Hot Search Frequently "Switching Love 2" is about to end. This season's topic is so popular, thanks to a girl's tears - Wu Haien, the female Wu in the show, maintained the record of crying in each episode under the cold treatment of her ex, but instead cried herself out of the circle.
Every frame of the picture when Sister crying is beautiful. Come and enjoy the famous scene of tears flowing back into a river↓
The red nose looks when she cries, I see Youli;
Especially every time I flatten my mouth and pretend to be strong, which is even more cute.
Chinese and Korean netizens spoiled her very much. Korean website said that looking at her crying look, you can remember the ancient beauty Liu Xizhen ↓
Not to mention, it does have that smell.
A large number of viewers were moved by the heartbreaking aesthetics between her and her ex, and naturally I hope my sister can have a new beginning.
Fortunately, in recent episodes of the show, Hayn no longer needs to cry, and the sparks she and her new guests can be called redemption literature and reflect reality.
Just went to take a look. The two of them had read millions of views, and the CP video was also terrible. The atmosphere of netizens' money is very strong...
But the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. In the latest episode, Hayne confessed that he still wanted to get back with his ex, which attracted endless sighs from the audience inside and outside the picture.
Many viewers were angry that they were not fighting, hoping that she would stop the loss in time and look forward.
It seems that the person involved will still be unable to let go for a while, and the obsession that tied her up was too strong.
You say that it's all love, not just love;
also has many tenacious psychological hints, but the complexity of the components makes it difficult to distinguish the chaotic mood of the person involved.
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Haien's love with his ex Kuimin is the longest part of all guests, and it is also the first part that appeared in the show:
The two of them ran for seven years in love, and it was the first love that accompanied each other through the entire twenty generations.
She and the other party met in college during friendship. In the dark, he chose the token she placed, and fate began.
The two people did love each other deeply. Hayn frequently traveled back and forth for four hours during Kuimin's enlistment to the army, and used her most sincere enthusiasm to protect her relationship;
Hain was preparing to go into seclusion for a period of time to take the flight attendant exam, Kuimin quietly accompanied her.
The day he was finally admitted, he was happy for her and ran around for her like his own good news.
Looking back at this relationship is indeed worthy of the party’s sigh that “I have loved you like that.”
But this love eventually turned into a vulgar ending:
Kuimin was dissatisfied with Hain's neglect of contact, and Hain also felt that the other party's trust was gradually disappearing.
In the end, the two ended their relationship with a cold phone call.
Before the show, the man was actually unable to see his mood and felt that he was very likely to be shaken when he saw Hain.
Haien was very cheerful. After breaking up with Kuimin, she actually dated other people and had the feeling of "It turns out that there are other people who love me like this";
So this time, she came with an open mind.
The real situation is exactly the opposite:
The peach blossoms of Kuimin entered the show, and he was not touched when he saw his ex;
His attitude towards Hayn was like a stranger.
Kuimin's most promising peach blossoms happened to be Hain's roommate. So, the most catching picture in the world appeared -
Kuimin came to Hain's room and went out for a date with Hain's roommate;
Hain's mentality collapsed and contributed the famous scene of crying in front of the dressing table.
For my sister, all this change has been overturned and she can't adapt to it;
She can't quite understand how the other party can turn a blind eye to her without taking care of it, so she has been looking for opportunities to communicate -
took out the birthday gift prepared for Kuimin in advance, and found more than once to give it to him.
or find an excuse to go to Kuimin's room to borrow towels. If you don't have the conditions to create conditions, you have to make a conversation;
But Kuimin's reaction is still neither salty nor light.
When he got the gift that the woman gave her a lot of meaning, he looked unwilling and put it directly into the cabinet....
Haien gave Kuimin the share of his daily heart-warming text messages, and the compound signal was very obvious.
But she never received Kuimin's.
Kuimin: Why is my ex like that?
The continuous compound invitation is no longer enough to shake him, and it has even become a burden to him.
So Kuimin's choice is: keep treating her ex-lost until she looks forward.
Ideals are full, but reality often has some differences.
For example, the man wanted to let her desensitize as soon as possible with this "you see it anyway", but in practice it is an infinite cycle of cold violence;
Haien gave an invitation many times, wanting to talk to Kuimin;
As a result, Kuimin went back to her room and whispered to her in front of her, leaving her alone on the balcony to blow the cold wind.
......Okay, just take it directly, just treat it as a way to cut off the hero Haien.
But she still couldn't give up and still liked it.
When others tried to approach Kuimin, she also violated the rules of the program and lied, trying to indirectly repel others;
This paranoia is naturally not likable, but after understanding the relationship between the two, it became easier to understand.
When Kuimin broke up with Hayn, he expressed his disappointment with her;
himself made great efforts, wanted to change his appearance, and wanted to become a lover he loved again.
Although this reunion failed again, Hayn obviously has formed a cognition: the other party pushes him away because he has not tried hard yet.
"If I don't give up, there will be a turning point in this relationship", which is one of the biggest obsessions that affect her.
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Will this psychological inertia of wanting to reconcile be dissolved when newcomers appear? It turns out that it will not.
Heart disease is difficult to treat, and the difficulty is far beyond everyone's imagination - the
program is broadcast in the second half of the time, and a new guest, the sixth male guest, arrived, and one obviously chose to appear in front of Hayn better than her ex-boyfriend.
Seoul University sports student, handsome man, and continued to express his affection for her when he first met.
Hyun-kyuk is young, but she is charming and skillful;
is also meticulous and considerate, and she also gives her full understanding when she indulged in pain.
Even when Hayn had a misunderstanding of his and other female guests, he could understand her concerns and explain them as soon as possible;
relies on such careful treatment, Hayn's mood gradually became positive. She said that the other party was "the person who made me strong";
Her heart also began to deviate from Hyun-gyu, and her heart-warming text messages were finally stopped sending them to her ex. This is a milestone victory!
But in the latest episode of the truth-telling adventure, it’s a pity that Hayn’s questions are still on Kuimin...
One question:
Two question:
Three question.
She is still asking for answers to her obsessions.
And she is not trying to get inner peace, she really cares.
Other guests asked Hayn, who would you choose if there was only one last chance to date?
She finally chose Kuimin again because "we don't have any chance to communicate yet."
So far, I feel from Hain that it is too strong inertia -
Hain always unconsciously repeats "(with him) no chance to communicate";
But is it really not?
The fact is, there is, but it was wasted by the man.
The woman took the initiative to create too many communication occasions, but the man refused.
This is already a very obvious signal, but for people with too deep obsession, this is not enough.
Everyone witnessed all this and realized Hayn's feelings. Hyun-gyu asked her, would she want to get back together with Kuimin?
She said sincerely, yes, I still want to get back together.
"Because it is the person who accounts for a large proportion of my life."
found that it was not, and the sentence "(he) accounts for a large proportion of my life" is often spoken by Hain; the sentence
highlights another kind of wrong obsession, "If this relationship can still get better, they will at least not be written off."
barrage is also helping Haien explain how a chance encounter in just a few days can be worth seven years. It was seven years, seven years that cannot be easily given up;
is a comfort to the parties involved, but it is also a deepening of psychological hints.
A thin lover will not have such association at all. For example, Aaron Kwok , which has also experienced seven years of long-distance running, has a famous quote, "If you don't fit your shoes, it's better to change it. If you bite the bullet and go on, you will only bleed."
, this is another view of emotion, which is more cruel and realistic -
The meaning of emotion will not be written off just because of the end. The pity for the sunken relationship will instead bring more pity to the parties involved.
Understand Hayn, it still takes time to get out of this relationship. But you can also start to stop yourself from having the expression "He gave me a big shadow, I can't just leave".
wishes her one day to say, "It took me seven years to recognize someone, but fortunately there is still time in the future."
