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I have watched Wang Kar-wai 's "Chongqing Forest". Perhaps many things have shelf life, right?
At the concert of Lee Zongsheng , his two ex-wifes and a rumored girlfriend sat in the audience. Zhang Aijia is still resentful of his old love and asked him in front of everyone: "Have you really loved me?"
Although Lee Zongsheng did not answer, he sang " The Price of Love ". Some things are really like Zhao Benshan said to Xiao Shenyang : "It is better to sing well"...
What you can't get is always indignant in the deepest part of your heart. There are really many infatuated men and women in this world who have hatred because of love. However, time is the best medicine, and the fire of love that once burned in the youth will eventually turn into ruins.
Regarding his ex, Fu Shouer made a very good summary: "He loves you, is a choice; he leaves, is a right."
What is the ex? He is like a star shining in the sky, inspiring everyone, getting better and better, and the starry road shines. How has Chang Aijia’s past and present been dim?
In this era when little fairies are in power and young people are rampant, why do we talk about Chang Aijia in his sixties?
Because few actresses look at their natural aging like her and face it calmly.
In 1953, Sylvia Chang was born in Taiwan. When he was just one year old, his father, who was a Air Force, passed away because of a plane crashing into a mountain.
Father passed away and her mother remarried. Zhang Aijia grew up under the care of her grandparents.
The mother came from a wealthy family and was an elegant socialite in the social circle back then. She attached great importance to her daughter's education and sent Zhang Aijia to the United States to study.
Zhang Aijia was deeply influenced by Western education since childhood. At that time, the style of punk and Beatles were popular in the United States. Zhang Aijia was originally a woman with an open-minded personality, her hair was shorter than that of a boy. She wore a short skirt and walked barefoot. The maverick woman walked on the street, and the rate of turning back was quite high.
lost the east corner, and won the mundane.
lost the fatherly love that can be relied on, but it promoted Zhang Aijia's ability to be independent in his youth. He studied alone in the United States at the age of 13, and used his spare time to help rich families take care of their children and earn pocket money.
6-year-old as a DJ on the radio. At the age of 19, he was spotted by Jiahe and became an actor to make a movie. At the age of 23, he won the Golden Horse Award for his role in the supporting actress in the movie " Biyuntian ".
Fighting alone in the bizarre entertainment circle, Sylvia Chang also longs for a safe arm to rely on. The fatherly love she lacked in her childhood was psychologically compensated when she was 25 years old.
That year, she married Liu Youlin, a second-married man who was 16 years older than her. However, this marriage that ignored the dissuasion of his elders in his family and was destined to not last long.
Because marriage is not about "finding father" for yourself, but about finding someone you love.
This marriage lasted only half a year, and various problems caused by age differences came one after another. She finally understood the reasons why her elders opposed it.
A man who only seeks reality and stability, and a passionate young man who strives for the best, was not the best partner. She regretted it, so they separated not long after.
Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups.
Talented women love talented men, which is inevitable.
The failed marriage made her more clearly recognize what kind of man she wanted.
While the couple separated, Zhang Aijia met her idol when she was studying in the entertainment industry. When she was in school, the two were not far apart in school.
Both are influential figures in the school. Logically speaking, the school beauty takes the initiative to pursue the school grass, and the success rate should be very high, right?
However, the reason why the school grass rejected it back then was quite arrogant: "You are so beautiful that people don't feel safe." The promising words of
made Zhang Aijia laugh and cry.
When the two met again in the entertainment industry, they were still the same as when they were studying. They were the most popular figures in the entertainment industry.
Liu Wenzheng also has many representative works, such as "Orchid Grass" and "Little Rain in March", etc., which are his famous works. In those years, there were quite a few people who imitated him.
Although this talented couple did not have a love story in the past campus or in the entertainment industry later, through a long separation with Liu Wenzheng, Zhang Aijia met the Luo Dayou , who was not famous at the time.
At that time, Liu Wenzheng and Luo Dayou had a good relationship. Luo Dayou wrote a song called "Shining Days". This song was created for the movie of the same name. Liu Wenzheng made this song popular. After the movie was successful, Luo Dayou became famous.
Zhang Aijia is both talented and beautiful. Although she failed to touch Liu Wenzheng's arrogant heart, she attracted Luo Dayou's unique eyes. He wrote a song for Zhang Aijia, which is the song "Childhood". Yes, the original original singer of this song was not someone else, but Zhang Aijia.
Luo Dayou, immersed in the pink bubble of love, wrote many songs for Chang Aijia back then.
For example, the song "Little Sister", the lyrics of deep love prove that a year and a half long ambiguous time, because Chang Aijia has a nickname, Xiao Sister.
At that time, Luo Dayou had a girlfriend, and Sylvia Chang did not divorce.
Therefore, this ambiguous love is destined to have no result.
The couple has been separated for 5 and a half years, and it is not a long-term solution after all. Zhang Aijia filed for divorce, but Liu Youlin did not object, and both parties handled the procedures calmly.
Regarding this marriage, Zhang Aijia summarized it like this:
6 years of marriage is blank.
The best years have made the wrong choice, perhaps this is the most regrettable thing.
Later, in a concert rehearsal, Chang Aijia met Leehom Lee. According to Zhang Aijia's later recollection, he saw a boy sitting in the last row, silent and cold, which immediately attracted my attention.
She likes to call him Little Lizi, and she is used to it. Her good feelings from her eyes prompted Li Zongsheng to write the song "The Price of Love" for her.
As for whether the two are in love?
More than a year later, when Zhang Aijia was a guest at " Lu Yu has an appointment with ", he replied: He is a very talented person. I never married him, nor did he marry me. That's it...
However, the audience understands whether there is love or not, because every time I sing the song "The Price of Love", tears flash in Chang Aijia's eyes.
Perhaps, what I missed was not true love, but practice...
When the true emperor appeared, he still met the right person at the wrong time.
At a friend's party, she met the wealthy businessman Wang Jingxiong. Although the other party was a married man, she ignored him and still loved him like a moth to the fire.
became a mistress who was despised. She had children out of wedlock. This shameful underground love is destined to be unwilling to be blessed by relatives and friends. However, the arsenic in the eyes of others is the honey she enjoys.
Zhang Aijia was carrying the blame of thousands of people, but she still smiled in tears, which made Wang Jingxiong feel very distressed. Although Zhang Aijia did not ask for marriage to him, he was responsible for his choice. In the end, like Zhang Aixi, he carried the world's despise, endured "The Price of Love", and talked to the original wife with marriage certificate .
991, the two children had just celebrated their first birthday, and Zhang Aijia became a full-time wife and became the veritable Mrs. Wang.
From the two of them meeting, knowing each other and falling in love, to getting married and having children, they spent 38 years together.
Zhang Aijia, who became a wife and mother, is no longer as willful as she was when she was young, and her mentality has changed a lot.
When she was young, she valued love very much. After becoming a mother and wife, she regarded her husband and son more importantly.
In order to better take care of her family, she even adjusted the workplace track and could not film, so she wrote scripts at home and worked as a screenwriter.
Although she had the experience of being a mistress, what she hates most now is the mistress. She feels that being a mistress hurts both others and herself.
She directed the movie and promoted newcomers. " Girl Xiaoyu " made Rene Liu , and "0 30 40" made Li Xinjie famous.
people are not confused when they reach forty.
html When she was 240 years old, Zhang Aijia said: "40 is an age to bear family responsibility. She has older people and younger people, and she has more sense of responsibility."
In the movie "20 30 40", she incorporates the beauty and cruelty of youth, and the various entanglements, dilemmas and helplessness of adults into the world of light and shadow.
Accusers of all ages seem to have found shadows similar to themselves in this movie, which has inspired the resonance of the viewers.
Some people say that Zhang Aijia has become what many women want. When she was young, she fell in love as she wanted. When she was time to start a career, she worked hard and won the award. She also went around like a few great musicians, but she still didn't lose.
The only thing that is criticized is the experience of the mistress becoming a regular person.
Zhang Aijia also understands that this is "The Price of Love".
The Sylvia Chang back then loved her, she would love her, dare to act, take it, and let it go.
Only with love can you get married, because the core of home is love. However, if you love wrongly, your efforts will be in vain. Some deep love is often hurt because of the deep love and the deep responsibility.
So Chang Aijia will fully demonstrate the conflicts between mother and daughter in the movie " Love and Blind Dating ".
Mother's parental style, daughter's youthful rebellion, does it look familiar? This kind of scene is very common in real life.
However, Sylvia Chang brought this most common scene to the big screen. It is precisely because of this that the viewers have re-examined themselves from the bottom of their hearts. How to correctly handle conflicts and disputes between their families is really a topic worth pondering.
After all, we are not psychologists and cannot objectively and accurately take care of the feelings of every relative. However, how to reduce the frequent occurrence of such conflicts and prevent relatives from becoming enemies is an urgent objective reality.
The reason why Zhang Aijia's movies can touch people's hearts is that she is good at discovering the subtleties in life. The more ordinary it is, the more she can discover the beauty of life.
Every kind of love has a price. You cannot love each other, and do not hurt each other. Keeping an appropriate distance and knowing how to establish a sense of boundaries is the greatest protection for the loved ones.
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