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official microscope to launch the "Senior Brothers and Sisters" series from time to time starting today. The first issue was written by Zhang Xiaoying himself.
Zhang Xiaoying, who is both the third and fourth phases of Yiju Wharton, and is also a student of the fifth phase. In fact, she is more like a lively and curious elementary school girl, a lifelong learner with fireworks in her heart. Come and listen to what she said.
Zhang Xiaoying
Shanghai 1921 Interior Design Organization CEO
Issue 5 E-House Wharton Real Estate Enterprise Upgrade and Development Group Student
Gift
Issue 0 Issue writing this article, I think it is actually quite meaningful. This morning, one of my classmates from Changjiang, Hu Hua, celebrated his 37th birthday. That’s right, “Birthday in the morning.” How to pass
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I asked him what gift he wanted? He said, "No gifts, Sister Xiaoying, , just accompany me to run 37 kilometers ."
html More than 2003 years ago, he heard my sharing of the 7th Gobi Challenge, and I also encouraged him to try it out, "Go to have a relationship with Gobi." Hu Hua participated in Gobi 9 and persisted with a limp. He felt very rich. So even if it was 37 degrees in Shanghai today, I would still accompany him to realize his wish. I have to say that the Bund at 4 o'clock in the morning is so beautiful.Is this gift very special?
In fact, long-distance running is also a gift I gave myself. On July 31, I just finished the San Francisco marathon, and on August 6, I then ran the Chongli 100 cross-country running. In September, there is Berlin Marathon waiting for me.
Does it feel like one marathon after another in my life? In fact, life is the same. When the fireworks in your heart are ignited, life will enter different latitudes.
There are 23 marathon medals and some cross-country event medals hanging in my office, 12 full marathons, 11 half marathons, and my goal is to run 100. Wherever you are happy, just jog slowly. When 100 Malaysian medals from all over the world are hung on the wall, I feel so rich.
Long-distance running taught me to appreciate the impermanence
long-distance running, taught me to experience the meaning of the process. This part from the beginning to the end is the most worth enjoying. Focus on your feet and live in the present moment.
Long-distance running also taught me to appreciate impermanence. Every time you run, you won’t know what kind of road conditions, what kind of people, and what kind of weather you meet. After all, it takes more than 40 kilometers, and the journey is brand new every time. Every time I enjoy starting again, enjoying the complete unknown.
The process of marathon is persistence, and life is the same. It is like passing the level. Sometimes it is easy and sometimes it is difficult. It can endure when it is difficult and it is calm when it is easy.
htmlThe San Francisco Marathon in July is one of the 15 difficult marathons in the world. It has many high and low slopes. When I ran to 32 kilometers, my thigh suddenly became cramped. This was not expected at all. Fortunately, Brother Manzhi helped me stretch on the grass beside the track, and then I insisted on running the last 10 kilometers.
In recent years, I have the opportunity to spend 10 days every year to participate in the "Vision" study. The first time I went to the Vipassana Center of Malaysia , on the deserted island, I felt so upset. I don't know if I could stick to it. I was completely banned from speaking in 110 days, and I didn't use my mobile phone or computer at all, and I didn't eat after lunch every day.
Cultivating the mind is the most difficult homework in the world. I took Vipassana class for the first time and learned almost nothing. I will listen to the audio teaching of Geyinka teacher, but the content of the teacher is actually the same. When I went there the second time, I suddenly understood something. I later asked an assistant teacher for advice, and she said, "The white cloth in our hearts has too many dirt on it, so I can only hear it after washing." So, I insisted on meditating for half an hour before going to bed every day, clearing out a lot of information and distracting thoughts of the day, calming my mind and falling asleep relaxed and satisfied.
Yes, our lives were a little too exhausted in the past, and we always wanted to fight against fate, which made us more tense and anxious. Each of us will face birth, old age, sickness and death, and face persistence and worries and inner conflicts. These problems actually have nothing to do with wealth. The inner emptiness, wealth cannot help you, tranquility and peace are the real wealth.
Except for love, everything else is just luggage
Over the years, gradually, I found that I am not so worried and afraid of the unknown. Maybe this is also the reason why I planned another "marathon" in my life.
After running the Berlin Marathon in September this year, I will go to , Cambridge University, for a year to study. I will leave Shanghai where I have worked hard for 19 years.
Compared with my peers, I believe that at this age, there is glory in my eyes.
Although I also have concerns, because the previous ones are all uncertain factors, just like I will let go of the company's affairs for a year, can I hold it? I actually don't know either.
So I am a very courageous person, right?
"My mother is a brave person. She likes to challenge all kinds of limits. She is a person who can solve problems very well. She always says that there are always more methods than problems." This is my daughter's evaluation of me. She wrote it in the composition. I was moved and moved after reading it.
htmlIn 2005, I have been to Gobi 8 times in a row. Among them, I have taken my daughter to three times, 9 years old, 11 years old, and 14 years old. Last month, I just took her through the Ulanbuhe Desert, which was also an "important gift" for her to study abroad at the top private middle schools in New York, USA. always hopes that she can see a truly happy mother, a mother with birds singing and flowers blooming in her heart, and a mother who constantly challenges herself. I think may be more valuable than giving her a house and giving her stocks . Fortunately, through running and watching, I really discovered my inner treasure, and my inner happiness and abundance every day.I recently learned a saying, "Apart from love, the rest of this world is nothing more than your luggage in life."
Uncertain future
I know, just like waving goodbye to a child at Pudong Airport, just worrying that it cannot change anything, I try to turn worry into a blessing.
9 September is here, and what awaits me is another (Berlin) marathon, and the next stop of my life marathon (Cambridge).
For my spare time in Cambridge, I have planned to participate in the famous rowing club, and I also want to learn oil painting and surfing. Haha, you may be surprised again when you see the last item?
This year I went to Hawaii to skydiving. On the beach, I saw people with wheat-colored skin, and surfboards were everywhere. This kind of scenery is very different from the lake and mountain scenery we often see in the past.
Just before going to Hawaii, my daughter recommended a movie called "Soul Surfer" to me, and I was very touched by the beach at that time.
I found that I like the feeling of facing the sea very much, waiting for the waves to come over. The process of capturing and waiting for the waves is very wonderful because it is uncertain, just like life. Every wave rolls back is a prelude to wait for an uncertain future, and the other side can always see the fireworks in my heart.
Find my own fire of my heart .
2016.8.30
Quick QA
Q: What are the most impressive classes, activities, and journeys in Yiju Wharton?
A: Classes for the tutor in the forest, activities for Songhua Lake, and study tour in Taiwan. Of course, the most important thing is that the study tour of Wharton in the United States has the horizon, vision, and realm.
Q: Why?
A: Finding a suitable person is more important than finding a piece of land. "The instructor in the forest. Songhua Lake, the first time I was running in the snow with my tutors and classmates such as Xico. Ding Changfeng tutor is so enthusiastic. We arranged for us to eat farm dishes on the kang and set off fireworks and firecrackers. We were as happy as we were when we were a child. We went to study in Taiwan, visited many classic elderly care and tourism real estate projects, and we also ran in the morning to brush up Taipei 101 and Sun Moon Lake .
Q: What is the biggest gain at Yiju Wharton?
A: A good teacher and friend for life.
Q: A message to the juniors of Yiju Wharton:
A: In Yiju Wharton classroom, we are not only here to read, but also here to "read" people. Whether it is a tutor or a classmate, you can hide your dragon and hide your tiger. Cherish every wonderful time of learning and communication.
● Taiwan Discovery Tour, visited many classic elderly care and tourism real estate projects, and by the morning run, I checked Taipei 101 and Sun Moon Lake
● The most important study tour in the United States is the vision, vision, realm
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"2016 China Real Estate Practical Training Class" is the fifth high-end training project launched by the E-House Wharton China Training Center.
This training class was upgraded again on the basis of the 2015 period, gathering a "100-person mentor group" to select 5 major topics, covering more than 30 sub-topic topics, and 8 major units of the entire course. It has now been promoted to the preparation stage of the Beijing Duan Master Lecture Hall.
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