is recognized by everyone. It is related to many factors. It is not achieved overnight, but is a superposition of people's accumulated impressions of what they have done.
In the twenty-eight years of wrong life, in addition to Xu Ma, one person was also well received. She is Xu Ma’s daughter-in-law Tian Jing. She usually does not show up in the mountains, but uses a low attitude. High quality wins everyone's likes.
1. Respect the elders and the kindness from the heart
and Xu Ma, after they agreed to be a mother, she asked her husband Yao Wei to take the initiative Mom changed the names of the two children and asked Xu's mother to take the children to school, which made the grandparents and grandchildren feel close. She deliberately cleaned up a room and waited for Xu's mother to come and live at any time to express her welcome.
She doesn't ask Xu Ma to give her anything, she just wants to help Xu Ma through the difficulties. She knew that because Xu Ma was treating Yao Ce, she was so embarrassed that she had only 38 yuan in her pocket each month. She secretly gave Xu Ma a sum of money. Xu Ma didn't ask for it, but her heart was very warm.
Tian Jing is kind to Xu Ma, mostly out of distress, out of respect, and never thought of asking for anything in return.
In addition, Tian Jing is also very considerate to Xu Ma's mother (grand Yao). She knows that her grandma is old, and her movements to support her are especially meticulous. She holds her hand and listens patiently to her speech. . Grandma Yao gave Tian Jing a thumbs up: You will always be my good grandson.
In many cases, behavior is a true portrayal of your heart, and you will do what you think.
2. Hard work,Don't complain
Don't look at Tian Jing's live broadcast now, which is a recent thing. More than a year ago, Tian Jing's family was not rich.
They got married without Du Ma’s help. Du Ma said that they gave Yao Wei and his wife 300,000 yuan to buy a car and 180,000 beauties, but Tian Jing denied them one by one: "I haven’t seen 300,000 long. The only beauties are 25,000."
Although Tian Jing is a doctor herself, Yao Wei is only a temporary employee of the unit. The sum of their salaries is not high. To support the two children and bear the family income, it is necessary to plan carefully and save money. . This is also the reason why the two of them have not bought a commercial house after they have been married for many years. They also bought a second-hand house some time ago.
Tian Jing found that the live broadcast is an opportunity, so she deliberated and explored step by step to achieve today's results with the goods.
This has the blessing of heat, but it is also the result of persistence and hard work.
Without spending time and energy, everything is nonsense.
3. All-rounder, full of skill pack
Tian Jing made a good dish with meat and vegetables, beautiful and delicious at home. Xu Ma, Dad Yao couldn't help but praise his daughter-in-law's cooking skills. Yao Wei has a good food, no wonder the more he eats, the fatter he gets, that is happy fat.
Tian Jing is also smart and cute with her two children. Her 6-year-old daughter can perform gesture dances, and her 3-year-old son Qiqi can recite poems and write a lot of characters.
Tian Jing turned out to be a young dancer in her free time.Stepping on the rhythm, the movements are chic, it turns out that the daughter can dance is also inherited from the mother.
Tian Jinghui has a lot of things. All she wants to do is to maintain this small family, work hard, busy and happy.
Her virtuousness and steadfastness are the root of family prosperity. Diligence and thriftiness are the "cornucopia" of the family.
Fourth, say the same, consistent with words and deeds
Tian Jing is also very rare. He knows how to control his own mouth and cultivate the details.
No matter how uncomfortable she is, she will not speak out her teeth and keep a point in everything. She can say at most: "Life is a bit bitter and the hearts of the people are complicated. Only by looking at the children can you be happy and happy." Miasma, let alone inconsistent words and deeds, boasting to Haikou.
She lives soberly, knows that people's words are terrible, knows that many things don't need to be mixed, and that she can live her own life well. This is Tian Jing's unrevealed wisdom.
Say one thousand words and ten thousand, donate it for nothing, what you have done will not be in vain, and it will eventually be you, Tian Jing, this girl is not easy.
As your experience increases, you feel more and more, who you are and what you believe will attract you, and then your destiny will be as you wish. Adjust your energy to a positive frequency,Is the best for the rest of life. Try to be grateful, try to be simple, try to be sure, happiness will have color.
"This world is your own world. Your attitude towards the world determines what kind of world you will have."
Finally, I want to say: A family with good luck is destined to have good luck.
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