This friend probably met in 2005. When I knew him, he didn’t know me. He still doesn’t know me, but I always regard him as a friend.
I don’t know if he will treat me as a friend. I think it may not be because of the huge gap in status. I am a civilian and a nobleman.
The most important obstacle is that he has been immortal for 1444 (2022-578) years. This number is definitely a coincidence, I didn't mean it.
His surname is Yuwen, and his single name is Xian. Therefore, the King of Qi of the Northern Zhou Empire was famous for his younger brother of Emperor Wu of Wu Yuwen Yong . He served as the Grand Priest of the Great Tomb and the Superior Kingdom of . Both of these official names are very remote, but it is not important. You only need to know that his identity is noble.
is very fantastic, but in fact, the process of knowing him is extremely simple. That year, I read the "Book of Zhou" written by Tangren Linghu Defen . From a long list of names that have solidified into historical landmarks, I suddenly discovered this heroic ancient man.
Yuwen Xian is ranked fifth among the brothers, and his father Yuwen Tai is the prime minister of the Western Wei Empire, a person like Cao Cao , without the name of the emperor but with the reality of the emperor. Yuwen Xian was born with a golden key in his mouth, but this top rich second generation and noble second generation did not have the arrogance and incompetence of their kind.
Yuwen Xian started to come into contact with war when he was less than 20 years old. The war in his era was the theme. Two countries in the north fought each other, and the north and the south also fought each other. What is the theme of an era? The deeper the participation of people at that time, the more they will benefit from it. Yuwen Xian is such a person.
He has excellent talent and can understand the military at a glance. After experiencing the initial ignorance and chaos of ordinary young people in the workplace, he became the military leader of the Northern Zhou Empire within a few years.
When Yuwen Xian was 33 years old, he participated in the war to annex Northern Qi as the leader and made unparalleled contributions. But then the suspicion of the emperor's brother was summoned. Yuwen Xian was very aware of it and immediately couldn't get out of his illness. , Shanghai Stock Exchange, , had the power and left the army. Unfortunately, he did not hide in the end. After the death of Emperor Wu of Northern Zhou, his son Emperor Xuan ascended the throne. Emperor Xuan was afraid that his uncle would threaten the throne and killed Yuwen Xian without saying anything. He was 34 years old that year.
This is Yuwen Xian’s short life, a heroic and magnificent but full of tragedy.
So what does it have to do with me?
Mr. Shuren, Duke Xun of Lu Zhou, has a poem: Hiding in a small building and becoming a united state, regardless of winter and summer and spring and autumn . When I came into contact with this poem full of negative energy, I was in junior high school and did not understand the dangers and chaos of the world. When I got back to the taste, I realized that Brother Xun was a real big shot and said that if he hid in a small building, there would be a small building to hide.
When we are in a mess, how can we have a small building? There is not even a small dormitory that can be isolated from the world.
It is a time when people are wronged. They are wronged and scolded in their early years. It’s good to vent. When Xie Xun went crazy, he cursed the heaven and earth, from the Buddha in the West to the two saints of Confucius and Mencius, from the dry bones in the tomb to the wise men of the world, all of which were cursed. This is the master who is scolding, and it feels very comfortable after scolding.
Where is mortal? Probably not. After scolding him, he fell into the hat of an angry young man. Therefore, I learned to seek it within myself and digest it myself. But you can't just hold it in your digestion. After a long time, you can cause internal injuries. Reading is a good treatment channel.
is actually similar to Uncle Benshan’s words and treatment. The difference is that someone speaks, but no one speaks when reading.
is to have a friendship with Yuwen Xian on countless depressed nights or lonely moments.
This person is very charming, grand and magnificent, not pretentious, and has no arrogance or prejudice. The long time of more than a thousand years filters out all his achievements, glory and tragedy, but what cannot be filtered out is his personal charm. The Book of Songs says: There is a gentleman who is as sharp as a touch, as polished as grinding. Yuwen Xian is what he means.
"Book of Zhou" Yuwen Xian's biography - When it comes to "Book of Zhou", I have to say something more. Linghu Defen's writing of this book is extremely concise and cold in style, and has a very stylish style of burnt ink landscape style in later generations. There are very few people who are included in the biographies in "Book of Zhou" and Yuwen Xian is one of them. I think Mr. Linghu, like me, has a unique preference for Yuwen Xian.
This biography records a fascinating clip.
In the battle to destroy Qi, Yuwen Xian led several generals to encounter the enemy, retreated across Fenhe to avoid the enemy. The enemy general on the other side said a few words to Yuwen Xian, immediately determined that he was not an ordinary person, and stubbornly asked who you were. Yuwen Xian initially said that he was an ordinary person, but the other party did not believe it, Yuwen Xian simply stopped hiding it and admitted his identity.
The enemy troops on the other side were so scared that they retreated immediately.
There are many touching things, the kind that transcends time and space. The combination of appearance, talent, reputation, aura, identity... creates such a moment of vividness.
Everyone had imagined that they had such moments, too.
00,000 people are looking at it, and they are respected, praised, admired, recognized, respected, and all the beautiful yearnings...
The metropolis of the era of the Diaosi were imagining without any scruples, because they are still young, there are still infinite possibilities. As naive as a primary school student: I will become you when I grow up... In fact, when I grow up, I look at my idols back then, it turns out that I am even worse than me.
As time goes by, infinite possibilities are gradually compressed and deconstructed by time, and life is gradually set. You are either a salesperson, a program dog, a stall owner, a small employee, a stagnant ape, or a confused middle-aged man...
Don't dare to talk about life, ideals, and romance anymore, will you be shocked when you see such words? When you are occasionally awake in the middle of the night, will you look through the boxes and cabinets in your heart to see how many taels of your ideal are left? Or pee and continue to sleep, and say to yourself: Stop making trouble?
As a character image, this is the vitality of Yuwen Xian. Some people have lived like this, and they have learned a little.
does not want to be as heroic and magnificent as him, at least he should be at the same level as his heroic style.
Appreciate when you are lonely, vent when you are angry, or cool when you are manic... The advantage of it is that you can send all negative emotions one-way, without worrying that he will scold you, scold you, fool you, or even cut off your robe and tread, or everything that makes you uneasy will not happen.
There will always be a continuous stream of spiritual power and dopamine, as well as the high cliff shore, and the nobleness that will never fall.
This is why I call him a friend.
