Foreword
As the process of 's global integration continues to advance, trade exchanges and partnerships between countries have become closer and closer. While China's international status continues to rise, all countries also want to establish friendly diplomatic relations with China. With frequent exchanges in the cultural and economic fields, transnational marriages have also become a very common phenomenon in China. Russia is close to our country. The girls of this country have fair skin and tall stature. In terms of appearance, most Chinese guys are more willing to marry Russian beauties as their wives. Although the Russian government is also vigorously supporting Sino-Russian transnational marriages, most Chinese guys still feel that there are shortcomings of one kind or another in Russian beauties. The Chinese guys are unwilling to accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages for the following reasons.
Sino-Russian transnational couples
Contrasting male to female ratio
Russia is undoubtedly one of the world’s most lacking male countries. Affected by World War II, the Soviet Union sacrificed a large number of young people (the official death toll is 24 million). Although Russia has a total population of 150 million, the number of women in the country is still 12 million higher than the number of men in the country. The disparate ratio of men to women makes the social status of Russian men far higher than that of Russian women. Subsequently, the following general situations appeared in Russia: 1. Many Russian beauties pursue the same Russian man together. 2. Russian men who are particularly bothered, do not have a strong sense of family responsibility, and they do not know how to respect their wives after marriage. 3. Many Russian girls have reached the age of 20 and have not yet married. On the other hand, in my country, the ratio of men to women is just the opposite of that of Russia.
Russian street beauties
The reason why the Russian government strongly supports Sino-Russian intermarriage
The Russian government has always regarded the country’s beauty as a cherished resource.That being the case, why does the Russian government strongly support Sino-Russian intermarriage? This is because Russia has a vast land and abundant resources, but its population is very sparse. The current situation facing the country is that there are many boys and girls, and the ratio of male to female population is seriously unbalanced. As we all know, the Russian economy has been in a long-term downturn. In order to revitalize the economy, the Russian government wants to use the country’s beautiful women to attract talents from all over the world, increase the population, and promote economic development. In other words, the Russian government vigorously supports Sino-Russian transnational marriages. It does not support the beauty of the country’s marrying to China, but hopes that more and more Chinese guys can "migrate" to Russia.
Russian girl
The Russian government hopes that the Chinese guys who come from the family, as well as the children born to the Chinese guys and Russian girls, can become Russian citizens and settle in Russia for a long time. The Russian government hopes that through this unique method, Chinese talents skilled in science and technology, industry, construction, and agricultural planting will be introduced into the country. I don't want Chinese guys to have a very strong family concept. They are willing to work and study in Russia, but they are unwilling to live in Russia for a long time away from their parents. It is for this reason that most Chinese boys are unwilling to accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages. The Chinese guy is only willing to marry Russian beauties to China, and does not want to become Russia's door-to-door son-in-law.
The Russian girl in the bar
Advantages of Russian girls
As one of the countries rich in beautiful women, Russian beauties are undoubtedly well-known. Most Russian girls have exquisite features, fair skin and tall stature. The love of beauty is common to everyone, so how can the Chinese guys be indifferent to Russian beauties? Secondly, the Russian girls are straightforward and independent in their thinking. They will not make excessive demands on the Chinese guy in terms of material. For example, in the face of a Chinese guy she likes, Russian girls will not ask each other like a Chinese girl: How big is your house? What car do you drive? How much deposit do you have? What Russian girls value more is,Do the two really like each other? Once the Russian girls feel that they really like each other with the Chinese guy, then they will marry the Chinese guy at all costs. In other words, compared to Chinese girls, Russian girls are not only immaterial, they also value the relationship between the two sides. Marrying such a Russian girl as his wife undoubtedly reduces the life pressure of the Chinese guy.
Sino-Russian transnational couples
The reason why Chinese guys are unwilling to marry a Russian beauty
Of course, if things are good, there will be bad . Although the Russian government extremely hopes to introduce Chinese talents through transnational marriages. But there will still be countless Russian beauties who value feelings going to China to marry a Chinese guy. However, people born and raised in two different countries have not shared a common language for a long time, and there are still differences in culture. Their marriage is bound to be difficult to maintain. For example, after giving birth, a Chinese wife will sit at home for a period of confinement. This is a traditional Chinese custom. The Russian wife will work and drink ice water as usual after giving birth. This is a traditional Russian custom. For the newly-born children, the parents of the Chinese guys will repeatedly urge their sons and daughter-in-laws: never let the children catch cold or wind, and be sure to wrap the children tightly. However, Russians are accustomed to letting newborn children take an ice bath (to wipe the child's body with ice and snow, originated from the Orthodox Church). Russians believe that children who have taken an ice bath will grow stronger when they grow up. This is the cultural difference between the two countries. Russian girls can marry China because they like Chinese guys, but the cultural differences between them still exist. In other words, a Chinese guy can marry a beautiful Russian girl with a straightforward personality into his home, but he will not identify with Russian culture. This is one of the reasons why Chinese guys are reluctant to accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages.
Russian girls on the street
Three shortcomings of Russian girls
First, Russian girls have a strong taste
Most of the Russian girls belong to the European race.The most notable appearance characteristics of this race are: white skin, heavy body hair, deep eye sockets, strong nose bridge, thin lips, heavy body odor, and curly red and yellow hair. Therefore, compared with the yellow girl, the sweat glands on the Russian girl are undoubtedly much more developed. Since most of Russia is covered with snow and ice all year round, and the temperature is extremely cold, the diet structure of Russian girls is based on meat, milk, and sugar. Russian girls are already very well-developed sweat glands, coupled with their unique eating habits, this will make their body odor become extremely heavy. This is another reason why the Chinese guys do not accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages.
Sino-Russian transnational couples
2. Different lifestyles, Russian girls are stubborn and stubborn
Although most Chinese girls are more material than Russian girls, they are more material after marriage. Girls are more willing to continue to work. Most Russian girls are unwilling to continue working after marriage. They prefer to become housewives after marriage. Being in a foreign country for a long time, there are cultural differences and language communication barriers, which makes Russian girls feel very lonely, especially dependent on Chinese husbands. On one side is a Chinese husband who is busy with his career, and on the other side is a Russian wife who is extremely dependent on the Chinese husband. Once the Chinese husband neglects and neglects his Russian wife, the stubborn and stubborn Russian girl will have a huge conflict with the Chinese husband. Is there any Chinese guy who is willing to marry a girl who has always had a strong personality and always quarrels with him as his wife? This is another reason why the Chinese guys do not accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages.
Russian aunt
3. Russian girls age faster than Chinese girls
Most Russian girls are tall and fair-skinned. But after they got married, they age faster than Chinese girls.The reason why Russian girls age faster than Chinese girls is because of their unique living habits and eating habits: they are housewives at home after marriage, lack of exercise, and eat a lot of meat, dairy products, and sweets for a long time. Then the tall and beautiful Russian girl will be blessed soon after getting married. No husband cares about his wife's looks and figure. In the past, how much Chinese guys liked beautiful Russian girls, and how disgusted the Chinese guys were for the Russian wives of middle-aged aunts after marriage. This is the fundamental reason why most Chinese boys do not accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages.
Chinese-Russian lovers
Fourth, passionate marriage can't match reality
All perfect marriages need to be built on a material basis. Most Chinese guys marry Russian girls as their wives because they fell in love with Russian girls at first sight during their studies, work, and travel in Russia. The author calls this kind of marriage a passionate marriage. Although passionate marriage pays more attention to the relationship between the two parties, this kind of marriage lacks economic material foundation. This will lead to a situation: Russian girls who marry away from China are unwilling to work after marriage, and they prefer to be housewives at home, and all the important tasks of earning money and supporting the family are borne by the Chinese husband. is a Russian wife who is extremely dependent on a Chinese husband due to unfamiliar life, cultural differences, and communication barriers, and a Chinese husband who is busy with his family on the other. After the two married passionately, the reality of financial constraints will become the biggest contradiction that will bring down their marriage. This is also one of the reasons why Chinese guys do not accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages.
Sino-Russian transnational couples
5. The traditional concept of marrying a wife makes Chinese guys reluctant to accept Russian girls
Most Chinese guys are a bit machismo.They prefer Xiaoniaoyiren, gentle and virtuous wives. Although Russian girls admire the Chinese guy's family care and respect for his wives, Russian traditional concepts make them even more appreciate tall men with big builds. This is because the Russians are deeply rooted in the national plot: they worship the strong. Let's take a look at the average height data of the Chinese and Russian people released in 2017. In 2017, the height of Chinese men (average) was 168.1CM, and the height of Chinese women (average) was 156.2CM. In that year, the height of Russian men (average) was 173.2CM, and the height of Russian women (average) was 164.6CM. The height data of the two peoples released in 2017 revealed a problem: most Russian girls can't give the Chinese guy the feeling of being gentle and virtuous. At the same time, a Chinese guy with this height does not meet the Russian girl's tall, tall, and sturdy mate selection criteria. This means that although Chinese men recognize the appearance of Russian women, the height of Russian women does not conform to the traditional concept of Chinese men. This is another reason why Chinese guys do not accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages.
A family of three Chinese and Russian couples
6. Different family concepts and different educational concepts
Russians believe that couples who start a family alone after marriage should no longer be married with their parents live together. This means that in the perception of Russian girls, there is no concept of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. They feel that their husbands belong to them alone, and their mother-in-laws should no longer interfere in their lives. Obviously this runs counter to the Chinese husband's traditional family concept. Therefore, Chinese guys are unwilling to accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages because they are afraid that they will not be able to reconcile the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In addition, Sino-Russian transnational couples also have great differences in the education of their children. For example, two children have conflicts and fights. Chinese couples will care about whether their children are injured, and then educate their children. When a Russian mother knows that her child is fighting, she will first ask her if she has won.If the child loses the fight, the Russian mother will blame the child for weakness and ask the child to fight again. This is the difference between China and Russia in educational concepts.
Sino-Russian transnational couples
Concluding remarks: Although Russian girls are beautiful and attractive, it is difficult for Chinese guys to accept Sino-Russian transnational marriages due to the above reasons. Love is the prerequisite for marriage, and culture, common language, and economic material are the foundations for maintaining the long-term stability of marriage. A perfect marriage does not have to be a rush of love at first sight, but both spouses must have a long-term relationship with each other and jointly assume family responsibilities.
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