When it comes to Selina, there are two things that cannot be separated from.
One is SHE.
One is burn .
Once upon a time, she was one of the members of the Asian women's group SHE. She was enthusiastic and cheerful, with a sweet voice, and her appearance and storefront were popular all over the country.
However, a fire changed the girl's life trajectory. Because of a blasting scene, the burn area of her body was as high as 54%, nearly 41% was the degree of third-degree burn, and her arms, legs, and face were almost disfigured.
Heaven and Hell, this girl has experienced it.
Ren Jiaxuan, who is 41 years old this year, is finally in love again!
Recently, Ren Jiaxuan was photographed returning to the hotel with a man. After
, she quickly made a generous announcement: "Spring is in full bloom, and my spring is here too."
According to insiders, the man is not an insider in the entertainment industry, but a businessman. He was born in 1988 and is 7 years younger than Ren Jiaxuan.
In the video captured, Ren Jiaxuan jumped around her boyfriend to do nucleic acid, and returned to the hotel hand in hand, like a little woman in love.
Whether a person is happy or not can be seen by looking at his face.
This is the first official announcement after Ren Jiaxuan’s divorce. You should know that since the divorce, Ren Jiaxuan has not been in a relationship for ten years.
01.
Her first half of her life went too smoothly
Ren Jiaxuan is a lucky girl who grew up in a "perfect family".
981, Ren Jiaxuan was born in Taiwan, Baodao. She perfectly inherited her mother's good genes, with delicate outlines of big eyes, pure and lively and sweet. His father Ren Mingting graduated from the Department of Economics of Zhongxing University and became an artist because he often appeared on announcement programs.
Ren Jiaxuan also has a younger sister Ren Rongxuan. The family of four has a very good relationship, is harmonious and happy, and is a "model family" in the eyes of others.
000, Ren Jiaxuan was 19 years old, participated in the "Cosmic 2000 Strength Beautiful Girl Selection Competition" and won the first place.
also participated in the competition at the same time. Hebe and Chen Jiahua (Ella). Later, the three of them formed the SHE girl group, and the company named Ren Jiaxuan Selina as the stage name.
Selina is equivalent to "Goddess of the Moon" and represents "Gentleness", Hebe is equivalent to "Goddess of Youth" and represents "Confidence" and "Courage" Ella implies the torch in ancient Greek mythology.
After the three-person releases the group's first album "Girls' Dormitory", a new girl group debuted in a group.
"She looks like the Barbie Princess who has always been spoiled." Hebe recalled the impression when she first met Ren Jiaxuan.
Every time we go to the company to try it out, Ren Jiaxuan is accompanied by her mother and sister. Not only do I dress up very beautifully, I also keep my comb in my hand and maintain my image at any time. The popularity of
SHE made Ren Jiaxuan an idol of young people at that time. Popular songs such as "Lovers Not Complete", "Beautiful New World", "Chinese Dialect", and "Super Star" have made these three girls' families famous, and they are very popular.
02.
The little woman in love
Ren Jiaxuan has never lacked suitors.
SHE There is a lyric in "Big Womanism":
Tell you loudly that I love you
You make great strides and want to be parallel to you
Love in love doesn't have to rely on you
Carrying forward big womanism
However, Selina is a true little woman in love.
The first to have an affair with Luo Zhixiang, and even Wu Zongxian made fun of the woman on the show, which shows that everyone in the circle of the two knows about them. However, Ren's father felt that Luo Zhixiang was not very good and strongly opposed the two's relationship, so he failed to get together in the end. Now it seems that Dad Ren’s vision is still correct.
Huang Zijiao has also vigorously pursued Ren Jiaxuan.In early 2009, Huang Zijiao booked a table to host a banquet for colleagues and friends at the FiFi restaurant on the 6th floor of Xinyi Eslite. Selina was like a hostess, wearing a black dress and exposed her shoulders. She took the elevator with Jiaojiao from the underground parking lot. As soon as she got into the seat, she immediately arranged for everyone to order food. When she saw Jiaojiao ordering a bowl of rice for everyone, she laughed at him and said, "Is it enough for you to eat only one bowl?"
However, this ambiguous relationship was jokingly passed by the parties involved: "We are good friends from beginning to end. If we had anything at the beginning, how could we still maintain a friend now?"
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In 2009, Ren Jiaxuan and Zhang Chengzhong met at a blind date.
Zhang Chengzhong University Selina was nine years old and graduated from a prestigious university. She is a lawyer. She has studied abroad and has a lot of knowledge. This mature man has a good conversation and a steady temperament, which makes Selina admire him very much. Selina is a girl with a very young woman in her bones. She likes to act spoiled and makes small emotions, but Zhang Chengzhong can tolerate her. When the two were dating, Selina not only drove to wait for him to get off work, but also went to pay the bills after dinner, leaving the figure of the female star behind her head.
010 , SHE started singing in the dome, and her 39-year-old boyfriend Zhang Chengzhong watched the concert with Ren’s father and Ren’s mother. When Enkeshi, Zhang Chengzhong suddenly called "wife" with a microphone and said, "Wife, I love you." Ren Jiaxuan immediately cried until her legs were weak and kneeled down, shouting "What are you calling me? Oh my God, mom", "I can finally make my relationship public, and everyone is worth the price."
originally thought that she would be the happiest and most fulfilling marriage in SHE, but unexpectedly, what I experienced later changed everything.
A month later in the same year, Ren Jiaxuan was accidentally burned while filming, and her life suddenly fell from heaven to hell.
03.
The darkest moments of life
God seems to always like to joke with people, and when you think you will be happy forever, you give you a heavy blow. After
SHE announced his solo trip, Hebe focused on his singing career, Ella was dedicated to filming and hosting, while Selina, Yixin, wanted to marry her boyfriend Ah Zhong at the time.
Ren Jiaxuan once said on the show that she longs for getting married and having children, because she is influenced by her original family, she feels that such a life is happiness and perfect.
Although she was not very hard-working in her career, she was still at work at the time and signed a contract to star in a TV series "I Have a Date with Spring", and partnered with Yu Haoming to play the male and female lead.
Originally, this should be a good opportunity for her to enter the mainland market and to usher in the peak of her career again. Unfortunately, luck has made people feel good, and what greeted her was a disaster.
I believe everyone knows what happened next.
In a blasting scene, the blaster ignited the detonating line early, resulting in the male and female protagonists being seriously injured and almost disfigured.
Ren Jiaxuan spent the most difficult period of her life in the hospital. 54% of the body's skin was burned. The doctor said the survival rate was only 46%.
People who have been burned or burned should know how uncomfortable this feeling is. Skin transplantation requires skin from her body, so she shaves her hair and uses her scalp for transplantation. The beautiful girl with long and gentle hair appeared again and became a young man with a buzz cut.
Ren Jiaxuan talked about the experience of burns in a program and said with a sob that the most difficult thing about is actually not the current injury, but the future road to recovery.
physically and mentally injured, enduring huge pain and torture every day. Looking at her no longer beautiful herself in the mirror, she was extremely inferior. As a result, she becomes sensitive, fragile, and emotional ups and downs. She will be angry if someone else's casual words.
"From that time, I learned to hate," said Selina. "Dad always says to be grateful and grateful. I thought to myself, my daughter is like this, what else can I be grateful for?"
Perhaps, it is difficult for a person who has suffered a huge change to accept and let go.Why do I get such retribution if I did nothing wrong? This should be a knot in Selina's heart that cannot be untied.
even, she thought of suicide. However, she did not have the courage to end her life.
When others look at her, she will feel that the other person is looking at the scar on her arm. It seemed that the outside world was staring at her flaws, her ugly appearance, her destruction of skin, and when she was abandoned.
Although Zhang Chengzhong was always by Selina at that time, and fulfilled his promise to marry her. However, as expected, this marriage could not last for 5 years.
Love or not, are in the details. His love for Selina also ranges from disguise and concealment to disgust without any scruples.
Zhang Chengzhong appeared on the show. When talking about Selina's injury, he said: "I really want to vomit when I saw her thighs."
In 2015, he was photographed having a night out with a hot girl, and his marital status was self-evident.
Selina was captured by an injury not only with her beautiful appearance, but also with her confidence in her heart. Losing the wings of the feathers, he can no longer spread his wings and fly proudly.
"I'm an unattractive person." said Selina.
After getting married, the two of them were sleeping in separate rooms because of Selina's physical condition. After running the marathon, he wanted to hug Zhang Chengzhong, but his first reaction was to avoid it. Even her birthday was not spent together, but celebrated with her good sisters Hebe and Ella.
Even though the two frequently show their love in public, anyone with discerning eyes can see that Zhang Chengzhong's performance is greater than true love.
His unyielding relationship with Selina is largely just a need for his own personality and an emotional card that promotes his election.
Finally, in , the two officially announced their divorce.
"Ah Zhong and I decided to divorce. Marriage requires the efforts of two people. I did not play the role of a virtuous wife..."
Until the divorce, Selina blamed herself.
In love, Ren Jiaxuan has always been humble and weak.
04.
In the second half of his life, he reconciled with himself
Ren Jiaxuan, who has passed his forties, ushered in his own spring again.
Although she is already 40 years old, she still looks very girlish.
When she participated in the recording of the variety show "Daughters' Love", she got along very well with Zhang Xuanrui on the show, and it was once speculated that they were in love.
However, she did not seem to have gotten out of her psychological barrier, and the two were 11 years apart, so she could never believe that the other party would always like her.
However, this girl who once sang "I don't want to grow up" finally walked against the wind in the cruel real world and was reborn in Nirvana.
Ren Jiaxuan experienced the trough of her life before she truly grew up.
Now, she can face the camera naturally and calmly, show her scars fearlessly, and present the imperfect side to everyone.
She also said that she has accepted her current life and no longer thinks that a woman’s life must get married and have children to be perfect.
"I can sincerely appreciate and bless others' beauty, although it doesn't happen to myself." Selina said in the show that she has a very good mentality now, no longer complains, and knows more about tolerance.
She admitted that although she envied her parents' perfect love, she believed that her life no longer needed to take care of her husband and children to highlight perfection. Instead, enjoys the current state, knows how to appreciate the happiness of others, appreciate every state and choice of life, which is also what she thinks is the happiness of the present .
Everyone has their own life path. Although sometimes, unexpected arrivals will catch us off guard and will make the feeling of happiness slip away instantly, the best way to face an uncontrollable situation is to accept it.
For Ren Jiaxuan, the cost of growth is a bit high.But you must believe that the worst moment has passed and the next life is a new beginning.
woman is 40 years old, and she is in the second half of her life, and now she starts to fall in love.
The peak moment of appearance has passed. There is no need to miss the beauty of the past anymore. Let everything float away with the memory.
The true beauty of a woman does not lie in her youthful and beautiful appearance, but in her wisdom, calmness, strength and optimism after precipitation, and the love for life exuded from the inside out.
How can you cherish what you have without experiencing setbacks?
Ren Jiaxuan, who once had love first in life, finally let go of her defense and had a good relationship.
believe that you are worthy of being loved and reconcile with your imperfect self.
We wish her happiness and hope she can be happy.
