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My daughter asked me a question,
I blamed myself very much,
because I lied to her...
At that time, I was holding my daughter’s soft little body, and I followed my usual routine. She talked before going to bed.
She complained to me about the naughty behavior of the boys in the class, and I laughed and agreed.
While we were chatting, she suddenly asked me: "Mom, when you are pregnant, do you want to have a daughter or a son?"
I said decisively: "Of course it is a cute daughter like you! Who wants to have a boy? If you are so naughty and make me angry, I will grow old quickly, so don’t do it!”
My daughter giggled, and I could clearly feel her arms tightening around me.
She then asked: "What about dad?"
I said: "Dad also likes his daughter. I still remember that your dad said at that time: 'What a great daughter. If a son is as naughty as I was when I was a child, dad will always be happy." When my mother was watching TV, she ran around screaming in front of the TV. I must have been so annoyed that my brain hurt! '"
My daughter laughed for a while, then came over and kissed me. Say "Mom, I love you!"
"I love you too, thank you for choosing me to be your mother." I kissed her back.
The daughter turned over satisfied.
Children are always strange. One second they are still talking, and the next second their breathing becomes calmer. But I couldn't sleep, recalling every scene of my pregnancy in the dark.
I heard that if you look at pictures of beautiful dolls when you are pregnant, your child will look good, so I changed my office computer desktop to pictures of beautiful babies. It was a boy;
When I was fishing at work, I would go to Xobao to buy baby clothes. , although there are all colors, but there are more blue ones;
When my colleagues asked me whether I wanted a son or a daughter, I said loudly: "It must be a son. A son who looks like me will be very handsome!";
...
Yes, I lied to her.
At that time, I really wanted to have a son!
And all this is precisely because I love my daughter.
Because I love her, I hope she is a boy.
Because boys can grow up in a relatively safe environment and will not encounter so many obscene covetations and harassment;
Boys will not be told when they are in elementary school that they will not be able to compare with girls in junior high school;
Male When children are divided into liberal arts and sciences , they will not be guided to choose liberal arts;
Boys do not have to worry about someone following them when walking at night;
When boys are waiting for the elevator, they will not feel uneasy because there is a man standing next to them;
Male In summer, children can bare their arms and legs and enjoy the coolness without having to be scrutinized and stared at by others;
Boys will not be judged casually by others regardless of whether they are fat or thin, whether they have breasts or butts;
Boys will not be judged casually by others. When looking for a job, I was asked whether I planned to get married and have children;
Boys can experience beautiful love without worrying about whether they will suffer losses;
As long as boys can work and make money after marriage, they will be Praise for being a good husband;
When a boy is promoted, in addition to his ability, there is no consideration of whether family affairs will distract his energy;
A boy does not have to be pregnant for ten months, endure grade 10 labor pains, not to have breast inflammation, and does not have to worry about having sex every night in the middle of the night I woke up for two hours to breastfeed...
Look, boys are really good!
is so good that I want to give it all to my children.
If life is a game of easy and difficult distinctions,
boys are assigned to the easy mode from birth.
At the beginning, my husband chose to have a daughter without hesitation,
because he was a man who grew up in a simple model, and
thought that it would be equally easy for everyone.
Therefore, when my daughter in difficult mode was born, I decided to love her with all my strength, more than I love a son. I hope that this lot of love can give her the courage to resist difficulties.
But, even so,
when I see those extremely cruel pictures,
when I see the following heart-wrenching words,
I still want to say:
Child, it would be better if you were a boy.
At least, before this society changes,
I hope you are a boy!
Because mom is really afraid that she won’t be able to protect you all the time... [Crying]
Also, I’m sorry, mom lied to you.
Zhilan is me, I am Zhilan,
Every woman has the same fate.
—— Yishu " If the Wall Could Talk "
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