Emotionally, Ye Chaogong was quite wealthy. He pursued the school beauty Zhao Luorui and finally married the school beauty Yuan Yongxi. The two have been working together for 10 years. Unexpectedly, a disaster changed everything.
caused the couple to be separated for 40 years, never to see each other again in life or death. When she was dying, Ye Chaogong wrote a letter asking for an audience, but Yuan Yongxi ignored him. Until her death, she only sent an elegiac couplet.
After 50 years of marriage, why did Yuan Yongxi make such a decisive move? This matter has to start from the time the two met.
Ye Chaogong confessed to Zhao Luorui but was rejected, so he turned around and fell in love with student Yuan Yongxi. Yuan Yongxi was born in 1906. She used to have a very good family, but since his father died of cerebral hemorrhage, the family fell into decline. The money for Yuan Yongxi to go to college was saved one by one by selling calligraphy and paintings.
Although Yuan Yongxi is talented in poetry and calligraphy, his fate is extremely bumpy. After experiencing a change in her family and her father's death, she once again felt the deep and surging love in Ye Gongchao. It is impossible not to fall.
Although she had heard about Ye Gongchao's bad temper before, it was just like Shakespeare said: all despicable shortcomings become insignificant in love and become happy and solemn.
What's more, Ye Gongchao already loved her so much that he couldn't love her any more. How can a person be without flaws? What's more, for such a talented person, it's normal to be arrogant.
In 1931, Yuan Yongxi graduated, and the two got married naturally. Then Yuan Yongxi gave birth to a pair of children, named Ye Tong and Ye Wei, which comes from " Book of Songs ": "The quiet girl is a prostitute, which makes me Tongguan. The Tongguan has a Wei, and it is said that the girl is beautiful."
is translated as: The girl is beautiful and beautiful. Jingya, give me a bunch of red tube grass. The red tube grass is brilliant in color. I love girls more than grass.
Even naming the child is a confession to his wife, which shows that the relationship between the two is really a perfect match.
It's just that this combination was true at first, but later on, it slowly changed. There is nothing wrong with Ye Chaogong, he is just a bad character and arrogant.
No matter in the literary and artistic circles or in the political circles, Ye Chaogong has a certain status and often participates in various cocktail parties. Yuan Yongxi is born with a quiet nature, and he always brings more face to face.
However, if he often hangs out in the political circles, he will inevitably be suppressed. When he is in a bad mood, he will yell and curse, and Yuan Yongxi will inevitably suffer.
Ye Chaogong has always had a volatile personality, sometimes happy and angry. He is sometimes naive and sometimes rigorous when it comes to affairs, and sometimes serious and sometimes romantic in his life.
also has serious male chauvinism. Once, his friend Wu Mi came to his home as a guest, and Yuan Yongxi cooked a table of delicious food for him.
While eating, Wu Mi talked about literature. Although Yuan Yongxi studied physics, he had been proficient in poetry, literature, and painting since he was a child. Then he started chatting with Wu Michang.
The two of them seemed to be close friends, and they were chatting happily. Ye Chaogong saw it, and then yelled at Yuan Yongxi: "What kind of food are you cooking? It's not delicious..."
Yuan Yongxi saw it and shouted at Yuan Yongxi. Not angry, just said: "I will pay attention next time." With his friends around, he couldn't refute his face.
But Ye Chaogong still said harsh words without mercy, which made Wu Mi think that he had done something wrong and had to resign early.
After this incident, Yuan Yongxi's heart became cold, but he never quarreled with Ye Chaogong. In 1937, the war broke out. For safety, Ye Chaogong sent his wife and children to the United States for refuge four years later.
never thought that this would be the time when the couple separated. During that time, Ye Chaogong was arrested by the Japanese for helping his uncle hide an antique "Mao Suiding".
When he was in trouble, his uncle called his cousin Ye Chongfan to save him and accompany him through those difficult years. When the two got along, they had feelings for each other, and it was said that Ye Chongfan was just the adopted daughter of his uncle. They only knew that she was a cousin, how old she was, and nothing else was known about her.
Due to their companionship during these difficult days, the two of them appeared ambiguously in public frequently. Soon the matter reached Yuan Yongxi's ears. She couldn't sit still and hurried back to China. When
arrived, she just asked if this was the case. Ye Chaogong refused, but what happened next made Yuan Yongxi heartbroken. This cousin is just my uncle's adopted daughter. If you say she is a cousin, she will definitely not do anything unethical.In fact, Ye Gongchao has fallen into an unethical love.
After that, Yuan Yongxi took a plane back to the United States. She knew that Ye Chaogong was born to save face, so she did not divorce him.
Yuan Yongxi will come back and attend with Ye Chaogong on important occasions when she needs to attend. At the end, the two of them didn't communicate with each other, as if it was just business, they turned around and took the plane back. Those were the last times they saw each other.
html For more than 0 years, Yuan Yongxi has been working as a researcher at University of California and , and she has put what she has learned in her life into it. Live your life wholeheartedly.
On the other hand, Ye Chaogong has a certain status in both the literary and artistic circles and the political circles. He often attends various banquets and is surrounded by pink and willows. Yuan Yongxi ignores him. He just goes with the flow and does not make any explanation. Instead, he hangs around every day. Among the various clouds and rain.
In 1961, Ye Chaogong was removed from the post of "Ambassador to the United States" and became a jobless person. After that, he started painting and writing and never went to the peach-colored willow alley again.
has been popular for 40 years and has become unemployed. The gap is naturally huge. In the next 20 years, Ye Chaogong lived in this state of mind. Soon he fell ill and was hospitalized. On his hospital bed, he wrote "Miscellaneous Memories of Illness", "Looking back on this life, I feel that I am the protagonist of the tragedy. I have a bad temper all my life. He suffered the same loss, but he couldn't change it and couldn't help but lose his temper again. "
In 1981, knowing that he didn't have much time left, he asked his friends to send letters to his wife and children in the United States, hoping to meet him. . But no matter how he looked around, there was no familiar figure, no one he thought about day and night. Until the oil ran out and the lamp ran out, he felt that person in the dimly lit place, so he walked towards her step by step...
But Yuan Yongxi did not come back to visit him with his children.
In November of the same year, Ye Chaogong passed away at the age of 78. His wife only sent him a letter that read: "We formed an alliance in the flames of war, and when we became scholars, we said goodbye with a guilty conscience. The historical relics of the painting are left in the orchids and bamboos with deep and deep traces of tears." "The elegiac couplet.
After being married for 50 years and not seeing each other for 40 years, Yuan Yongxi lived too soberly. If you love, stay together. If you don't love, be brave enough to let go.
There are thousands of beautiful things in this world. The most important thing is to live your life well, neither humble nor arrogant, and never lose yourself. This is the greatest good thing for yourself.
