Although Shen Congxing is the uncle of the country and has been granted the title of Marquis of Weibei, the British government has been standing since the founding of the People's Republic of China. Generation after generation of Zhang family members have served in the military a

How much does the Shen family praise the little Zou family?

You must know that Zhang Guifen is already married to Shen Congxing. Although Shen Congxing is the uncle of the country and has been granted the title of Marquis of Weibei, the British government has been standing since the founding of the People's Republic of China. Generation after generation of Zhang family members have served in the military and are loyal to the country, and Zhang Guifen is the only British official. daughter.

Moreover, when Shen Congxing married Zhang Guifen, he had already married a wife and had a legitimate son and daughter. In other words, the only daughter of a British father-in-law had to fill his house and be a stepmother. Her son could not inherit the title. This is How frustrating.

The reason why the British Duke was cruel enough to marry his daughter to Shen Congxing was because he needed to be loyal and needed to show his loyalty to the new emperor.

In the same marriage, the Zhang family was not happy, but they still fulfilled their obligations. The daughter-in-law of the British government was straddled by a concubine, but the Zhang family did not complain and forced themselves to endure it. Why? This person is being loyal!

Zhang Guifen is already mentally depressed when she gets married. If Shen Congxing had known better, treated his wife well and made Zhang Guifen think that he was a good man, Zhang Guifen would not have continued to struggle. But the problem is that Shen Congxing is a good husband, but only for his deceased wife, the great Zou family.

What is even more outrageous is that in order to repay the kindness of the eldest Zou family, the Shen family not only made the eldest Zou family's sister, Xiao Zou family, a concubine for Shen Congxing, but also gave the little Zou family a royal life.

You must know that in ancient times, imperial concubines were difficult to obtain. In order for a concubine to obtain a imperial concubine, two conditions generally needed to be met. One was that the son was promising, and the other was that the legitimate wife already had a wife, so it was her turn to get her.

The little Zou family didn't even have a son, but because of her sister's kindness to the queen, she got the royal decree. Isn't this a great compliment? How does this make Zhang Guifen, the direct wife, face this concubine?

In fact, the Shen family members are all refined egoists, and they follow the saying "If you are not one family, you will not enter the same family."

Shen Congxing was concerned about his own mood, missed the eldest Zou family, did not take his wife Zhang Guifen seriously, and allowed the younger Zou family to do whatever they wanted, which made Zhang Guifen suffer a lot of injustice. Empress Shen only thought about repaying her kindness, and did not consider doing this to her husband. The humiliation and difficulties brought by Zhang Guifen. As for Xiao Shen, she is selfish to the core.

01. The reason why Xiao Shen promoted Xiao Zou and was dissatisfied with Zhang Guifen was not because he cared about Dazou's kindness, but because of her weird psychology;

Like her elder brother and sister, Xiao Shen was also close to Xiao Zou and did not like Zhang Guifen. .

At first, Sheng Minglan thought that the reason why Xiao Shen promoted Xiao Zou and was dissatisfied with Zhang Guifen was purely because of the kindness of the big Zou.

Minglan patted her hand comfortingly: "You are also thinking about the sister-in-law in front of you, that's why you treat the Zou family so well, I can't blame you."

However, Xiao Shen didn't do it for this at all, but for psychological reasons. Diaphragm response. It turned out that before the emperor ascended the throne, the Zhang family had already taken a fancy to Xiao Shen's husband, General Xiao Zheng, and planned to betroth their daughter to him.

Little General Zheng is a son of a general. He is loyal to the Hou family and has a rigorous family tradition. His parents-in-law are amiable. Although his sister-in-law is strict, she has an upright attitude. If Zhang Guifen marries her, the good life of the little Shen family will be hers.

However, after the new emperor ascended the throne, in order to secure the throne, he urgently needed to win over important officials in the capital. Therefore, the British government had to betroth Zhang Guifen to Shen Congxing. Queen Shen knew that the Zheng family had a good reputation, and in order to win over the Zheng family, she decided , Xiao Shen cut off Zhang Guifen's husband.

"...I, I don't hate my current sister-in-law because of my previous sister-in-law! I deliberately treated Aunt Zou well because...Before we came to the capital, the Zhang family and the Zheng family were already discussing marriage, which was delayed because of the death of the late emperor.My husband...my husband was originally going to marry that Zhang family! "

Little Shen's face turned red from crying, and she seemed to be infinitely ashamed, "...After we passed away, my parents-in-law, brother-in-law and sister-in-law were all the best people, and my husband-in-law treated me... Every time I think about my sister-in-law's bad life, I feel like She feels as if she has become a thief, so she should be nicer to Zhang Guifen, instead of deliberately trying to hide from Zhang Guifen. Seeing that Zhang Guifen's life is getting worse, she On the contrary, I feel relieved. What is this?

Stealing someone else's marriage is not a big deal, but also hoping that their life will get worse and worse, and causing trouble for them. This is the evil of Xiao Shen's human nature. She is indeed a refined egoist who only sees her own interests.

02. In order to make herself comfortable, she dared to get into trouble with her sister-in-law as soon as she entered the house. If she were not the queen's sister, she would not be able to stand in her husband's family. A sure footing.

In addition to deliberately embarrassing her sister-in-law Zhang Guifen, who was robbed of her marriage, there is another point that shows Xiao Shen's selfishness.

Xiao Shen lost her parents at a young age and was pampered by her elder brothers and sisters. She has developed a carefree temperament and likes to run around and play.

However, after she gets married, she represents the face of the Zheng family. Mrs. Zheng abides by etiquette and asks Xiao Shen and other women for the sake of the Zheng family's face. There is nothing wrong with being a woman and not running around.

After all, Mrs. Zheng didn't treat her too harshly. She didn't ask her to set rules, nor did she push her or make fun of her. She just stopped her. Shen made a public appearance and did not ask her to pester General Zheng to go out for fun.

In addition, she also reminded her of social etiquette from time to time to avoid making mistakes in her words and deeds, so as to avoid making jokes outside. The sister-in-law who is either scheming or looking at jokes is much stronger.

If Xiao Shen doesn’t follow the rules and shows up outside (in ancient times), it will lose the face of the Zheng family and it will also be detrimental to Xiao Shen’s reputation. However, Xiao Shen’s reputation is also bad. Shen ignored her sister-in-law and didn't understand her sister-in-law's difficulties at all. She didn't understand the principle of being a daughter-in-law. In order to make herself happier, she went to complain to her sister, the queen.

The queen felt sorry for her sister and planned to help her. Go ahead and go find Mrs. Zheng. If it happens, what should Mrs. Zheng do? Should she follow the Queen's orders and stop her from doing whatever she wants, and then let her ruin the reputation of the Zheng family? Did she want to offend the queen?

Fortunately, Mrs. Zheng was very smart and took the initiative to retreat, so the queen had to give up the idea and deal with Xiao Shen.

Unexpectedly, Mrs. Zheng was more ruthless than her. She was single, and she had just finished crying at her sister's place. The queen had not yet thought about how to tell Mrs. Zheng, but she had already knelt down in front of Mrs. Zheng and said, "I am of low status and not worthy of being the eldest sister-in-law of the Shen family." Please invite me. Go back to the hall.

Mrs. Zheng, who is in her late 70s and 80s, was so frightened that half of her soul was lost. For more than ten years, the friendship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was extraordinary. She had always been very satisfied with her eldest daughter-in-law, who also gave birth to children, took care of housework, and maintained a harmonious family. How to give up. Mrs. Zheng immediately straightened her frail body, put on all her royal robes, and went to the palace to plead guilty and beg for mercy.

Little Shen did things without regard to the consequences. You must know that Mrs. Zheng was a hero of the Zheng family who had been filial to her parents-in-law for more than ten years, gave birth to children for the Zheng family, and single-handedly raised little General Zheng. She offended Mrs. Zheng, Wouldn't it be equivalent to offending the entire husband's family? Not to mention anything else, even her husband, General Zheng, was implicated by his wife and could not face his brother and sister-in-law. In ancient times, it was not just a saying that the elder brother was like the father and the elder sister-in-law was like the mother!

Xiao Shen was the worst. She just made a small complaint (she had done this often since she was a child). Her sister had trained her brother, and her brother had trained the queen mother. There were two queen mothers. After being sent back to her husband's house, it was inevitable that her parents-in-law would look ugly, and even her husband would be unhappy and could only apologize to his eldest brother again and again. After this battle, Xiao Shen became honest.

Xiao Shen's greatest luck is that she will most likely be reincarnated as the emperor's sister-in-law.Because her sister is the queen and she is a relative of the emperor, for the queen's sake, her husband's family will not embarrass her even if they don't like her.

People are all seeking profit. After all, birds die for food and people die for wealth. However, as a human being, you should not be too egoistic and should not benefit yourself at the expense of others. Otherwise, sooner or later, you will be unjust and have few helpers.

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