In life, some people are very outspoken when talking and doing things. They say whatever they want and never consider the feelings of others. The results are often counterproductive and self-defeating. Such people lack wisdom and can easily hurt others with their words.
Recently, I was eating noodles at a small restaurant near Binhe Square in Chongqing City. A beautiful woman came in to dine. The owner of the store seemed to be trying to please customers, but he made the beautiful woman go away. People have said bluntly: If the boss talks like this when doing business, he will close down sooner or later.
On this day, in a small noodle shop near Binhe Plaza, a fashionably dressed, delicate and sweet woman walked into the shop, chose a table and sat down, then called the boss to have a meal.
Shopkeeper: "Hello, beauty, do you want to eat?"
The woman raised her head in surprise after hearing this: "Why do you talk like this? Do you think I am a beggar?"
The shopkeeper hurriedly argued : "No, no, I didn't mean that. I mean do you want to eat or eat ramen?"
The woman breathed a sigh of relief: "Bring me a small portion of ramen."
The shop owner continued: "Beauty, small portion "You don't have enough to eat, I suggest you eat a big portion of excrement."
The woman was very angry when she heard this: "You are the one who eats excrement. I have enough for your whole family. Come on, I have something to do." , the woman played with her mobile phone, waiting for the ramen to be served.
"Okay, a small bowl of ramen." After the shopkeeper shouted to the kitchen, he picked up the broom and prepared to clean up the napkins scattered on the floor. When he swept up to the woman, he saw a few tissues under her feet, and said: "Beauty, trash, give way."
The woman responded angrily: "Why do you talk like this? You are trash. "The shopkeeper pointed at the woman's feet. The woman lowered her head to check and found that there were indeed some napkins discarded by the guests at the front table. She quickly moved her legs away and started playing with her mobile phone again.
After a while, the noodles became familiar. After the shopkeeper brought them to the table, he said politely: "Beauty, your noodles are ready. Eat them while they are hot. They are freshly cooked."
Upon hearing this, the woman became very angry and paused. Feeling that he had lost his appetite, he pushed the bowl and flicked the chopsticks and said, "Who did it? You are so harsh and disgusting. I won't eat it."
The shopkeeper panicked when he heard this and said quickly: "I didn't do it. It was my chef who pulled it."
The woman was so angry that she staggered out of the store. Before she could reach the door, the owner's enthusiastic voice came from behind: "Beauty, you're on your way. !"
The woman suddenly became angry, her eyes darkened, she almost fell to the door of the store, and finally ran away as if running away.
This scene makes people laugh and cry.
I have to say that in this case, the shopkeeper couldn't speak, but his seemingly enthusiastic solicitation for customers caused the woman to misunderstand. There are countless such examples in real life. Language is the most effective medicine used by human beings. To make people accept it with sincerity, a good word is often more effective than gold.
The ancients said: "One word can lift a person, and one word can destroy a person." The Chinese language is vast and profound. One word difference or one careless word may cause the whole game to be lost. Standardize your language, speak civilized words, do civilized things, and be a civilized person, so that people will not misunderstand and cause conflicts, which is the embodiment of a person's good qualities. Everyone says so, right?
