I have to admit that after working for 4 years, I have suffered a lot of "stupid" losses.
Do you have any similar situations to me: is obviously very capable, but he stutters every time he holds a meeting. My contribution was finally invited by someone who could speak.
obviously has many ideas and opinions, but he doesn't say a word when he discusses it, envious of others for talking.
It is obvious that I work hard, but in the end I get someone else promoted and paid a salary.
To be honest, a stupid girl is really at a disadvantage!
Fortunately, a year ago, I started to change and learn to say more. If I don’t know how to say, I can finally improve my expression ability quickly. It made my colleagues look at me with admiration and the boss saw my abilities!
So, can’t speak in the workplace, but you just suffer a loss and give up the opportunity to get promoted and raise.
So, girls, improve your expression skills. Let me share my 9 experiences below! Teach you how to speak and say goodbye to stupid words!
01. Practice Mandarin
Elementary school teachers have said that practicing Mandarin is very important. However, due to different regions, we sometimes have severe local accents and unclear speech, and the public's expression is very disadvantaged.
So the first step to improve expression is to practice Mandarin well first. can read news aloud, read good articles aloud, read tongue twisters, and practice many software for learning Mandarin.
02. Before giving a speech, practice
first and then I know that there are endless meetings every week. Every morning meeting, weekly meeting, and monthly meeting, all need to be expressed and reported on daily, weekly and monthly work.
is often envious of others for talking, but I stutter. Later, I started practicing. The day before each meeting, I practice in advance with my work summary, retell the work content, refine the highlights, and expand my ideas , so I can also talk about it the next day.
Something doesn't work if you know it. Don’t give up, so what if you put in more effort? As long as the ending is good, isn’t it?
03. Don’t be afraid, speak
to improve your expression, except for the external conditions of Mandarin and practice in advance. The most important thing is that you have to dare to say that you should not be afraid of others' vision and your boss.
boldly say your thoughts, it’s nothing bad to have a thick skin. It will only make colleagues think you are awesome and let your leader know that you are also great. Really, it’s no big deal to say it boldly.
Yang Tianzhen There is a saying that goes very well: treat yourself as the protagonist of your life and play a good opponent with your boss. Your boss is just a cameo in your play, don't let him mess up your acting path. So, there is nothing to be afraid of, be yourself.
04. Read more books and learn more about
If you want to have something to say, you must have something to eat . To improve expression, you also need to read more books. Improve your knowledge and increase your knowledge so that you can talk freely.
⭐Recommended books to learn to express:
"Don't lose in the way of expressing it"
"Once you open your mouth, make people like you"
"Buffett: Lifetime advice to children"
"High emotional intelligence chat technology" "Interpersonal Psychology"
05. Watch more TED speeches
Watch less boring bubble dramas, watch more meaningful speeches, such as starry sky speech, TED speech, etc., and see how they speak, their tone, their eyes and postures. Only after you see the correct expressions in can you know how to express them.
⭐TED speech recommendations on expression :
"The power of introverted personality"
"Dare to express yourself and dare to maintain yourself"
"How to improve self-confidence"
"How to not care too much about one thing"
"Get out of the comfort zone and face fear"
06. Social essential
People who are burying their heads in their own world are prone to keep silent. To improve expression, personal communication is indispensable. In the workplace, you also need to spend time chatting with your colleagues. Practice is to start practicing from small things.
07. Improvisational speech
You can find a point of view or topic in the book every day, and output some comments yourself in three minutes. Every expression in the workplace is improvised. Therefore, practice more and there will be changes.
08. Take short videos
If you have time, you can take short videos, practice facing the camera, and repeat your point of view without any manuscript. In the video, you can see the posture of your speaking and whether your mouth is clear at a glance. All the problems are clear and help improve.
09. Observe more
Whether in life or in the workplace, you will always find many people who can talk about it. You can observe how they perform and ask how they can do it. Start learning from the people around you.
written in the end
will not express it, it is stupid, it will only make us suffer more and lose money. You won’t express yourself in the workplace, and the opportunity for promotion and salary increase is from others; you won’t express yourself in love, and you won’t get anything you want. Family will not express themselves, but the estrangement will become more and more serious.
You should know that children who can cry have candy to eat. Those who can express themselves will receive many unexpected surprises.
So girls, practice expression and say goodbye to stupid words. Starting from now on, it will never be too late to work hard. can only be the coolest self in , right?
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I am a hardworking Cherry, a young lady in 1995. Wild knowledge blogger. Every day, output the information on female growth, work quietly together, amazing everyone~
