The TV series "Meng Hua Lu" is so popular that it is frequently searched. Zhao Pan'er suffered emotional betrayal from Ouyang Xu, but she did not cry or make a fuss, and chased her all the way to the capital, just to find the truth. Many people say that a real strong woman should

TV series " Menghualu " is so popular that it is frequently searched.

Zhao Pan'er suffered emotional betrayal from Ouyang Xu, but she did not cry or make trouble, and pursued her all the way to the capital, just to find the truth.

Many people say that a real strong woman should be "shameless" like Zhao Pan'er.

[1] "Shamelessness" is the beginning of women's awakening.

It is said that people need face and trees need skin. Many people attach great importance to face. But think about it carefully, how much is face worth?

Many times, for the sake of so-called face, the only one who gets hurt in the end is yourself. For example, many times, someone will ask you to borrow money, but you are embarrassed to refuse for the sake of face, so you borrow it.

After you borrowed money, the other party refused to pay back the money. You were too embarrassed to ask for money for the sake of face, and the other party never mentioned repaying the money. You just kept delaying it, and in the end the money was not paid back. , you are the one who is wronged.

Learn to be "shameless", ask for money confidently when you should ignore the other party, and say "no" loudly when you should refuse to borrow money. This is everyone's right, and it is also a kind of wisdom.

[2] "Shameless" makes life more comfortable

Many people swallow their anger for the sake of life and work. Even if they are bullied, they do not speak out, but just swallow their sadness and sadness in their stomachs. Because they are always worried that if they speak out about their dissatisfaction, they will be annoying, or even be resented or retaliated against.

However, in life, the person who should not be wronged the most is yourself. Learn to be "shameless" and air out your grievances. You will find that life is so beautiful and comfortable.

It is the last thing you should do to swallow your anger or even wrong yourself for the sake of face. Learn to put down your dignity, and your life will be more exciting.

[3] "Shameless" is a kind of wisdom

Some people will say that "shameless" does not sound like a compliment, but real strong women understand in their hearts that "shameless" is actually a kind of wisdom. Wisdom, a philosophy of life.

Women who have a free and easy personality and live a carefree life know how to do some "shameless" things at the right time, and they will not take face too seriously. Rather than saving face, they care more about whether they are sad or not and whether they are enjoying life well.

For the sake of appearance, many women would rather wrong themselves and marry someone they don’t love and spend the rest of their lives making do. But ask yourself, is this person really the person you want to live with for the rest of your life?

No matter when, respect your own choices and don't make decisions against your will just to make others happy. This is an expression of loving yourself and a manifestation of wisdom.

[Conclusion]

Living for yourself, not for face, is something that every woman should strive for throughout her life.

Back to the question at the beginning, how much is face worth? Not worth the money at all! The most important thing is to live your own life. Life is short, so don’t wrong yourself.