prime, while the other has gray hair on his temples and not many teeth left.

No matter who sees this, they will think that the two people are related by grandfather and grandson. No wonder such a combination will arouse the admiration of the crowd when they show their love in public.

This high-profile couple, who are 45 years apart in age, is Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin, the protagonists of the grandfather-grandson love story that attracted social attention and sensation in 2013.

And because they published " Lu Yu has a date " in 2021 , more people will know their story.

The significance of existence

On April 17, 2013, a shy girl in red in Changsha, Hunan Province walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau with an old man with a long white beard on her arm and received their marriage certificate while others looked at her in astonishment.

Wen Changlin and Zhang Feng

The notary was very surprised by such a pairing, so he checked with Zhang Feng several times to confirm whether he voluntarily registered for marriage just in case.

Zhang Feng replied very firmly: "I am willing. I am willing to take care of Wen Changlin all my life. Without him, there would be no me."

What is the reason that brought Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin together? And what makes Zhang Feng so determined about this love?

The story begins when Zhang Feng was a child.

Zhang Feng's mother accidentally became pregnant again in 1987, but by this time her family had already given birth to several children, the youngest of which was already 10 years old.

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The unexpected arrival of this little life made the family a little embarrassed, which made the family even worse. So the mother decided to abort the child. However, because she was pregnant with twins, the medical technology at the time was not advanced, so Zhang Feng Fortunately, came into the world.

Since she was born, the word family seems to be far away from her. In addition, her mother suffered some root causes when she gave birth to her child. When appears in her ears, it is even more that accuses : It's delicious and lazy, you know. Staying at home, not going out to work, etc., the family has been indifferent and cold to her since she was a child.

But life has to go on, and all the burdens fall on Zhang Feng's father.

Due to years of hard work, my father's health was getting worse and worse. One night when he was about to go home after working, his father suddenly had a headache and collapsed on the road beside the field.

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Since Zhang Feng's father fell ill, the Zhang family rushed to various major hospitals. After a long time of treatment, the disease was not cured. Just when everyone thought that his father was going home to die, someone introduced him Wen Changlin, the barefoot doctor in the village .

I heard that Wen Changlin is a descendant of Wen Tianxiang. Although he has never formally attended any school, he has loved reading and writing since he was a child. He also taught himself Chinese medicine. He can be consulted when encountering difficult and complicated diseases in the village.

As expected, under Wen Changlin's medical skills, Zhang's father's illness gradually improved. In order to make ends meet, everyone in the family went out to work, leaving only Zhang Feng to look after the house.

After all, she was still a teenage girl who had to take care of her sick father and work in farming. Coupled with her somewhat introverted and low self-esteem character, Zhang Feng also fell ill.

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Children in the village see Zhang Feng as a weak little girl with no relatives around her.When she was sick, she was so stupid that she couldn't remember anything, so she just laughed and cried stupidly.So everyone would bully her. Being beaten and stoned for playing became Zhang Feng's daily routine.

Out of instinct, Zhang Feng would resist when being bullied, but how could a little girl resist being bullied by so many children? When she woke up, her body was covered with dark purple fingerprints and scratches from others.

She always cried secretly alone at night, wondering what the meaning of her existence was?

Wen Changlin's granddaughter was almost the same age as Zhang Feng. He really couldn't bear to see Zhang Feng, a little girl, having to take care of her father and endure the pain, especially when he saw the scars on Zhang Feng's body from being bullied. I was even more heartbroken afterwards.

So he moved in with the consent of the Zhang family to take care of their father and daughter.

Wen Changlin and Zhang Feng

Zhang Feng had not had many friends since he was a child, and he had not read much. usually read Wen Changlin, read and wrote , and was deeply attracted by him, so he worshiped him as his master and learned from him.

This master was also very kind to her, teaching her how to write and read , and helping her chop wood, cook, and handle various housework.

When Zhang Feng fell ill and was bullied by children, he immediately stepped forward to drive them away, and treated Zhang Feng's wounds carefully.

By chance, Zhang Feng told her father that it was her birthday and she wanted to eat the cake . But the family was really in trouble, and ’s father could only shake his head. But on his birthday, Wen Changlin brought out the cake.

At that moment, Zhang Feng felt the importance and warmth that he had never experienced before. In the dim room, Zhang Feng clasped his hands and closed his eyes in front of the flickering candlelight, and solemnly made a wish: and Wen Changlin would always live together. .

Under Wen Changlin's careful care, Zhang Feng's illness was cured. The Zhang family returned to normalcy again. Wen Changlin also moved away from the Zhang family. This wish was deeply buried in Zhang Feng's heart.

Wen Changlin, Zhang Feng

In 2006 , my father fell ill again because of overwork at home, but this time he never stood up again.

The mother at home is ill, and the adult children are away from home all year round. The funeral of his father once again weighs on Zhang Feng.

Just when she didn't know what to do, Wen Changlin appeared again and used his savings to organize a funeral for Zhang's father.

Zhang Feng was grateful and said to Wen Changlin for the first time: "I want to follow you all the time."

Wen Changlin ignored her as a child who lacked fatherly love. proposed that his grandson take Zhang Feng to the big city to see , where there would be a better life.

Recognize yourself and no longer avoid

Zhang Feng has never been to a big city. The busy streets and bustling crowds made this from a small village feel strange and helpless.

Hitting the wall again and again gradually made him feel discouraged. Every lonely night there seemed to be a voice in her heart asking whether she should call Wen Changlin.

Zhang Feng

Finally, after many nights of tossing and turning, she picked up the phone. After a few beeps, she heard a familiar voice. It seemed that he had opened up his chat box and vomited out all his troubles at once.

And every ripple of her injury was healed one by one by Wen Changlin.

Zhang Feng suddenly felt that her feelings for Wen Changlin didn't seem right, but she couldn't resist.

The frequent phone calls seemed to make the Zhang family feel that something was wrong. When their daughter got older, she always called an outsider to express her troubles. It was even more inappropriate for this outsider to be a bad person and an old man.

thought that her daughter was getting older and was too lonely outside, so it was time to find a boyfriend, so she began to make plans to introduce someone to Zhang Feng.

But because Zhang Feng had seen the quarrel between her sister and her brother-in-law since she was a child, she was not interested in any blind date. What she didn't know was that there was already someone living in her heart.

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Zhang Feng often called Wen Changlin at night, but that night, there was no movement on Wen Changlin's cell phone. Wen Changlin thought she was delayed for something, but after a few days, there was still no news from Zhang Feng, and Wen Changlin felt something was wrong.

For some reason, various bad images suddenly flashed in his mind, so he inquired through various channels, all the way from the village to the city, finally found the place where Zhang Feng worked.

It turns out that Zhang Feng has been struggling with his feelings for Wen Changlin recently, and ended up losing his cell phone in a daze all day long.

After Wen Changlin found out, he quickly took her to buy a new mobile phone and gave her various instructions. At this moment, Zhang Feng finally woke up from her dazed state. Looking at the man in front of her, she couldn't help but shed tears. She finally saw the person who had already lived in her heart - Wen Changlin.

Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin

When they came out of the mobile phone store, the lights were already on. Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin were walking side by side. Suddenly Zhang Feng turned around and hugged Wen Changlin tightly and said: "Changlin, I like you, let’s be together.”

This sudden move shocked the pedestrians on the roadside and Wen Changlin, and some even stopped and pointed at them.

Wen Changlin looked a little panicked and pushed her hand away: "We are not suitable, I will delay you, what will others say about you!"

Wen Changlin actually also knew that after these days of getting along, he had Zhang Feng has long gone beyond the relationship between master and apprentice, grandfather and grandson.

But he is afraid. There is a 45-year age difference. His granddaughter is about the same age as Zhang Feng.. What will outsiders say about Zhang Feng? How long can he take care of Zhang Feng...

Wen Changlin, Zhang Feng

"Whoever wants to say something, let them say it." Zhang Feng completely ignored the eyes of passers-by at this moment, held Wen Changlin's hand again and said: "If you don't agree, I will commit suicide."

Zhang Feng was determined The look in his eyes made Wen Changlin unable to refuse. He knew that Zhang Feng really fell in love with him. He didn't care about his age, house, money, or being looked at with strange eyes. At the same time, he couldn't deny his own heart.

So in the surprised eyes of passers-by, the lovers hugged each other tightly and confirmed each other.

Zhang Feng

Looking forward to blessings

Although these two people have recognized their feelings for each other, can their families accept them?

Wen Changlin's first wife had passed away due to illness for many years . When the children of Wen's family learned that their father had once again found someone to spend his life with, they were very relieved.

means that someone really loves his father, and it is not a bad thing to have someone to take care of each other. He has successfully accepted the love between Zhang and Wen.

On the contrary, it was the Zhang family. After hearing about it, they thought it was a huge scandal. The Zhang family felt that Wen Changlin was older than Zhang Feng. He was 45 years old and had no money, no house, and no savings. What if Zhang Feng was gone in the future? Life?

Zhang's mother angrily demanded to cut off the relationship between mother and daughter. Her elder sister was even more ashamed of Zhang Feng. A young girl married a bad old man. She couldn't find any kind of man on Zhang Feng's terms. She didn't have any savings and lived in Wenzhou. In the ruined temple that Chang Lin temporarily guarded.

Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin

In their daily lives, there are always people pointing at their door, waiting to see the joke about the love between grandfather and grandson.

If you mention Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin in the village, it will attract all kinds of comments from the surrounding villagers. Some say that Zhang Feng has a brain problem, some say that it is to repay a favor, and even say that there is a problem with Zhang Feng's education, anyway Various rumors and gossips followed one after another.

This makes Zhang Feng’s mother, sister and even relatives unable to hold their heads high. In this way, Zhang Feng cut off all contact with the Zhang family in order to be with Wen Changlin.

And in 2013 , things took a turn for the better. At this time, the discussion about them in the village was not as intense as before, but something suddenly happened and pushed them to the forefront again: Zhang Feng was pregnant!

Zhang Feng, Wen Changlin

In fact, when Zhang Feng told Wen Changlin that she was pregnant, Wen Changlin was surprised that he was still fertile, and his first reaction was to abort the child.

Because he was not sure how long he could take care of the mother and son, and at the same time, the huge difference in seniority made him not sure how to deal with it.

But Zhang Feng insisted on giving birth to the child because she had a dream during her pregnancy.In the dream, the child was given to her by her father.

Zhang Feng always believed that her father brought her love, so she must keep the child. Wen Changlin loved Zhang Feng so much that he finally agreed to keep the child.

According to common sense, it is ridiculous to have children but not get a marriage certificate!

In order to have a legal identity for their child's future, they walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau at Zhang Feng's request.

Wen Changlin

When they walked hand in hand to the counter, they once again attracted a lot of attention. Zhang Feng was accustomed to the courtesy, but Wen Changlin's nervous hands were shaking all the time.

caused me to always make typos when filling out the registration form, which resulted in two forms being wasted.

In fact, this is also giving Zhang Feng a chance to regret.. But Zhang Feng held his hand tightly and said:: "Our love is neither stealing nor robbing, it is fair and aboveboard."

In 2013, Zhang Feng had a caesarean section in the hospital and gave birth to a son. Although while waiting in the hospital, some people always said that Wen Changlin was the child's grandfather, which caused various misunderstandings.

But when Wen Changlin picked up the child, with his gentle movements and loving eyes, no one could tell that they were not father and son.

At this time, their affairs had caused quite a stir in the society, and many reporters went to interview the children when they were having a full moon wine .

Wen Changlin and Zhang Feng

went to the village to talk about the love between grandfather and grandson that spanned 45 years. Some people questioned the child's biological father, and some questioned how far this relationship can go. Everyone's words contained various emotions and speculations.

With the birth of 's child, Wen Changlin couldn't put it down. He was willing to relearn how to be a father and take care of the child little by little, but he was so clumsy that he couldn't even change diapers, and his body was really struggling. .

Because he couldn't bear to see Zhang Feng working so hard, he decided to take the initiative to find Zhang's mother to ease the relationship between them.

Facing his mother-in-law, who was eight years younger than himself, Wen Changlin still seemed very nervous. He held the child and said solemnly to Zhang's mother: "I will treat you like my own mother and will not abuse you." , Zhang Feng is also a very kind person, now the rice has been cooked, it has become a fact, I hope you will accept us." Wen Changlin had tears in his eyes, eagerly looking forward to Zhang's mother's approval.

Seeing the cute fat grandson and her daughter looking happy while waving their little hands and babbling, Mother Zhang still relaxed. What mother in the world doesn’t want her child to be happy?

Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin

Finally happy

In 2022, the story of Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin appeared on a bigger stage, and more people knew their story.

When their family of three stood on the stage, at first glance, they would still think that they were three generations of grandparents. Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin held hands tightly, not caring about other people's eyes at all, they were very relaxed.

Their children have grown up and are very warm under the embrace of their parents.

For the child, this is a happy family. The father and mother love him and have nothing to do with the outside world. They beat those rumors and speculations with real life facts.

It has been 9 years since their marriage. Just like the name of the child: Wen Jingtian , this is the test given to them last time, their love , their child.

At that time, there were a lot of discussions from the people around me and I rarely heard about it. Walking in the village, when asking about Zhang Feng and his wife, everyone's tone was no longer as weird as it was at that time. When asked how they were doing, everyone also expressed blessings.

Wen Changlin's letter to his son

They had moved from the temple to Wen Changlin's grandson-in-law's home. Zhang's mother also moved here to live with them and help take care of her grandson.

Wen Changlin also wanted to take Zhang Fengduo for a walk outside while his health was still good, and take a look.

No one knows what will happen in the future, so living the present and enjoying the present is the most important thing.

I still remember that Wen Changlin wrote a letter to his children on the show. contained blessings for the children and hoped that the children would understand them . Their children will eventually grow up and understand that their families are slightly different from the outside world. But the love of parents is always the same.

Maybe each of us will encounter doubts and speculations from the outside world, but you are you, and only you know what you want. If you keep going firmly, you will be happy in the end.

Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin's family

Some people say that the relationship between Zhang Feng and Wen Changlin is not love, some say it is gratitude; some say it is repayment; others say it is habit; some say it is the lack of childhood...whether it is What, is like a person drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold.. Everyone has their own life and life history. We cannot judge anything. Only we know whether we are happy or not.

Life is short, cherish it more and accompany it more. At the same time, what is marriage? What is love? What exactly is happiness? It’s also worth thinking about for all of us.