Yishu wrote in "Xibao": "I want a lot of love. If there is no love, I want a lot of money."
In fact, this sentence is very realistic. Now if a woman always mentions money, everyone will define this woman as a material woman.
Generally speaking, people who say this are people who disrespect women. They have not really experienced how difficult it is to have no money.
Or it was because the family was very rich and never felt how difficult it was to make money. Only then would it be easy for a woman to make money by labor was said to be her vanity.
It seems that money is an outsider, and it will not be brought with you if you don’t live or die. But living in this world without money is really hard to take. Have you ever observed the people around you?
The sun has not come out in the morning, and the sanitation workers who have to get up at five o'clock to go out to clean the streets. The employees who can only lie in the office for lunch breaks at noon, and the elderly beggar who can only make money by turning over used newspapers and drink bottles by the garbage at night.
Each of them lives for money. They work harder than anyone else, but their lives are still so miserable because they have no money.
Especially for women, this society has given them many rules and regulations. If you are not particularly outstanding in your work and career, it is difficult to have your own world. Even whether you are happy in marriage has a lot to do with money.
After all, we have the saying goes, "A poor couple is sad for everything."
Look at the women you think are happy in life. In fact, the reason why they are rich is because they have the ability.
Only those women who have no money, no effort and no strength complain about society all day long, and complain that money is not important.
In fact, when people reach middle age, there is really a big difference between rich women and poor women.
Li Senyu and Zhou Tongtong are best friends who are young. When they were young, they were innocent and did not have to consider what livelihood is in this society.
But as they grow older, the two of them have undergone earth-shaking changes. It is precisely because of this change that makes their relationship go further and further, and they have almost rarely contacted them until now.
After graduating from university, Zhou Yunhong found a very ordinary job, and his major was not right, because he did not study hard because he really didn’t have the perseverance to persevere, so he just wanted to live a stable life.
does not have much demand for life. The only hobby is that it loves fashion and dresses. The monthly salary is only a few thousand yuan, and most of it is used to buy clothes. This is the typical moonlight clan, and there is basically no deposit in the card.
Li Senyu is a complete strong woman. When she was in college, she never let herself write various honor certificates and trophys to get it. After graduation, she was directly attracted by state-owned enterprises and her monthly salary is more than 10,000 yuan.
Moreover, she has very strict requirements for herself and has never been a little relaxed in learning. Her life goal is to be able to constantly challenge herself, live in such a fast-paced life, and enjoy it every day.
Due to work reasons, Zhou Zhaotong stayed at home to watch TV series all day long, occasionally going out to and from get off work, and occasionally going out to eat with friends, and rarely had time to go shopping.
Of course, Li Senyu is a workaholic. She only looks at work all day long, and she goes on business trips everywhere and has little time to have fun.
There are two people who are not in the same city and have fewer contacts, but as long as they celebrate their birthdays, they will definitely get together, no matter whether it is windy or rainy, they will not be able to move.
It is the age to talk about marriage. Zhou Tong's parents were in a hurry to introduce her to a blind date, and the family conditions were all good.
After less than half a year of being a parent, both parties made a marriage contract, and Li Senyu married her good sister out of tears.
Zhou Yunhong is so simple because her life is so simple, and her husband loves her very much. Later, she became a housewife because of her child.
But as time goes by, her husband has long lost the freshness she used to be. Because she is not making money, her attitude towards her is getting worse day by day, and her dressing is not as fashionable as she was back then, and she is also very casual.
It seems that the wrinkles on her face have made her several years older, and the smile on the corner of her mouth is gone. It seems that she rarely sees her selfies in the circle of friends.
Li Senyu, who worked hard on the other side, bought a house and a car with the money she earned. Although her family was anxious to get her married, she looked at her refusal and felt embarrassed to urge her.
As a result, when she was 28 years old, she met the right person. The other person was from another place, she looked very handsome, and her family was very rich.
In order to let her and her parents meet frequently, my husband bought another house in another place and asked her parents to move out together. Since then, the two have rarely contacted each other.
Li Senyu always relies on her own strength to buy things. Now she doesn’t have to work so hard when she has a husband and often travels everywhere.
Life is enjoyable. Once, two people had the opportunity to go shopping together. There was a completely different comparison when they met. Li Senyu still looked so young, beautiful and beautiful, while Zhou Zhao was old, ordinary and not dressed up.
Li Senyu fell in love with a very beautiful necklace. In fact, Zhou Zhaotong liked it very much, but she had no money.
had to say that it was indeed pretty, but I didn’t know who to show it to my husband who loved you. But Li Senyu said that of course it was for my husband who loved you.
Zhou Yuntong smiled and didn't say anything, but Li Senyu saw through everything. Before leaving, she secretly bought the necklace and gave it to her as a gift.
The little sister has not seen each other for many years and said something in the house all night. Zhou Chong, who was sitting on the train, couldn't help crying when he saw the necklace in his bag.
Their lives of both sisters, but they completely interpret the difference between a woman having money and not having money.
Women must make money well, not for comparison, but there are too many moments in their life where they can use money to defend their dignity.
When I was young, I thought that as long as I live well in the present, I would do it.
Even if you don’t have to care about money, in the days ahead, especially for middle-aged women, you can deeply feel that it is too difficult to have money in this world of life.
He Liling also said a thought-provoking sentence: How long can a woman be young? How long can it take to be carefree? As a woman who is dependent on habits, sometimes we should think about whether I have the ability to be self-sufficient if one day an unexpected situation occurs? One day we must find ways to live on ourselves, and only ourselves can protect our future.
The Bible also contains: Don’t be too poor, otherwise you will lose God’s face.
Women should develop an independent personality. Only when you have money can you give you the greatest sense of security.
If you can't even be independent by yourself, why should men support you for no reason?
No one in this world is willing to pay for you except parents.
So no matter how difficult life is, you must be rich. Being rich can even help you, but at the same time I hope everyone will not think too complicated about women who work hard to make money.
is not a material thing for women, they need to do this to be worthy of their parents.
