>Introduction: Taiwanese actress Lin Chenxi gave birth to a beloved daughter at the end of 2016 and rarely shared private family photos. Recently, it was rare to post a photo of breastfeeding on the train on Facebook, and wrote: "**Breastfeeding is.

Introduction: Taiwanese actress Lin Chenxi gave birth to a beloved daughter at the end of 2016 and rarely shared private family photos. Recently, it was rare to put a photo of breastfeeding on the train on facebook, and wrote: "Hidding is a healthy and natural thing. Wherever you go, where you go to " seems to be intentional to advocate mothers' breastfeeding and breastfeeding, and the public should also accept it.

Lin Chenxi Facebook screenshot

As soon as the photo was released, many fans of the same mother resonated with each other, saying it was "very beautiful" and "very loving". Some mothers also expressed helplessness: ", it's a pity that most people except relatives and friends still have strange and uncomfortable eyes. " There are also a large number of netizens who criticize her for being only concerned about feeding her. She did not hide in public, and felt that she was selfish, and even accused her of " exposing her breasts like this hinders weathering and behavior is shameful." . Lin Chenxi also posted a message on Facebook to respond: " says it's really nothing to be shameful. All of this is a matter of breastfeeding in a personal way. " The high-speed railway also responded: "There is no restrictions on breastfeeding in the train, and the high-speed railway personnel will try to provide assistance as much as possible."

selfish? shameful? Impotence? Today, when breastfeeding is advocated by the whole world, breastfeeding has become a shameful thing, which makes me indignant and sad. In fact, before becoming a mother, I didn’t understand my mother who breastfeeded in public and felt embarrassed. I couldn’t do it. However, the arrival of the baby made me refresh my views. One day, when the baby cried so hard that his face was flushed, and he was so angry that he wanted to eat breastfeed but could not find the mother and baby room, I didn't care about the eyes of the people around me to breastfeed the baby without hesitation. At that time, my consciousness was: My baby was hungry, I couldn't let him starve, he needed me.

This may be the nature of being a mother, even if you don’t understand it no matter how much you don’t understand.

Artist Lin Chenxi posted a photo storm and reminded me of the Beijing subway breastfeeding incident two years ago: A public welfare organization criticized her as a "nude sexual organ" when forwarding a photo of a mother breastfeeding on the Beijing subway. This remark caused heated discussion after it was made.

Who is embarrassing to breastfeed in public? If you fail to understand or understand this behavior, please do not use your so-called moral concept to criticize a mother who breastfeeds according to the laws of nature. Sternly slamming you will only make you ignorant and dirty. , do not look at it inappropriately. If you feel embarrassed when you see it, don’t put pressure on the breastfeeding mother. No one will be willing to expose themselves in public places. There is no fixed time for babies to eat, and they have to eat when they are hungry, and they can’t wait for a minute. If it is not a forced one, no woman is willing to lift her clothes in public and stuff her nipples into the child’s mouth.

Breastfeeding in public places is a controversial old topic. What kind of society is this that is fussy but not inclusive? A similar incident also occurred in , Indiana, , USA. When her mother Conner Kendall was breastfeeding in a restaurant, she was photographed by a young father sitting next to her and placed on a social network. In addition to the photo, there is a text like this: OK, that mother... I know that baby needs to breastfeed when he is hungry. But I'm not sure if it's appropriate for you to do this when I'm dining in a restaurant, and there are children around... I understand breastfeeding in public, but you can at least cover your breasts, right? !

After the incident, it caused heated discussion among netizens, and it was another ridiculous and extremely harsh criticism.

The client Conner then wrote a long article on Facebook to respond to various doubts and harassments and condemn the uploader's ignorance. This also gives all breastfeeding mothers an opportunity to speak out. The special group of breastfeeding mothers needs to be understood and cared for!

long article reads like this:

I don’t owe you any explanation. I did nothing wrong. I took good care of the rest of the shop and turned around and lifted my clothes to feed my son until he finished drinking. I didn't use a lactation towel because my son resisted them and he would yell under it and wouldn't eat well. If he yelled because he was hungry, I would definitely be considered an unqualified mother for not feeding my baby.I didn’t squeeze my milk into the bottle before going out because, first, my son doesn’t like to drink milk from the bottle; second, I have the right to feed my child in any way I feel suitable. Many comments are mostly harassing statements, or insults to me, as well as every breastfeeding mother in the past, present and future.

I am very grateful for showing your ignorance to the public and making this topic closely related to me pay attention. By invading my and my children’s privacy, you actually did the following:

First of all, you showed your true face and exposed a group of simple-minded people. You originally wanted to stand up and expose an act of infringement on your own rights and others, but you fell into the trap of hypocrisy set by you. You violated not only my rights, but my children's. Don’t you know that it is illegal to put your child’s photos online without the consent of the legal guardian of the minor child? I can understand that you feel uncomfortable when you see my breasts. Then I will give you a pertinent opinion, don’t go and see it!

Secondly, you gave me a platform and motivation to bravely defend breastfeeding. It was you who inspired me and made me start to take action. Don't worry, I will definitely take action. Not only me who have been violated by you, but also those who feel like I have violated their rights, those who are slandering, those who breastfeed their children but are humiliated by you. Some people will laugh at a mother who takes care of her children. I feel so pitiful for you.

Again, you are challenging me and my personality. You gave me this opportunity to show what kind of person I am during this time full of negative comments. Now I know, I am very strong, you can't do anything to me. In fact, it is you who made me stronger. I'm kind enough for those who blame me wrongly. Trust me, I'm already gentle...

Similarly, I'm wise, I know everything about breastfeeding, and I know how to do it will be the best for my kids. I did this not only because it was worth it, but also because it was the best for the kids. I am determined because my rights include not only feeding him, but also feeding him at any time and place I want.

In terms of breastfeeding rights, I have the support and support of federal laws. I was allowed to feed my children anywhere that was in compliance with the regulations. Meanwhile, I will thank you for taking my photo and expressing my apology.

understands this and I will no longer tolerate any behavior like this happening again. If you publish photos of me and my children again, I will resort to the law. I will return to the other body in his way. By then, there will be many mothers, fathers and breastfeeding supporters to support me. Our voice will be heard by everyone.

I strongly recommend that you teach yourself and your daughter about breastfeeding. The breast is used to feed offspring. It is society that porns them. Children don't think their breasts are erotic until someone teaches them like this. I hope that in the future, your daughter will not be humiliated when she is breastfeeding, and her breastfeeding photos will not be circulated everywhere on the Internet.

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The good mother in your photo who is breastfeeding her beautiful child

(Translation: Some people usually want to see your breasts the most. When you breastfeed your baby, they feel it is inappropriate... Does anyone see the nonsense of this logic?)

The private message he replied was very short, and I don’t think it’s very sincere to the apology. He did not admit his ignorance to everyone, not once.

" Why didn't she feed her before going out? "

My reply was: I've fed it. The place we live is about an hour away from the hotel, and we have been in the hotel for more than an hour, so it's almost three hours since the child last drank milk.

" Wear a lactation towel! "

My reply is: My son doesn't like lactation towels.He would tear it and yell, and he wouldn't be able to breastfeed well under a lactation towel. In this way, I believe your dining experience will definitely be worse.

" I don't want to look at my breasts! "

Reply: Take your gaze away!

" Go to the car or bathroom. "

Reply: I parked my car at the infant supplies store, and I couldn't walk all the way to feed my milk. I was having a meal at the time. And I don’t leave my family behind just for private feeding. If every adult is also dining in the bathroom, I will also feed my children in the bathroom.

" That's the purpose of the nursery! "

Reply: This is my right and it is also stipulated by federal law. I can choose to feed my children at any place or any method as specified. Also, that mall has no nursery room at all, so your defense is simply untenable.

" should be squeezed into the bottle before departure. "

Reply: My son doesn't like bottles, and he is too particular about bottles. One of the reasons why I came to town is to buy a new power cord for the milker.

" It is really necessary for her to turn her breasts to the point where anyone can see them? "

Reply: I didn't "turn my breasts out!" I turned my back to everyone and asked him to drink milk. When he finished drinking, I considered that everyone had pulled the shirt on. So what others can see is what you can see in the photos. If a little chest line offends you, please don’t stare at it. Even if I find it out, it has nothing to do with you. The mothers who breastfeed at Walmart have revealed more, and you have seen less. I am not going to mention posters of models from the Victoria Secret Show in the mall. If I were a woman with exposed clothes, maybe this would be no big deal.

" If this is a natural thing, then why can't men urinate with their urinary anytime and anywhere? That is also the natural function of the body. One thing! "

Reply: First of all, milk is not the body's excrement, and secondly, unless the reason for bringing the urinary is because you want to use it to feed your child, feeding the child with me is completely different.

" There is still a child around you. "

Reply: Children will not think that breasts or anything else are pornographic when they are born. They are taught by society to think so.

" Lactation is a special and beautiful thing that happens between mother and child and should be done privately. "

Reply: Yes, it is very special, and I am very grateful to be able to have such a connection with my child. But since it is beautiful and special, why can't everyone enjoy it? If a mother wants to breastfeed privately, it is her right, and I also have the right to feed my child when he is hungry. Different breastfeeding methods have the same purpose, just like feeding with a bottle. If there is any controversy about this, then using bottle feeding should also be done privately.

" Then what about the rights of other people who eat in restaurants? "

Reply: Yes, what about their rights? For example, my child and me?

" If the child is hungry, stay at home. "

Reply: I am really too lazy to explain, this kind of remark is extremely absurd. What makes me very annoyed is not that I have been photographed or that the photos are posted online. If he wanted to take a picture, he should have asked me first, and I would definitely smile back with a big smile.

What annoyed me was that things happened in this way, and the finger was directed at me and my child, and at every other breastfeeding mother who had to take care of the child.

Everyone, let us tell everyone: we will never agree to be belittled, humiliated, and harassed just to meet the basic needs of babies.

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American mother was so excited after reading this long article, and even felt tears flashing with empathy. Without fierce arguments, simple words strongly responded to those harassing, insulting, and harsh remarks that brought morality to arouse people!

Who is embarrassing to feed in public? It is everyone who looks at breastfeeding with "colored glasses", urban construction with imperfect maternal and infant infrastructure, and this uninclusive society... Breastfeeding is a very normal and beautiful thing. Breastfeeding mothers only naturally fulfill their obligations as mothers. All mothers should have the right to breastfeed anytime, anywhere, and in any way they want!

hope that one day, the whole society can achieve a state of fully inclusive breastfeeding in public places.