"Lovers need courage to face rumors. As long as you have a look of affirmation, my love will make sense..."
Seeing this passage, how many people feel that they hummed?
This summer, with the return of the old variety show " China's Voice ", the program mentor Liang Jingru also returned to the public again.
As I remember, her face still looks peaceful, she always has a light smile, singing warm love songs...
Looking back at the past, the love song queen who has accompanied us throughout our youth has now entered the ranks of middle-aged people.
From the little transparency when she first debuted to the silence after becoming famous, her identity has also evolved from a young and ignorant girl to a mature single mother.
After going through thousands of things in the world, the beautiful figure in the depths of time has now slowly returned. Although youth is no longer there, it has added a little leisure and indifference, as if telling us:
Life in one's life, the more you strive for perfection, the farther you are; the more you look down on gains and losses, the more you can live a comfortable and comfortable life.
The so-called growth is to be brave enough to get out of your comfort zone
In the 1970s, Liang Jingru was born in a small town in Malaysian .
The town is very backward and has no entertainment facilities. In order to add some fun to Xiao Jingru's childhood, parents often hold their daughter to listen to songs together.
Although life is hard, it does not affect the Liang family's love for music at all.
Liang Jingru later recalled:
"Our family often ran to the yard to enjoy the cool air and sang while singing. Mom and dad often sang Fei Yuqing , cousin likes Leslie Cheung , and I love singing Pan Meichen and Lin Yilian ."
In order to help my daughter develop better in music, Liang's father often took Xiao Jingru to find opportunities to appear on stage. Whether it is a large-scale event or an unknown competition, Liang's father would ask his daughter to try it.
In Liang's father's opinion - ranking doesn't matter, experience is important.
Under the careful guidance of his father, Liang Jingru's singing skills have greatly improved.
html When she was 118 years old, Liang Jingru signed up to participate in the Conch New Rhyme Singing Competition and won the third place in one fell swoop, becoming a harmony singer.
Although it is not the lead singer, it is a great honor for Liang Jingru, who had not yet debuted at the time, being able to sing harmony was a great honor.
However, this joy did not last long, and the storm of fate came quietly.
Liang's father was diagnosed with nasopharyngeal carcinoma and passed away soon after. Liang Jingru, who should have continued her studies, dropped out of school and began to go out to explore society.
Fortunately, God is fair. While closing the door for her, he also left a bright window for her.
At that time, in Singapore , Lee Chong Seng , was attracted by the soft and pure harmony in the tape:
"Who sang this harmony, I want her!"
After several inquiries, Lee Chong Seng invited Liang Jingru to try it out as he wished. The trial singing process went smoothly. A few days later, Liang Jingru became a disciple of Leehom, and the two embarked on a journey to Taiwan together.
However, Liang Jingru, who was full of confidence, was quickly poured into cold water by reality:
The physiological discomfort caused by the incompatibility of the environment, the communication barrier caused by language barriers , and the sorrow and loneliness after leaving home... Like a mountain torrent, Liang Jingru couldn't breathe.
Finally, after hearing the master's sighs again and again, she could no longer hold on and chose to return to China.
After returning to the familiar environment, although he was inevitably criticized, fortunately, Liang's mother encouraged:
"No matter what she sang, my mother will accompany you. But my mother doesn't want it. If you haven't tried it, just give up."
Recalling his father's earnest expectations, and with her unwillingness, Liang Jingru decided to pick up the microphone again, practice singing skills in the recording studio, and find the feeling of singing in the bar.
Slowly, Liang Jingru finally found her state.
So she decided to leave her comfort zone and return to Taiwan.
, she came prepared and soon released her first album " Growing up overnight ".
Although sales are mediocre, Liang Jingru, who has retreated once, has long had the courage to face adversity.
The next year, with the help of his mentor Lee Zongsheng and his friend Guangliang , Liang Jingru released her second album "Courage".
straight-to-heart lyrics, melodious and melodious tunes, and the delicate and warm interpretation of Liang Jingru, the main song "Courage" became popular overnight.
Liang Jingru also gained thousands of fans with this song and ushered in the moment of her career.
Dong Qing once said:
The meaning of life lies in pioneering rather than sticking to it, and don’t lose the courage to move forward at any time.
No matter who wants to grow, you must have the courage to get out of your comfort zone. Only in this way can you meet the vastness of life and embrace a better self.
The greatest sense of security comes from her own
With her representative work, Liang Jingru continued to take advantage of the situation. With popular songs such as "Nuannuan", "Happy Breakup ", "Hearing Breathable ", "Kissing", etc., she has been at the top of major music platforms for many years.
However, no matter how successful your career is, it cannot fill the lack of security in Liang Jingru's heart.
So, she has been searching for the world of love, hoping that someone can give her peace in the world.
Mayday bassist Masha is the first person to make Liang Jingru feel safe.
The two entered the Rolling Stone Record together. Martha was talkative and cheerful, and Liang Jingru was quiet and good at listening. The two were like magnets of the opposite sex, attracting each other.
At the 2006 "Love Parade" concert, Liang Jingru sang to Martha, who was the guest: "Since you have feelings for me, why not be brave."
In front of countless fans, Martha hugged Liang Jingru.
At Mayday's concert, Martha also shouted: "I love you", and the fans in the audience kept shouting "Liang Jingru, Liang Jingru..."
Just when everyone was about to send blessings, the golden boy and jade girl parted ways due to different views on marriage. After
, Liang Jingru opened her heart to the fans at the concert and said:
"Although I stand on a big stage, I still hope that there is someone I can rely on and have a great courage to fall in love and get married."
Perhaps it was God who heard her inner prayer. In 2010, Liang Jingru and her boyfriend whom she had been in love for a year, Zhao Yuantong entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, Liang Jingru chose to fade out of the music industry and take care of her husband and children at home:
Making food, raising flowers and walking dogs, and showing off her babies... She lives a dull and happy life like every ordinary girl.
But compared to wishful thinking, marriage requires more company.
Faced with the challenge of her husband's loyalty to his marriage again and again, Liang Jingru hesitated for a while, and finally chose to end the marriage.
Not long after, Liang Jingru was photographed dating wealthy businessman Lindaguang . However, just 3 months later, Liang Jingru posted a message saying that she had become ordinary friends with the other party.
To this day, Liang Jingru remains single. Although she has no love, she is becoming more and more self-consistent and more like herself.
very much agrees with this sentence:
"Sense of security is not given by others. It depends on whether we are strong inside and whether we love ourselves enough."
Now 44-year-old Liang Jingru finally no longer seeks stability outside, but is determined to her heart, bid farewell to the past, and began her journey in the second half of her life.
Life is never perfect, and gains and losses need to be calm
If there are any regrets in Liang Jingru's life, she must have not won the Golden Melody Award.
020 Golden Melody Awards Awards, Liang Jingru, sitting in the audience, had a calm surface, but her heart was full of tension and expectation, and she was still holding a sweaty speech in her hand.
When the host read out the name " Wei Ruxuan ", her heart fell to the bottom again.
Counting the past, this is the sixth time that Liang Jingru missed the Golden Melody Award:
004, he was nominated for the Golden Melody Award for the first time with "Beautiful Life", but lost to Fai Wong's "Love" by one vote;
005, the same drama was staged again, Shenzhen Sun defeated Liang Jingru by one vote;
006, Liang Jingru was nominated for the Golden Melody Award for "Silk Road". In 2008, he was nominated for "Worship ", but both lost to his friend Cai Jianya .
In 2009, when the trophy was about to be won, she lost to Chen Shanni ...
Passed by again and again, and even the bystanders felt sorry for him. After his old friend Martha found out, she stood up for her and said:
"She doesn't need this award to confirm, but she has also been eliminated too many times."
As the party involved, Liang Jingru could not let go of her for a long time.
After the award ceremony, she posted the pre-written speech on Weibo, and her words were full of sadness and helplessness.
Fortunately, Liang Jingru is not a person full of obsession. Under the comfort of time, she slowly walked out of the haze.
Later concert, she even comforted her fans and said:
"People will have low moments, but this does not affect the sun rising as usual. Nothing is a big deal. We all have to look forward."
The once resentment of seeking the Golden Melody Awards has long been replaced by the indifferent heart.
Today, Liang Jingru has less anxiety and persistence, and more calmness and calmness.
In fact, every evaluation from the outside world, once it is heard, will become a kind of self-kidnapping. Only by taking it lightly is the path to freedom.
Whether it is a reward or a derogatory situation, it is not worth our attention. Because life is long, gains and losses are only a moment. Instead of grudgeing, it is better to just smile.
So many people sing love songs, why is Liang Jingru the only one who is favored?
Perhaps it is because no matter what stage of love, there is always a Liang-style love song that can convey our inner voice in a timely and considerate manner:
When we have a secret love, we sing "Courage" to express our inner feelings in a tactful way; in love, we use "Nuannuan" to share the joy of passionate love; after the breakup, we walked out of sadness with the company of "Happy Breakup".
Someone said:
"Among the Chinese female singers, Liang Jingru is the king of uncrowned.It’s not that she is invincible in singing, but that her tone is special enough, sad but not sad, soft but strong. ”
Her singing not only contains the joys and sorrows in the world of love, but also the warmth and courage needed to face the various aspects of the world.
3 years after debut, her appearance has changed, and her identity has changed, but the company and touch that Liang Jingru brings to us with her singing has been with the years and has been with the passage of time.
For the rest of her life, I hope you and I can take this touch, look at the idle affairs of the world, and walk freely in the world!
Author | Weimang, explore the world with words, personal public account: Weimang said.
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