Parents are the most important teachers for their children.
——Gu Qian
Not long ago, the 19-year-old "Little Dragon Girl" Wu Zhuolin announced on a social platform that he would marry his 31-year-old foreign girlfriend.
In the photo, two people hugged each other sweetly, as if they were declaring to the whole world: No matter what, we are in love.
Before that, there were too many rumors about "Little Dragon Girl".
From the day she was born, this society seemed to have not had much kindness to her, even her beloved relatives.
Previously, she once posted a video similar to "asking for help" on social platforms, and once said:
is Jackie Chan's daughter. She has no source of income now. She lives in Canada with her girlfriend. She sleeps on the streets and once makes a living by picking up scavengers. She has sought help from various local charities, but was rejected.
It is hard to imagine that this is the life that a 19-year-old child lives.
Even children from ordinary families should live a carefree life in their 19-year-old flower season. They should enjoy the warmth and education of the ivory tower on campus, rather than being as embarrassed as Wu Zhuolin.
This big brother, who is famous at home and abroad, has never seen her since her daughter was born. When asked by the media, he cheered up and avoided her.
And "Little Dragon Girl"'s mother Wu Qili is to give birth to a child alone and educate the child under the attention of the whole society, and this child seems to have become her punching bag.
In media reports, words like "slicing your wrist" and " family violence " often appear.
Disclaimer father, and mother who is irresponsible and moody. Such family situation makes Wu Zhuolin's growth extremely difficult.
How is her half-brother, "Crown Prince" Jaycee Chan's mother-in-law?
was born in the United States, received elite education, and went to school in the best school.
18 years old, loves music, because of her father, she can be a teacher of the "Godfather of Chinese Music" Lee Zongsheng .
If you want to make a movie, you can participate in the movie called "genius director" Jiang Wen " The sun rises as usual 》.
even if it is exposed to drug use, it still lives freely.
still party with friends and live a life of bright lights and wine.
Some netizens even commented on social platforms:
What's more ironic is that when Xiaolongnu was sleeping on the streets, the prince of dragon was planning for his comeback. Preheating, invite a large group of celebrities to celebrate their birthdays.
can't help but sigh that half-siblings, one born in the clouds, one lives in the dust, one cannot eat, while the other is in love.
the fathers are both Jackie Chan, but the two mothers' practices and attitudes are very different. This is the fundamental reason why the two children are on the fork in their lives.
At the end of last month, Jackie Chan published an autobiography- "I'm old before I grow up" tells the story of his life in a very detailed way, and there are many decayed lives such as "alcoholic", "infidelity", and "prostitution".
talks about his girlfriends he has dated, and his words are full of arrogance and contempt.
Lin Fengjiao Just got pregnant, and his attitude is:
" (I) is a little psychologically guarding against her. The money I earn is squandered by myself, giving her fixed household expenses every month, so that her and her son have a car, a house and a money to spend, but they never give all the money to her. "
When Wu Qili learned that Wu Qili was pregnant, his first thought turned out to be:
"I just need to make a call, as long as she questioned me on the phone, saying why you were like this, I would just say divorce and hang up the phone, the best of both worlds."
. When Lin Fengjiao answered a call from her husband after the incident, her reaction was tolerant and understanding:
"You don't need explanation. Don't hurt others, and don't hurt us.
Now any time, as long as you need me and your son to stand up, we can stand up immediately. I know you're annoyed now. Don’t worry about me, I’m fine, you can do your business first. "
Lin Fengjiao's gentle understanding made Jackie Chan feel guilty and changed his attitude and determination:
After that, I immediately asked a lawyer to change my will and gave her all my property and everything.
Such practice is like a king making a mistake. His queen forgave him with tolerance and generous means, but he used his property to praise the queen for her valuable tolerance.
As a result, the queen was praised, and the king was not touched by her body. Everyone was happy. It seemed that nothing had happened before. It was really sad.
And the other heroine Wu Qili, who was the "wrong" of this "wrong", was once cherished by Jackie Chan. There were media reports that:
At that time, Wu Qili was filming, Jackie Chan was waiting at the dinner table, or in the car. If he was waiting at the dinner table, then a group of people were waiting for Wu Qili to have dinner alone. Wu Qili could not, and none of the people in Jackie Chan crew dared to move their chopsticks. Until Wu Qili arrived, Jackie Chan personally picked up food for her and everyone was there. Dare to speak.
But after Wu Qili gave birth to "Little Dragon Girl" regardless of the silence, Jackie Chan's attitude was:
This light tone gently brought harm to two women, and was plotted by Wu Qili. But isn't everything aroused because of him?
He ignored the scandal of his daughter. Under the pressing of the reporter, he said five words casually: " It's good that she is happy . "It seems as cold as if commenting on a child who has nothing to do with it. But what is wrong with the child?
often hears old people say: The grievances of the previous generation should not affect the next generation.
What's more, this is still a kind of family.
Jackie Chan's career achievements are indeed admirable, but as a father, Jackie Chan is unqualified.
Parents' education occupies a very important position in the growth of children. Recently, I saw a news that I felt it was particularly heartwarming.
Two-year-old orphan selah is expensive The state welfare home was adopted by an American couple and became the third child of the mother Becca.
As a new member of this family, selah was very uncomfortable.
But Becca warmed her with love and patience, selah gradually opened her heart.
In this home, selah celebrated her birthday for the first time, first jungle adventure with her family, and first Halloween.
becca worried that selah felt lonely in a foreign country, and she also spent the traditional Chinese Spring Festival at home so that selah would not forget her hometown, which was very warm.
selah gradually adapted to the new life, and the life in the welfare home made her timid and inferior, but in this new home, because of the care given to her by the becca couple, she gradually became cheerful and lively, with a warm smile on her face.
Different skin colors did not stop them from becoming a family because their hearts were "Love and Warmth" are closely linked, and it is meaningless to ask Selah's parents why abandoning her becomes a pointless thing, because we all know that she is having a happy life now, and parents and children have always been interdependent rather than opposing each other.
Love and being loved are still the best existence in the world. As parents, we must bring endless love to children and let them feel the warmth and happiness of being loved.
They will shape the qualities of kindness and courage in a loving family environment. When they grow up, they will face it with a positive and optimistic attitude no matter what they experience.
As parents do not know how to educate their children, do not set a good example, or are not prepared to be a parent at all, which actually greatly affects the growth of children.
So how to be a "qualified parent"? I have summarized a few points:
1. Accompanying
Many times parents often ignore their children's growth because of work. I have seen many parents give their children to their grandparents to take care of, but in fact, there are many opportunities to contact their children invisibly. You should always come into contact with your children, understand each other, and enhance your relationship.
2. Set an example
People often say that "parents are the first teacher of their children". A person's enlightenment education is his first understanding of the world. Parents' words and deeds are very important. Therefore, parents must pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children.
3. Cooperate with each other
There are often fathers missing in life. Many families are mothers taking care of their children, which will make the children have the illusion of "where are they going, dad?" Mothers taking care of their children will also make their children lack the character of perseverance and strength. Therefore, parents should coordinate with each other and educate their children together so that they can help their children grow up better.
Every child comes to the world as an angel, and they should be treated with gentleness.
How to educate children and let them grow better is a compulsory course for parents throughout their lives.
