In " Pretender ", the most heartbreaking and uneasy thing is the scene of Manli sacrificing.
That day was of great significance to Manli.
During the day, her beloved gets engaged to others;
At night, she cut off the rope on her body for her beloved.
There is no Yu Manli in the world since then. All that is left is a wedding photo taken when he pretended to be a couple with Mingtai .
Mingtai treasured this photo, and when he took a look, he said gently: "It's so good."
Someone said that I don't know if Mingtai regrets it. Yu Manli didn't have a good relationship with her when she was alive.
However, Mingtai will definitely not regret it. In his heart, Yu Manli will always be his partner.
Although Mingtai and Yu Manli cooperated perfectly, after careful study, it was found that it would be difficult for the two to be happy if they became real couples.
This is also the reason why Cheng Jinyun was arranged and became the official partner of Mingtai.
Mingtai and Yu Manli cannot be together, and there are two factors to summarize:
first: life experience.
Mingtai was able to enter the Ming family and become a young master with no worries about food and clothing. It was entirely because when he was young, his mother saved Mingjing on the street.
The eldest sister lived, but Mingtai's mother died.
Ming family is a man who is grateful for his kindness. Seeing the young Mingtai helpless, they took him home and included Mingtai in the Ming family genealogy and became the real Ming family.
Whether it was when he was a child or when he grew up, his elder sister and brother loved him very much.
, especially the eldest sister, Minglou is her younger brother, and she will slap her a few times in the face when she says the wrong thing. No matter how many mistakes Mingtai makes, Mingjing never scolds and doesn’t beat him.
In addition to the elder sister, Minglou and Acheng also care about Mingtai very much.
In theory, Mingtai is also a person who grows up in honey.
However, Mingtai, who looks unruly, has an indescribable heart knot in his heart.
No matter how kind the sisters and brothers are to him, they can't resist Mingtai missing his mother and his father who is missing.
Especially for my father, Mingtai never understands why the father and son have lost contact for so long, why have they never seen his father come to recognize him?
After all, the Ming family had published many newspapers back then, and they were always helping Mingtai find his biological father.
So, with Mingtai's experience, all he could think of was that his father didn't want him.
But why did my father want him? This question has been hidden in Mingtai's heart and cannot be dissipated for a long time.
This also caused Mingtai's inferiority and depression.
But he was still lucky, at least he got the love of his family.
In comparison, Yu Manli is the real miserable, and she is the one who is so fond of bitterness.
Yu Manli was sold to the romantic scene by her adoptive father at the age of 14. At the age of 15, she was forced to put on heavy makeup and start business.
After being physically and mentally impaired, Yu Manli became ill. At this time, Mom Sang threw Yu Manli under a big tree and slowly waited for death.
Fortunately, he was rescued by the kind-hearted boss Yu. Boss Yu not only cured Yu Manli, but also sent her to school.
Those years should have been the happiest life Yu Manli had.
Unfortunately, the good times didn't last long. Boss Yu suffered a tragic accident while doing business, and Yu Manli's sky collapsed again.
After the death of Yu, Yu Manli grew hatred in her heart. Even if she finally avenged her revenge, she was also disappointed with the world. Yu Manli still did not change until she was taken back to the military academy by Wang Tianfeng .
She is like a tool without emotions and never knows what the meaning of life is.
Therefore, from the perspective of life, Mingtai and Yu Manli are destined to be unable to be together.
Many people believe that Mingtai did not choose Yu Manli because of the fact that she was open in Fengyuechang during the years she was open, and the Ming family would never accept this.
However, Yu Manli, in the later stage, really became very outstanding and focused on Mingtai. If Mingtai really likes this, she will definitely find a way to convince Mingjing.
does not have to fully tell her entire life experience, but you can also explain it according to the best and let the elder sister digest it by herself.
After all, it is because it is inappropriate.
I once heard a saying: In marriage, choice is more important than hard work.
Mingtai and Yu Man are both people who need sunshine in their hearts. Neither of them is warm, so how can they warm each other's hearts?
People who are not warm enough will only ask the other party for help in their future life. If the other party happens to be strong inside, they can fill the gap in this area. Cheng Jinyun can do this, but Yu Manli can't do it.
The second is: pursuing
Mingtai met Wang Tianfeng on the plane, and then he half-pushed and returned to the military academy with him. He obviously had the chance to escape but chose to give up.
After all, it is because Mingtai has a passion in his heart, and his wish is to serve the country.
Especially after meeting Cheng Jinyun, seeing her decisiveness and courage during several collaborations made Mingtai's pursuit of life stronger.
Mingtai feels that only by choosing the right organization can one realize one's own value.
However, Yu Manli is different.
Yu Manli and Guo Qiyun said during a chat that she doesn’t want to be a big hero, she just wants to be with her beloved forever.
This is the little woman’s thought, and it will never match Mingtai’s pattern.
But little women also have advantages. If used well, they can easily gain the likes of men and arouse men's desire to protect themselves.
What's more, Mingtai and Yu Manli are life-and-death partners, and they are born and die together. Logically speaking, Yu Manli can get the moon first, so why was Cheng Jinyun intercepted it again?
First of all, since Yu Manli and Mingtai performed their first mission, Yu Manli left Mingtai after a sudden air raid in Chongqing, and when she escaped alone, Mingtai had already removed Yu Manli from her heart.
Mingtai couldn't understand why his father didn't want him? Now that I have been abandoned by my closest partner, is a heavy blow to people who lack a sense of security in their hearts and will also have a heavy psychological shadow.
Secondly, Yu Manli's attitude towards love.
Mingtai and Yu Manli went to Hong Kong to perform official duties and idolized her adoptive father. In order not to let Yu Manli make mistakes, Mingtai wanted to solve her adoptive father on her behalf.
After returning, Wang Tianfeng tested the two of them for this matter. In the end, Mingtai gave Yu Manli a chance to survive.
Through these pieces, Yu Manli recognized Mingtai from the bottom of her heart.
For Mingtai, she can even give up her life.
When Yu Manli received a telegram to solve Minglou, the first thing she thought of was to take Mingtai to escape. Seeing that Mingtai was unwilling to leave, she obviously disliked Cheng Jinyun, but still asked him to leave with Cheng Jinyun.
When performing the mission in the end, Yu Manli could not die. In order to prevent Mingtai from being caught by Wang Manchun, she cut off the rope on her body and let the people below focus on her, so as to buy Mingtai time to escape.
Yu Manli has lacked love since she was a child and has been looking for love all her life.
not only to Mingtai, but also to her previous boss Yu.
After Boss Yu asked Yu Manli to live from the God of Death, she wanted to promise her to repay her kindness. Later, Boss Yu died accidentally, and Yu Manli also gained her reputation and life for revenge.
Yu Manli's love is too heavy.
Boss Yu did not dare to accept it, so he could only recognize her as his sister, so Mingtai would not be able to handle it even more.
A person loves too much, and for the party he is loved, it is not touching, but full of pressure.
Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, don’t use all your strength to love someone. This kind of love will make the other person feel suffocated, and you will think about escaping after a long time.
True love, 4 points to the other party, 6 points to yourself.
Only when you know how to manage yourself and love yourself well can you have the full ability to love others.
is like Cheng Jinyun, who loves Mingtai, but she loves herself even more because she has a complete personality and holds Mingtai tightly.
Yu Manli and Mingtai are indeed not that suitable to get into marriage, And her sacrifice seems to be a pity, but in fact it is the best ending.
Otherwise, she could only watch Mingtai and Cheng Jinyun live a loving life for the rest of her life.
If you are a person with a clear heart, you may feel satisfied as long as the other person lives well, but Yu Manli's heart has not reached this level yet.
Instead of suffering in the future, it is better to choose to leave at the most beautiful moment.
At least, Yu Manli left with a smile, looking desperate when she saw Mingtai trying hard to pull her up.
At that moment, Yu Manli was happy.
is so happy that she feels that death is worth it.
[The pictures are all from stills from "The Pretender", please delete if infringes. 】
