"In this world, there are many other things besides love." In " Criminal Investigation Archives IV", the scene of Wu Qiaojun breaking up with Xu Fei with a smile in tears is still regarded as a classic by drama fans.
The regrets in the play are brought into reality, and fans are obsessed with it. Why do they expect the starring Xuan Xuan and Louis Koo to continue their previous relationship in reality, but unfortunately they failed to do it.
has been going around for 20 years, and the two singles have recently begun to reunite frequently. In addition to playing the CP again in "Crime Scene", they joined hands to promote bank financial management on November 5, and are now reuniting to shoot the movie version of " Looking for Qin Ji ", and fans' hearts are restless again.
But this may be a waste of time. After all, Xuan Xuan has clarified many times, "Gu Zai likes a more gentle girl, and I don't meet these conditions very well."
Now 49-year-old Xuan has experienced many relationships. For her, "Marriage is not something I must do in my life. I still have the courage to stay calm when I meet the right person. If not, I will not settle for it."
will not settle for love or marriage. It is her charm, and this has also caused the bumps in her love life.
"Women are not men's accessories"
The beauty Li Jiaxin once said bluntly: The school beauty back then was not me but Xuan Xuan, she was beautiful and good at studying.
Xuan Xuan is not the kind of "stunning" beauty, but she has an intellectual and grandeur on her body, so naturally there are many suitors.
1993, when Xuan Xuan was filming "Dragon Brothers and Rats", she fell in love with Zhang Weijian because of the drama. Unfortunately, this relationship faced the asymmetry of "strong women and weak men" from the beginning.
At that time, Xuan Xuan was the leading actress who was focused on TVB cultivation, with an unlimited career; while Zhang Weijian was at a low point in his career, with poor record sales, no TV series to shoot, and the company did not renew the contract...
But Xuan Xuan still fell in love, and she was in a strong place. She never cooked and started learning to cook and make soup; when she went out to eat, she also proposed to go to food stalls or roadside stalls just to reduce the burden on Zhang Weijian.
It’s just that Zhang Weijian’s life has been hard since childhood. His father took his mistress to run away from home. His mother opened a nursery and helped him grow up. He grew up hard all the way. Faced with Xuan Xuan’s excellence, he was anxious and frustrated at the time.
"I see Xuan Xuan getting better and better day by day and earn more money than me. Don't say what outsiders think, even I tell myself in my heart that she is definitely qualified to find someone better than me."
The strong woman is strong and the men are weak, the pressure from the outside world, the rift between each other... No matter how much love and affection are, it cannot repair the rift between the two, so this relationship ended regretfully three years later.
"He is very outstanding. Everyone's career has ups and downs, but he is a traditional man. From the perspective of a man, he thinks that the man's career is better than the woman. If you are happy, of course you will continue, but everyone's paths are different and their thoughts have changed, so there is no need to force them to be together."
Let go of Jacky Cheung, Xuan Xuan started a new relationship. In 1996, she and Rong Wenhan fell in love at first sight at a party.
Rong Wenhan is a descendant of the Hong Kong Rong family . Grandpa Zeng Rong Desheng was a famous national capitalist during the Republic of China period. He is known as the "King of Cotton Yarn" and the "King of Flour"; Dad Rong Zhixin is the honorary chairman of Qian Fangzheng Digital Group and the founder of Rongwen Technology and Haorong Group; Uncle Rong Zhijian is the chairman of CITIC Pacific.
Although Xuan Xuan is not from a wealthy family, she has a wealthy family. Her father works in Singapore , and her mother is an airline executive. She has excellent character and academic performance since she was a child. She studied in the UK at the age of 13. She studied at Rodin High School, the best girls' school in the UK. She graduated from Imperial University of Technology , and is a true academic master.
She and Rong Wenhan have been in love with each other for nearly 6 years. Just when everyone thought she would marry into a wealthy family like most female stars, she broke up when Mei Zao Huafu became a rich wife.
It turns out that the man asked her to quit the film after marriage and concentrate on taking care of her family. This is a red line that Xuan Xuan, who has always pursued independence and women must have a career she loves, must not touch.
"Women are not men's accessories... I won't settle for the second best. I don't want people to raise them. I'll marry long ago. If I go through the rest of my life, he must be the right person."
After that, although Xuan Xuan fell in love with dentist Chen Jianwei (his father was Chen Weiliang, a lawyer in the 1960s, and her grandfather was Chen Hanhua, the founder of "Jufayuan Rice Store", with a rich family background), South African veterinarian Ruan Bester, and Italian handsome man Fran, he was unable to reach the end.
I want to be weak in love and want to act coquettishly, "I haven't met someone who can make me unindependent. I will want to have someone who can protect me, let me rely on, be coquettish, and let me be truly a woman."
Looking at my friends around me, starting a family and setting up a house one by one, Xuan Xuan, who is often ridiculed by Hong Kong media for being a "golden leftover woman", still has no desire to marry, "Two people stay together for the rest of their lives, must be happy, otherwise they will find someone to marry and have children. Such a life is too boring."
She does not castrate her career to marry into a wealthy family and please men, nor will she make do with it because she is the age to get married. Even if she laughs at the ground, she will naturally feel light in her heart. "I have never regretted my choice" is her answer.
Black and white
Xuan Xuan's persistence and "black and white" are not only emotionally, but also very tough when it comes to things about right and wrong. "Wrong is wrong, and she will not distort her identity with the other party because of that person's identity and background and other reasons." So there is inevitably a lot of right and wrong.
In the early years, she and Zhang Keyi collaborated on " Brothers in the Desperate ". The two of them had a deep sisterhood in the play, but the outside of the play caused a lot of storm.
fuse was asked in an interview why "Brothers in Desperate" failed to be completed in time. Xuan Xuan directly stated that it was Zhang Keyi who was often late, which delayed the crew's progress.
The media, who was afraid that the world would not be in chaos, immediately caught the gimmick of the two popular actresses: Xuan Xuan criticized Zhang Keyi, who was the "late King".
Under the flaming storm of the media, Zhang Keyi was not willing to be outdone and immediately counterattacked: Xuan Xuan often laughed in filming scenes, causing frequent NGs, and each scene had to be filmed six or seven times repeatedly to slow down the progress.
As the series was popular, the media continued to push and boost the ignition. The two's verbal battle once became the front-page headlines, and it was only after the TVB senior executives sent persuasion that the war was calmed down.
However, since then, these two TVB popular actresses have officially begun their hostile career of "the king does not see the king".
There are endless rumors about Xuan Xuan's "not being a human being". In fact, she is not low in EQ, nor is she targeting Zhang Keyi, but she has absolute persistence in punctuality. "For me, being late is also late. You affect others and wasted other people's time."
worked in TVB for many years. She has never been angry about her role. The only few discords on the crew are related to the lateness of the actors in the same group. Guo Aiming Late when she was a judge of the Hong Kong Miss Hong Kong caused dissatisfaction with Xuan Xuan, and Lam Feng also angered Xuan Xuan for being late.
For friends in the circle, Louis Koo, Ouyang Zhenhua, Galle Luo , etc., Xuan Xuan only barely allowed them to be late, "but not more than half an hour."
may be influenced by his father since childhood, Xuan Xuan must score 120 points for herself and her work, "Dad taught me since childhood that he is a person, which has led to my thoughts being rational, so I have certain requirements for myself and people."
After the filming of "Flying Tiger" in 2012, she left TVB and said bluntly that what she could not bear was the disrespect she received in TVB, "In fact, every actor wants to be organic You can play, just see if you have such an opportunity. When you have time, at least you can feel the sincerity for her. Whether you can do it depends on yourself or not. Respect is very important.
is so straightforward, which leads to Xuan Xuan having few female friends. Most of her good friends appreciate her "straight and true" male friends, which has also caused a lot of storm.
In " Golden Years ", her and Jialiang Luo's eyes were too tacitly understood and were rumored to be real.At that time, when Jialiang Luo was a divorce, the unscrupulous media made a fuss, and Xuan Xuan was innocently accused of being a "missie".
"I have always been very independent. I have cultivated a personality that wants to speak out since I was a child. Bullying is not in my dictionary." After she denied the scandal with Gary Luo, she was not afraid of rumors and opened a restaurant with Gary Luo.
Until Luo Jialiang married Su Yan, Xuan Xuan became Luo Jialiang's son's godmother, and the rumors finally broke themselves.
In addition, Anita Yuen and Xuan Xuan were originally sisterly, but when filming " Heaven and Earth Men ", rumors of Xuan Xuan seducing Zhilin Zhang were rumored. Anita Yuen broke up with Xuan Xuan without investigation.
Xuan Xuan has a clear conscience. Those who believe that she is clear will be clear. After denying the scandal, she will not force this friendship. In recent years, the two have finally eliminated the misunderstanding and resolved their past grudges.
Conclusion
"Go to more places to see things that others don't have, and you will also feel very lucky, because I think it is very important to be satisfied in life." Her transparency comes from the courage to reflect on and summarize.
In everyone's impression, Xuan Xuan seems to have always been the heroine, and her career is smooth, but in fact, she has experienced the turning point of being in the limelight, having no drama to shoot, being overwhelmed, and becoming popular again. Many relationships ended without success. It can be said that she has experienced vicissitudes.
Nowadays, her life is simpler. She insists on fitness, and gathers with old friends from time to time to share the details of life. She learns to make cakes and refreshments in her spare time to add to the fun of life... Her straightforward edges when she was young have been polished into another free and free flavor by time.
As Hermann Hesse said, everyone's life is a journey toward oneself, an attempt to a road, and a quiet call to a path. The awakened person has only one task: find himself, stick to himself, and move forward along his own path, no matter where it leads to.
