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Warm reminder: Your summer vacation balance is insufficient!
Speaking of which, in less than a week, freshmen will start a new campus life.
In the strange environment, most students are most interested in the school dormitory and their roommates.
In the past, students' dormitories were forcibly divided into quotas according to their majors. Students did not have the right to freely select roommates.
Everyone has their own living habits, and when they are forced to be assigned to unsuitable roommates, conflicts are prone to break out.
For example, some students like to go to bed early and get up early, while some students happen to like to stay up late. This collision of life concepts will naturally affect dormitory unity and roommate friendship.
Because of this, many schools are improving the evolution of dormitory allocation, hoping that dormitories will be more humane, and this is especially because Nankai University has done a good job and has become the focus of the Internet.
★Nankai University’s humanized dormitory has caused heated discussion. Choosing a roommate is nothing, but the "couple dormitory" is the best
How humanized are the dormitory allocations of Nankai University? As we all know, some students like to live in air-conditioned rooms, while some students don’t like it, so the dormitory is divided into according to whether students like air-conditioned rooms.
This allocation fully respects the students' wishes, but it is far from enough. In fact, it is very rare to meet a like-minded roommate during college.
So, Nankai University will choose roommates based on the living habits in the student table, just like buying a group!
For example, the table above records students' sleep time, game concepts, living habits, etc. In the case of students who like to go to bed early, they will be arranged together, and students who like to stay up late will be arranged together, and then they will be divided in detail based on games and other habits to finally determine the roommate who is suitable for them.
This humanized dormitory allocation can help students live better in four years of college, reduce the probability of roommate friction, and make roommate friendships more likely to be stronger.
However, the only disadvantage is that the friendship between students in the same class is a little worse. After all, there are fewer group activities in the university class, and there is no intersection except for class, so students in the same class should be more attentive.
self-selected roommates are worthy of praise, but Nankai University also has a controversial policy, that is, the school will prepare "couple dormitories" for couples.
As long as both students are legally recognized by law, they can move into the school's "couple dormitory". As of now, Nankai University has 18 couples moving in with their bags!
After going to college, students have the right to fall in love freely, and the school has no right or obligation to stop them. On the contrary, Marriage Certificate can also become an innovative credit to help students graduate better.
Seeing this, many netizens think that the "couple dormitory" is contrary to the school atmosphere. Isn't this encouraging students to live together at school?
In fact, this is not the case. The "Couple Door" mainly provides services for master's and doctoral students, and there are almost no undergraduates, so even if the "Couple Door" can provide accommodation for undergraduates, the undergraduates do not force early marriage.
College students all have their own ideas. They know when it is suitable for marriage and when it is not suitable. Therefore, the benefits of "couple dormitory" far outweigh the disadvantages, and provide great convenience for master's and doctoral couples.
According to the reporter's interview, we learned that there are 43 "couple dormitories" of Nankai University, and the current 18 rooms are less than half of them. The charging standard is 2,400 yuan per year, which is much cheaper than renting a house outside!
, and the room is 20 square meters, with a separate bathroom, with wifi, double wardrobe, bookshelf and desk. Even if you look for a shared house outside, it is not as good as the "couple dormitory" of the school, right?
Of course, many netizens also expressed their discomfort in this policy and felt that the corruption of the atmosphere was corrupt. Even if colleges are free love, schools should not promote or ignore it.
But in fact, after the three-child policy was issued, some experts have already targeted college students.
A member of the CPPCC pointed out: We should use college students as a breakthrough point for the birth plan. If marriage affects learning during college, we can take a leave of absence to study, so that college students’ concerns will be reduced.
The CPPCC member's words are not realistic, but in fact, both graduate students and doctoral students are about to break through to 30 years old. If they keep doing academic work and ignore the marriage problem, it is indeed easy to get the hindrance of the birth policy.
Therefore, "couple dormitory" is in a certain way in line with the current trend of birth policy.
Xuan Dad has something to say
Of course, there are not many schools like Nankai University that implements "couple dormitory", but through Tsinghua University implements the "mixed living" policy, which is enough to show that today's society is becoming more and more open.
Topic of this issue: Do you agree with the "couple dormitory"?
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