We are always silent in the intrigue of the era of the Three Kingdoms, but we often ignore the extraordinary roads of a group of strange women in this era, such as Cai Wenji, who has the best rhythm, the gorgeous Zhen Ji of Luoshen, and the heroic Sun Shangxiang, Among these strange women, there was a strange woman who paid silently behind her husband. She was Cao Cao's second wife, Madam Bian.
So who is this Mrs. Bian? Many people who have read the historical materials of the Three Kingdoms know that the first generation of hero Cao Cao is controlled by a wife. The number of beautiful women in his harem is very large. Among these women, only the two wives of Cao Cao are from one to the other. Later, the Ronghua and Fortune, and the two of them are Mrs. Ding and later Mrs. Bian .
Cao Cao’s original partner, Mrs. Ding, has more family affection than love
Cao Cao dreamed of being a ranger in his youth, and because of this bohemian spirit, when Cao Cao was young, he was not only young and energetic, but also a man. Stabbing, not to mention a lot of misfortunes, always doing things that shouldn't be done by the nobles, such as playing around with a group of friends, peeking at some women bathing and so on.
However, when Cao Cao had just grown up, his family married him a marriage. This is Cao Cao’s first wife, Mrs. Ding. In fact, Cao Cao respects this wife more than he loves. One aspect is that Mrs. Ding is more mature than himself. Taking care of the family lightly, this also made Cao Cao's father no longer care about him, and instead had a daughter-in-law.
On the other hand, Cao Cao could not find a feeling of love between men and women in his place. He felt that the two were like routine business, ordinary old couples and old wives, but without anyone knows how to do it. Very uncomfortable, Cao Cao had long regarded Mrs. Ding as his relatives, and an inseparable existence by his side.
But friendship is not love after all. As a teenager, Cao Cao still yearns for the love of heroes and beauties. So the 25-year-old Cao Cao realized the 20-year-old Bian Ji, the identity of this girl is rather humble. Although Bian Ji was born as a child, his father can’t control so much of a family living below the poverty line. The survival of the family is a problem. Where can I think about future prosperity and wealth?
Girl Bian longed for love, but became a leftover girl
When Girl Bian was a little older, his father began to teach him singing and dancing. Fortunately, their singing and dancing were not the kind of singing and dancing in the red building. It's a craft of life. Father Bian takes the mother and daughter to dance and sing everywhere; and there are many aristocratic sons and brothers who fall in love with Girl Bian at first sight, but this girl Bian seems to be unresponsive, and has nothing to do with these men. relationship.
Father Bian respects the thoughts of her daughters, and is not in a hurry to force her to marry; the girl is 20 in an instant. In the Eastern Han Dynasty, the 20th woman has lost her golden age of marriage, is well-deserved的老左女的; Father Bian is a little anxious. It doesn't matter that he has suffered for a lifetime, and he can't let his daughters suffer for a lifetime. Father Bian will find some slightly good men for her daughters everywhere, but these girls don't like it.
And some princes and nobles are attracted to her, but they can only be concubines. For example, there is nothing for a singer woman to be a concubine to a powerful person. Girl Bian doesn’t care about it, but she hopes that she can find a right concubine. A good man who doesn't want to marry himself out casually.
Cao Cao resigned, girl Na Bian was a concubine
And what is Cao Cao doing at this time? Cao Cao’s grandfather’s current chief eunuch, under the operation of his grandfather, Cao Cao engaged in the Eastern County prefect. The 25-year-old prefect is indeed very powerful. Therefore, Cao Cao was favored by many people; but at this time, the Eastern Han Dynasty was in foreign relatives. The battle between the eunuchs, the court was dark, Cao Cao didn't want to stay in Luoyang, so he said that he had returned to his hometown, and Cao Cao's father scolded him for this, but there was no way, his own son was very stubborn.
Cao Cao ran to his hometown to build a small villa, and then he had nothing to do with reading, drinking and drinking with friends.Cao Cao likes to listen to singing and dancing, so he asked his hand to go down the street to find a singer to add to the excitement. Fortunately, Bian Ji came to Cao Cao to dance. At first Cao Cao didn't find Bian Ji, but when Bian Ji performed a few brilliant dances , Let Cao Cao notice this woman.
Although Cao Cao was not tall when he was young, he was very temperamental. His eyes were piercing and he had a heroic aura. After the banquet, Cao Cao kept Bian Ji behind and was using Cao Cao's own cheeky. , The bluffing dealt with girl Bian, and since then, girl Bian has become Cao Cao's exclusive singer.
But what's interesting is that Cao Cao didn't give Bian Ji the status at first, and Cao Cao and Xiahou under Cao Cao's hands are his clan and childhood buddies, they often come to Cao Cao to play together. Once Cao Cao asked Bian to perform for everyone. During the reception, one of Cao Cao’s hairs fell in love with Bian, so he asked Cao Cao for this woman vaguely. Cao Cao is very outgoing, but he also likes Bian Ji. Reluctant to bear it, in the end he reluctantly gave up his love and bestowed Bian Ji to this young boy.
But not half an hour after it was delivered, Cao Cao felt a little distressed, always feeling empty in his heart. Later, he rode on his horse and chased the small carriage, and finally caught up on the way. Cao Cao sent a novel to him: " I really love this woman. How about giving you a few other things in the future?" Cao Cao’s hair, after listening to it, it doesn’t matter that Bian Ji returned to Cao Cao. He put her arms around her and put her on her chest; and the horses running along the way made the hearts of the two young men and women connected together.
Madam Bian gave birth to Cao Pi, and Cao Cao loved her.
After returning home, Cao Cao promised to give Bian Ji an identity so that she would never leave herself; but the biggest problem before him is The eldest wife, Mrs. Ding, and Cao Cao discussed with Mrs. Ding whether she could accept a concubine, Mrs. Ding initially disagreed. Everyone should know that Madam Ding is the only woman who can cure Cao Cao, and the relationship between the two was dominated by Madam Ding at the beginning.
Later, Cao Cao tried many times to persuade him to fail, so he directly set up a concubine. For this reason, Mrs. Ding and Mrs. Bian’s relationship has not been good ; But for Mrs. Bian, he can accompany Cao Cao. Just the best result.
Both historical materials and wild history record that Mrs. Bian and Cao Cao are the partners of true free love; Later, Mrs. Bian gave birth to Cao Cao’s first son Cao Pi , Cao Pi is Cao Cao’s second son ， The boss Cao Ang is the adopted son of Mrs. Ding . After Madam Bian gave birth to Cao Pi, her status immediately rose and she was deeply loved by Cao Cao. At this time, Madam Bian completed the perfect counterattack from the singer to the wife.
But Mrs. Ding was very upset, embarrassing Mrs. Bian in many ways because of her identity as an eldest woman, and directly mocked her as a lowly singer. Every time Mrs. Bian was scolded, On the bright side, he never disobeyed Mrs. Ding, but after returning to his room, tears of anger were crying. After Cao Cao saw it several times, he was angry to go back and argue with Mrs. Ding: " This evil Woman, I have to show him the color.”
But Mrs. Bian always prevents him from going. In fact, Cao Cao is not willing to make trouble with Mrs. Ding. She has been playing outside for several years. Having been forbearing, Cao Cao felt sorry for his original wife, but Cao Cao couldn't control him. Therefore, every time Bian was bullied, Cao Cao could only coax her. I have to say that Cao Cao was the most serious and sincere in his feelings for Bian. There were some historical records in that Cao Cao’s kindness was given to Ding. The love was given to the Bian clan. In fact, compared to the Ding clan and Bian clan, these two women are Cao Cao's most important women, and no one can give up.
Cao Cao disappeared, Mrs. Bian stabilized the military heart
Later General He Jin was killed by several eunuchs, so Dong Zhuo led troops to Beijing to hold the court, Dong Zhuo this person He loves talents. He heard that Cao Cao has very good talents, so he let him work by his side, but Cao Cao felt that Dong Zhuo was stealing the country, and the loyalty in his heart came up. Cao Cao listened to some slanders and wanted to kill Dong Zhuo., This is the story of Cao Cao Xiandao.
After the failure, Cao Cao left in a hurry, but after hearing the news of Cao Cao’s death, the men in his hometown all fell away; Mrs. Ding saw that this appearance was gone. Fortunately, Bian directly went from house to house to find her husband’s ministers. He understood that the family that her husband had saved up hard could not be scattered like this. Bian said to his subordinates: " Cao Jun’s life and death cannot rely on a few rumors. It is certain that if he comes back later, what face do you have to see him? ”
Because of this matter, these direct descendants of Cao Cao will begin to treat the Bian family as the Cao family and Xiahou family's own people. , Bian not only helped Cao Cao gather troops, but he also successfully entered Cao Cao's core lifeline. After Cao Cao came back, he was shocked when he heard this story, so he rushed to find Bian, but at this time Bian was still teasing the child, Cao Cao hugged him, and the relationship between the two became better and better.
However, Cao Cao’s character still remains the same. Whenever he goes to a place, he always finds a wife to serve. This does not provoke Zhang Xiu’s sister-in-law, but Zhang Xiu’s sister-in-law is also a stunner, and her husband died. Since then, Cao Cao’s arrival made her feel the joy of women again, but Zhang Xiu knew about this. During the Eastern Han Dynasty, she cared about the observance of women. Zhang Xiu could not blame his sister-in-law, but he had heard about it a long time ago. Cao Cao has a special hobby, so Zhang Xiu thinks that Cao Cao seduce his sister-in-law.
The change of Wancheng began. Cao Cao was almost killed by himself in this incident, and his Aijiang Dianwei and the eldest son Cao Ang both died in battle , this This incident became the root cause of the Cao family incident. After Mrs. Ding heard the news of her son's death, she later heard that it was caused by her husband's recruitment of bees and butterflies, and she determined to sever relations with her husband.
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Cao Cao asked for forgiveness many times, but Mrs. Ding was determined to be separated from Cao Cao. Eventually Mrs. Ding left, the Bian family became the first wife, and the Bian family became the first wife. Later, he did not arrogantly be favored. Instead, he played a low-key role as a good internal helper. Later, he gave birth to Cao Zhang, Cao Zhi, and 曹熊 , and his wife accompanied Cao Cao for most of his life.
Bian is a strange woman. She does not ask for what she can get all her life, only to get a solid and firm arm in this troubled time. Cao Cao gave him a sense of security and love. Cao Cao's life is between men and women. There are two major regrets in this matter. One regret is that she did not persuade Mrs. Ding to send his wife back, and the other regret is that she did not accompany Bian to the end.
