University is called an ideal bay by many people. It is a stage where dreams can be realized and an ideal place. However, the university is also a dyeing vat that cannot be ignored. If you are not careful, you may be disturbed by the chaotic scene. , And even make life go to a deviant situation.
Compared with junior high school and high school, once you enter the university campus, you will get to know students from all over the world. The quality and psychological endurance of these students are also completely different.
This has also created many college students whose three views are not stable, making wrong choices.
For every college student, talking about a pure and sweet love in college will be the most indelible memory in life. However, today’s college students have become more and more open-minded. The scale of falling in love is getting bigger and bigger.
Especially girls who have been restricted to three years of high school will often fall into the camp of love after they arrive at university, especially when faced with the crazy pursuits and unreasonable praise of boys, they tend to be incapable of extricating themselves from it.
Some time ago, the news that a female girl gave birth in the dormitory immediately aroused everyone's onlookers and heated discussions on the Internet.
This junior girl got pregnant unexpectedly during college. Instead of knocking out the child like other girls, she insisted on giving birth to the child. Although she was pregnant during college, it did not affect her Studies.
Her roommate usually takes good care of her. Except for the roommate, no one else knows the news that the junior girl is pregnant.
At this time, there was a crash during the expected delivery date and the final exam time.
This female junior student was worried about affecting the final exam, so she tried her best to endure it, hoping to postpone the birth of her child. Unexpectedly, on the eve of the midterm exam, the child still wanted to come out and see her mother.
did not make any preparations, faced with the female juniors who were about to give birth, but the roommate calmly helped them deliver the baby.And hit 120, and finally out of danger, the female junior student gave birth to a boy weighing nine kilograms.
What is more shocking is that this is not only the birth of a college child, but also the second child of this female college student.
The information about the pregnancy and childbirth of the female college student was released. Many netizens also focused their attention on the root cause of the female college student's pregnancy, and even described them as unselfish.
【The reason why college girls are pregnant】
1. Self-restraint is relatively poor
Years later, the inner consciousness of rebellion was fully awakened in a relaxed environment.
Coupled with poor self-discipline and a more relaxed environment, they will lose their self-discipline. This is also the main reason why so many college students have pregnancy and multiple births have children.
2. Falling into the trap of bad guys
Compared with women who have undergone social tempering, the thinking of female college students is relatively simple. In their eyes: the world is beautiful, all Of people have maintained a certain degree of kindness.
They have just entered the university, and they have good hopes for the future, hoping to experience in a variety of different lives, so that their lives will not be let down.
I don’t know, the bad guys have set up traps and just wait for them to jump in. Without any awareness of safety, they will fall into various whirlpools and become unable to extricate themselves. At the same time, the above-mentioned sad things will happen.
【How should college girls love themselves? ]
1. Don’t indulge in material life
For every college student,If you want to spend your college time steadily, you must not indulge in all kinds of material life. Only in this way can you strengthen your self-restraint.
can wake up in time every time there is a trap, and successfully escape the various traps set by the bad guys. Most female college students fall into the situation because they are too intoxicated with material life, so they are in a situation where they are not restored.
2. Feelings, there must be a bottom line and principles
For female college students, love in college is sacred and beautiful. It can also pass the boring time, but if the relationship is not what you are pursuing in your heart, you must not get involved in any relationship easily because of the influence of the external environment.
Otherwise, it is not only the four years of university that was wasted, but it is also possible that they will lose control of themselves because of the confusing emotions and the inability to master them.
[The editor has something to say]
Pasteur said: Aspiration is the door to career, and work is a journey into the house.
Nowadays, the gradually open concept of love and sexuality has caused many female college students to fall into various crisis scenes, although the environment and atmosphere of college students' love is relatively relaxed.
However, if you fail to hold on to the final bottom line, you may also lose opportunities for yourself. Not only will you delay your studies, you will even lead your life astray.
In the new era, university is not a place to talk about love, but the best place to increase knowledge and accumulate energy. If you can’t stick to it to the end, you will often suffer serious harm.
Today’s topic: What do you think: How should a single girl take care of herself in order to avoid the above-mentioned hurtful things? Welcome to share your views below.
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