A couple in the entertainment industry divorced ↓
Everyone’s focus is on their children (sigh)
said their daughter is so miserable ↓
said their daughter is so pitiful ↓
It’s not that they can’t understand...
Because this couple Although the couple is not a big celebrity,
in recent years, domestic entertainment has found no such person,
but now it is rumored that the man has cheated on her, Xia Keli,
years ago, she took her daughter to the "Where Are We Going, Dad?" 17 years ago in the summer 》↓
His performance in the program really left a very deep impression on the mainland audience.
Compared with other fathers in the show,
Xia Keli’s parenting status has almost zero negative reviews ↓
So it is indeed difficult to imagine such a “perfect father”.
will be posted on social platforms by his mother’s celebrity friends 7 years later. Blatantly scolding "trash" (beard)
After all, he looks so gentle...
At first glance, he seems to be someone who often spends time with his daughter.
In the one-hour secret room test with his child at the beginning of the variety show,
other fathers seemed a little a little bit Embarrassed and at a loss,
is the only father who can interact and play with his children with ease↓
will also seriously understand his daughter’s curiosity without any impatience.
accompany his daughter to name the camera↓
and let his daughter paint his nails. Colorful ↓
Protects her daughter and takes care of her daughter very sensitively and conscientiously,
carefully picks the crown for her ↓
skillfully ties her braids ↓
helps her daughter blow her nose naturally and skillfully ↓
Will subconsciously let his daughter stay in a crowded situation Stay by your side ↓
(During a very intense game competition, he was the only father who never let go of his child’s hand and held his daughter tightly to his side)
The most impressive thing is Xia Keli’s super strength Sex Education Awareness ↓
(Insisted on not letting Noi stay in the room when he changed rooms in the summer, even if Noi said he would not read)
So Xia Tian was also educated to protect himself very much ↓
(Nothing in the follow-up During the parent participation session, the female staff member invited by the program team actually changed the girls' clothes in front of all the little boys. Xia Tian found out something was wrong without even thinking about it)
(At this time, the female staff member's reply seemed a bit... Adults' awareness of child protection is so weak compared to Xia's father↓)
It can be seen that as a father, Xia Keli's details and attitude towards his daughter are indeed completely fine.
At the level of personality education,
it can be seen that Xia Keli adopts an encouraging education for Xia Tian↓
And from the perspective of Xia Tian’s character,
what she gets from family education should be reasonable "care" rather than bottomless "arrogance".
For example, Xia Keli will guide Xia Tian to express kindness to other children anytime and anywhere.
must learn to say "thank you" ↓
Later, his father temporarily quit the program,
mother Huang Jiaqian took over,
the first time to win the game is to win. Express gratitude to others in summer ↓
As for the difficulties and setbacks during the daytime games,
dad Xia Keli will also review the game with his daughter through chatting at night↓
(bring out the truth in the chat)
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(between two people The communication between the parents was very natural and smooth, and the daughter told her father all her thoughts easily and sincerely)
Therefore, Xia Tian really not only takes care of herself ↓
(she keeps her room in order, she has definitely been trained at home)
but also takes good care of others↓
(She often feeds her friends who are younger than her)
also knows how to share ↓
(distribute snacks to Wang Baoqiang’s daughter)
Compared with other children,
’s summer personality is obviously more stable and soft, with few negative emotions,
can be very Quickly understand others, accept others' apologies,
can also face the unhappiness between friends sincerely ↓
(when Noi gets angry, she can accept it calmly, and take the initiative to apologize to settle the situation)
is even less squeamish.
Some links that require physical work,
often rush to the front in the summer, rarely complaining and complaining about tiredness ↓
What particularly impressed me was that Xia Keli's back injury relapsed,
so that he could not participate in games with too much movement. ,
then casually told Xia Tian to "work hard" ↓
Xia Tian was also really obedient,
was squeezed into the game until no one was there,
was still working hard (covering his face)
But what makes people sigh is not that there are many summers Try hard,
but despite working so hard but not winning the game, or even losing miserably,
can still maintain a very calm and relaxed attitude (which is quite difficult for a child).
After the game, she went to play on the swing with her father in the summer. ,
She quickly found the objective reasons why she lost the game despite her hard work, and took the initiative to open up her heart↓
She is basically a child who has never been criticized by her family in the process or results.
also shows that Xia Tian has a complete sense of security in her heart.
(Every time she goes to a new place, she integrates into the environment very quickly and is very relaxed, and is very good at discovering the advantages of the environment. This shows that her parents make her feel comfortable with the world. Very trustworthy)
Therefore, whenever the summer part is played,
this emotion will always float on the barrage ↓
Of course,
after the news of Xia Keli and Huang Jiaqian’s divorce lawsuit broke out,
many people said that Xia Keli was He had already cheated while filming "Dad 3" ↓
Some people thought that Xia Keli's performance in "Dad 3" was fake,
said he was posing for the photo ↓
I don't know whether he was cheating or cheating at that time (face covering)
No matter What was the relationship between Xia Keli and Huang Jiaqian at that time, and
's true love attitude and relationship with his daughter could not be acted out.
For Xia Tian, both her parents are her supporters. Of course,
relies heavily on her father↓
(even holding hands when sleeping)
but she also has deep trust in her mother↓
(the first time to call when she feels uncomfortable) To my mother, saying that I don’t want to grow up and want to stay with her all my life)
My father’s back injury relapsed and he was lying on the bed to rest,
She immediately climbed up and down to take care of her father like a little adult ↓
(Fan her father)
(Help Dad wears shoes)
(I will be very careful when leaning on my father's legs)
And when my mother came to take over from her father to take her to participate in the game,
In the summer, because I saw that my mother was not feeling well,
felt so distressed that she shed tears↓
if true It's just a show,
Xia Tian will definitely not be able to treat his parents with such sincere affection and two-way love.
The emotional scale will definitely be tilted, and he will not love so levelly.
The important point reflected behind this is:
No matter how bad the relationship between Xia Keli and Huang Jiaqian is and there are ideological disputes,
will never speak ill of each other or slander each other in front of their children.
Some rituals may seem exaggerated at first glance.
For example, Xia Keli brought a bell with him to the variety show.
said that when the bell rings at home, it means everyone wants to kiss↓
But then after reading other interviews,
I discovered that their home There is even a "quarrel bell",
, but this bell is only for two adults, and it will never be seen by Xia Tian at ordinary times↓
Education will not teach separately, and will not quarrel in person,
's love for his daughter is evident↓
On the question of "love dad more or mom more",
Huang Jiaqian said that he would really be jealous because his child loves his dad more,
but the parents are also very decent,
dad would lead Xia Tian to say that he "loves mom more" ” ↓
And Huang Jiaqian guided Kangkang to kiss Hu Jun in the show with ease,
felt that he did a lot to bond the relationship between father and daughter ↓
To sum up,
this family is really a template for how children get along.
As for Dad Xia Ke’s costumes and posing,
if he could really “act” the details to this level...
He probably wouldn’t be nameless in the entertainment industry (face covering)
Even if he is not in a variety show, In daily life,
Huang Jiaqian also said that Xia Keli does spend more time with his children↓
(She said that Xia Keli is really the kind of person who will go home and play with his children until he is half-tired)
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Many people say that the couple This time she went to court,
most likely to fight for custody of Xia Tian↓
In fact, for more than a year after the news broke,
Xia Keli had been studying in Canada with his father Xia Keli,
If Xia Keli really wanted to " Fighting for "Summer",
Judging from their lives, Xia Keli has indeed achieved a high sense of participation in his daughter's life.
(There are so many updates about my daughter on ins↓)
(Every bit of my daughter’s life is recorded↓)
So from Xia Tian’s point of view,
Neither mother’s love nor father’s love has actually disappeared,
only However, because the adult world is too complicated,
families in the traditional sense are just "broken."
If this marriage really ended because of Xia Keli's cheating,
and as Huang Jiaqian said,
she was not happy at all in this marriage ↓
because of fear of conflict↓
So Marriage is full of lies ↓
So To end this broken relationship when Xia Tian has grown up,
is actually a wiser choice than to work hard to maintain it.
Think about it carefully,
How many people are suffering from the torture of their original families even though their parents are not divorced?
How many people have never been truly loved by their parents?
They don't even have the chance to be "fighted for", so they are abandoned again and again.
People's hearts will always change, and so will their feelings.
The rarest thing in the world is probably the so-called "perfect family".
I repeat it again - I am not trying to whitewash Xia Keli.
It's just that in this journey between parents and children,
Orange is willing to believe that Xia Tian is taken seriously.
In the general environment of East Asian families,
she is no longer "miserable", but can be called lucky.
I believe she already knew how to deal with separation,
because maybe her mother had told her about separation in that variety show 7 years ago.
"But sometimes, you need to leave when you grow up, right?"
Perhaps this is also suitable for Huang Jiaqian herself,
because she said that she has always been a "little girl who has not grown up" in her marriage↓
Ruoxia Kelizhen So unbearable,
Congratulations to Huang Jiaqian,
She has grown up, and she has also left.
The last sentence
I believe that everyone will have a better life and there is no need to regret it.
