In today's society, although it emphasizes equality for everyone and independence for women, not everyone is like this. Many women still try their best to marry into the royal family for glory and wealth.
But marrying does not mean you have to live a good life. If a woman in the royal family wants to survive well in the royal family, she still has to rely on her ability. In addition to having high emotional intelligence and strong ability, is also closely related to the help of her parents
Simply put, if you marry into the royal family and become a princess, you will have less trouble. The Queen Mother of Spain was a Greek princess, and the Princess of Liechtenstein was a Luxembourg princess, and she was rarely discriminated against at her mother-in-law's house. It belongs to a family marriage, and it is difficult to "cut" in terms of interests, and you will not easily divorce.
Relatively speaking, civilians will face great challenges when they marry into the royal family. My mother's family is not good, so she can only rely on herself. She is more successful, including Qatar Princess Moza and Queen of Spain, and is very prosperous.
There are also two civilian princesses in the British royal family, namely Megan and Kate . The two people are in a very different situation now. It has a lot to do with their personality, original family, etc.
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These two are quite similar. They are both civilian families and have received higher education. When he first married into the royal family, he also received high attention from people and was highly valued by the royal family.
However, a few years later, the two were in a situation and their status in the royal family was incomparable. The gap between receiving treatment and public popularity is not very big. Specifically, Kate is popular, while Meghan is rejected by people.
According to British media reports, after Charles officially becomes the king of Britain, his children and grandchildren will change. In the past, Kate was always called Princess, but that was wrong.
In the past, her real title was " The Duchess of the Royal Family Cambridge, Catherine ". It was not until William became the crown prince that she won the title of princess. Now it is Princess of Wales .
Her three children also won the title of Your Highness, which means we are familiar with the princess and the prince.
On the contrary, the second son and daughter of Harry and Meghan did not have this good luck. Although Charles gave them the title of prince and princess, they would not give him the title of "
I heard that after the Queen passed away, Meghan had had many arguments with Charles about his children's status in the British royal family. According to the law, as Charles' grandson and granddaughter, he would automatically obtain the title of prince and princess.
But Charles refused to give them the title of "His Highness", which means that the British royal family did not fully recognize them. The title of "His Highness" represents His or her supreme position in the royal family. If there is no future, there is no way to represent the royal family to participate in activities.
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After Meghan and Harry left the royal family, the title of His Highness was deprived, and their commercial value was greatly reduced. Now the child cannot obtain it, I hope It means that their status in the royal family will not be too high in the future.
people still support Charles III . After all, Meghan and Harry have withdrawn from the royal family and do not assume the obligations of the royal family, so they cannot enjoy the care given to them by the royal family.
What you want to get must be paid, which is a matter of gain and loss. Look at Kate and William, they have been working diligently When the royal family does things, it is worthy of gaining a high status.
Megan always says that the royal family is neglecting her and being neglected when she is pregnant, but female members of the royal family are treated equally, and you are not the only one. This is because the princess cannot avoid it. Kate and Diana are the same.
When she is pregnant, her husband is busy with business, and it is inevitable that she will spend it alone. If others can tolerate it, you can't stand it, otherwise don't get married.
Enjoy the rich life brought to you by the royal family, but do not want to assume obligations and rights. How can there be such a cheap thing in the world?
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There is another reason why people hate Harry, because they were able to do things seriously in the past and do things impeccable. But since marrying Megan, he has become a person.
Ignore the embarrassing situation of the British royal family. In fact, there are many people within the UK who oppose the royal family. Many people think that this system should be abolished and taxpayers' money should not be spent, and the queen is in a difficult situation.
But the Queen never dreamed that Harry actually brought his head to "embarrass" grandma, and some "related information" of the royal family in the leaked department also made the British royal family a hot search.
In fact, in the British royal family, they are also very cautious about the prince's marriage, especially when marrying a foreign woman.
Queen Uncle Edward III In the past, because of an American woman, she voluntarily gave up the throne, which made the royal family very afraid of this. Meghan happened to be an American again, and the Queen once suggested that he consider it carefully.
However, Harry was determined to take the weight and chose to compromise. Originally, the queen had a kind intention, but who knew she had caused her a big trouble. She suspected that she was Diana "arranged" to come to take revenge on the royal family.
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Princess Charlotte looks like Elizabeth II . At that time, many people "make fun" that William gave birth to a grandmother. This sentence applies to Harry, which means marrying an "auntie".
In the past, many people proposed to depose the matter, but they failed. Meghan, a woman, successfully turned the royal family upside down and became a joke in the international political arena. He is obviously the second son, but he always wants to "compete" with Kate.
Kate is the legitimate future queen of Britain. In terms of status, you can't compete with him! In order to pursue so-called freedom, she encouraged Harry to betray the family, but she forgot to leave the royal family, which caused her great trouble to the Queen of England.
As the Queen of England, she attaches great importance to the reputation of the royal family, which is the responsibility of the royal family members. Back then, her sister Princess Margaret gave up her favorite person, and she couldn't bear to make her sister embarrassed for the sake of the royal family.
Sometimes I feel sorry for the Queen of England and Prince Philip . Both of them are in their 90s, but they still keep going. In his later years, he became a laughing stock in the streets because of his son's marriage, and he also suffered a lot of criticism because of Diana's funeral.
In the middle, my sister and mother died, and I would be haggard by my grandson and daughter-in-law in my later years.
I don’t know if my heart is too soft-hearted, but the queen still feels sorry for her grandson, emphasizing that Harry and Meghan will always be members of the family, and they just gave up their jobs.
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Even if the queen covers them up in every way and tolerate these two "unfilial descendants", these two people are useless.
The outside world has long seen that Harry and Meghan do not have the ability to live independently, otherwise why would they "touch the car" of the royal family everywhere?
There are many women leaving the British royal family, but there are really not many people who use the royal family as "selling points".
Diana just did it once, and afterwards she "apologized" to the queen and did not make money with the "royal halo".
Since Meghan and Harry left the British royal family, they have been reveling inside stories about the royal family to attract the attention of the outside world. Haven’t you left the royal family? Isn’t it embarrassing to mention it at any time?
In an interview with the media, he also said that the royal family is like a "company" and said that Princess Kate is not good. After looking at her insider information, she really "smothered the royal family to death" and said that they discriminated against black people, the media laughed.
The British royal family was generous and did not respond to these "news". It would be strange if you pay attention to it!
In our China, we will definitely drive out of the house and I will not meet the owner. But the British royal family also gave them the last dignity, and when grandparents passed away, they still asked them to come.
The queen is tolerant to Harry and Meghan because she is older, but Charles is different.He gave birth to his son, but I can still beat him.
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Outside evaluation Meghan and Kate's different ways of getting along with the royal family has a lot to do with their original family. Although both mothers are scheming, it is very different to "inculcate" things in their children.
Although Kate's mother is recognized as having scheming, relatively speaking, Kate's family atmosphere is good. Every time Kate has something big, the whole family will appear in a neat way.
Although Kate's mother tried her best to marry into the royal family for her daughter, she was understandable to hope that her daughter would become a phoenix. Although the family was not in good condition, Kate still gave the best resources and successfully married his two daughters into a wealthy family.
Their family changes the family through their daughter's marriage, but overall, it is still within the normal scope.
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However, Meghan's original family is far inferior to Kate, and he is a typical loser at the starting line.
Since childhood, the unfortunate family environment has made Meghan have a strong desire for success, hoping to change his fate through marriage.
Megan's mother Doria is a black man, her father is white, she was born in the United States and is very racist. Look at Meghan's appearance, with a strong black bloodline, and imagine how bad the environment she faced since childhood.
Meghan's mother Doria married her father just to achieve one purpose, which is to change her destiny.
turned out to be a hair salon girl. After being introduced by a friend, she came to a small town in Hollywood and became a makeup artist. But she is not satisfied with her current life and has been working hard to expand her connections. She met Meghan's father, , Thomas Markle, through a friend's introduction.
is an Hollywood producer, and a white man, with an annual salary of up to $200,000. This was very moved by Doria and took the initiative to pursue Thomas Markle. Even if she knew that the other party was a prodigal son in love, she still pursued him relentlessly.
In fact, Meghan's original family has a very complex background, with many half-siblings, and these people have brought great trouble to Meghan who married into the royal family.
But Megan's mother didn't care at that time, and she still under a lot of pressure to marry Thomas Markle.
However, the life after marriage is different from Meghan's mother's expectations. Her husband is unemployed and at home, so everything depends on himself.
Megan was six years old, and her parents had broken down and were raised by her mother alone. In order to raise her daughter, she suffered a lot and worked several jobs, and finally helped her to become a talent.
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She believes that her mother is a confident and elegant person who can always bring positive energy to others, but this is not the case. Provide good things to children, but when children grow up in this kind of family, they lack a strong sense of security and independence in their hearts, and they want to take everything into their own hands.
original family education has a great impact on children. To a certain extent, Meghan is "losed" to Kate, a sound and complete family.
I don’t know that my mother’s story affected her and decided to change her destiny through marriage. Meghan chose to marry Prince Harry and , but he didn't regard the other party as a ladder to climb up and enter the class.
After marrying into the royal family, Meghan discovered that life here was different from his expectations. If you want to be prosperous and wealth, you have to lose your freedom all the time. It is not about doing whatever you want.
At this time, Meghan believed that he had married Prince Harry and had won the recognition of the upper class. Even if you leave the royal family, you can still ensure that you get everything you want.
resolutely took Harry away from the royal family and came to the United States, wanting to do something big. I originally hoped to use the "celebrity value" brought by Prince Hazi himself to do things for myself.
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But she forgot one thing, Harry was able to have everything now because of the "British royal halo".
If you "cut off" from the royal family, you will face great troubles and people will not leave her at all.
Now she has tasted the "bad" brought by leaving the British royal family, and her business value is gradually decreasing.
In order to solve this problem, we must reach a compromise with the British royal family, but we are concerned about the attitude of the British people. The best solution is to let the British royal family take the initiative to accept them, which is very difficult!
Charles may not be willing to accept them. After all, how much damage they caused to the royal reputation, let alone other royal members.
can only say that Meghan’s result today is that he did it himself, which makes people unable to sympathize with him.
summary
When I saw Megan's story, I don't know if it was inspiring for many people. In addition to giving her the conditions for high-quality life, I should also pay attention to her spiritual needs. Meghan wanted to live a good life, but she didn't have anything to do, but in the wrong way, she finally ended up with the result today.
