Recently, a fish-killing girl from Sichuan has become popular because of her good looks. People have lamented that such a beautiful woman can persist in doing such a dirty and tiring job as killing fish.
But I think this girl’s ambition is far more than that. She has a bigger world in her heart and a clear understanding of herself, just like what her TikTok signature says:
Flowers bloom and fall, clouds Juan Yunshu will not lose himself because of the lack of applause!
01 She is very beautiful, but she is more than that.
The specific information of the girl is unknown. The account number shows that she is from Neijiang in Sichuan. She is only 22 years old and a post-00s generation. It is really difficult to be so sober at such a young age. The girl
broadcasts her work every morning. At most, more than 70,000 netizens watch her killing fish. In the bustling and dirty market, the girl wears exquisite makeup and does her job seriously.
She seemed to not belong in the market at all. She should be in a fashionable office building or a high-end shopping mall, but she was not. She was content with her fate, but at the same time she did not give up her struggle.
She said: Beauty is not worth mentioning. Only when you work hard can you feel the most secure.
She seems to have understood a truth early on. No matter how beautiful the face is, she will come to get it. Relying on beauty and relying on others is ultimately unreliable. You still have to rely on yourself.
Although the job she is doing now is very ordinary, even a bit poor, and not suitable for girls, I feel that she actually has her own plans and ambitions.
First of all, she works down-to-earth. She is very skilled in killing fish and her movements are clean and neat. At the same time, she also created her own self-media account with more than 500,000 fans. With her good looks and fans, It's too easy to make money from self-media, but she doesn't seem to have such a choice at the moment.
She is beautiful, yes, but she is far more than just beauty. She is independent, sober, and well-planned, which has surpassed most women.
Based on this alone, her future has endless possibilities.
02 Don’t make excuses for being sloppy, you can be beautiful anywhere
In addition to being beautiful, independent, and sober, Killing Fish Girl also reminds us that every woman can be beautiful, whether you have money or not, where you work Importantly, you can be as refined as you want.
Many people think that their job is not to sit in an office, and they can dress up or not. They are totally wrong. On the contrary, no matter where you are, you should dress yourself up.
is just like the fish-killing girl. She is indeed very beautiful, but if she doesn't dress up and looks slovenly, she won't attract everyone's attention and will be lost in the crowd like other market ladies.
It is precisely because she did not give up dressing up even when she was in the vegetable market that she has what she is today and has an account with more than 500,000 fans.
Therefore, the appearance of Shayumei is also reminding those women who don’t dress themselves up that if you don’t look good, you can’t blame your parents or even life, you have to blame yourself.
Dressing up is not to please others, but to please yourself. It means that you have not given up on yourself and you still love life.
I know a sister who lives in a rural area and is a large pig farmer. It stands to reason that her daily work is very tiring and her working environment is not good, but every time I see her, she is very good-looking.
No matter how tired she is, she puts on makeup every morning, including eyelashes, lipstick, and so on. In this way, even if she feeds pigs every day, she still looks good and is in a beautiful mood.
As a woman, dressing up is the most basic responsibility for oneself. When not dressing up, looking at the haggard look in the mirror, it is difficult to like yourself, let alone others?
So, women, no matter what your current life situation is, don’t give up dressing up. If you can’t afford big brands, just buy affordable ones. Clothes don’t have to be expensive, just what suits you.
In the ordinary and trivial daily life, make yourself beautiful every day, and you will find that your life will also get better.
Shayumei has not given up her independence, let alone her beauty. This is her greatest advantage and something worth learning from.
03 It doesn’t matter whether you get married or not, lack of money is the most fatal problem.
Some people always think that it doesn’t matter whether a woman can make money, as long as she can marry a good man. Although this view is not so obvious now, it is still true. keeping it.
But in fact, for women, marriage has never been a life-saving straw, it may also be an abyss.
If you want to live well, you must first give up the stupid idea of relying on others for your life.
Just like Yishu said:
A woman will be in doom if she has no financial ability. Remember, work hard and save hard.
If you have money, you are not afraid of falling out of love. You can buy what you want, eat what you want, and your life can still continue happily.
If you have money, you are not afraid of divorce. You can continue to live the life you want, and you will be freer.
If you have money, your loneliness will not be humble, but will appear noble. Watch a play, go on a trip, go to a high-end restaurant to see the night view. Believe me, money is not everything, but money can solve most of the problems in life. troubles.
None of us are as beautiful as Shayu Girl, but we can learn from her sobriety and hard work, and through hard work day after day, we can live the life we want.
Light joy is like a gray dog, deep love is like the long wind. My love is separated by mountains and seas, and I hope the mountains and seas can be leveled.
Pursue a better self with the determination to pursue true love. Soldiers will stand in your way, water will come and earth will cover you. Keep moving forward on the road to change, and you will have unexpected gains.
Compared with waiting for love, waiting for someone to save you and redeeming yourself is more direct and enjoyable.
Do it yourself, have enough food and clothing, and live a free and abundant life, you must always rely on yourself.
The world is far away and time waits for no one, so let’s go!
