He Bing , Hao Lei Although the " Love Siheyuan " has been broadcast for so many years, it is still a classic in the hearts of many viewers.
. For the characters in the play, some people think they are good people, while others think they are bad people.
Everyone has different perspectives and different opinions.
But there is a person who should be recognized as a good person in everyone's mind.
That is the deaf old lady in the yard.
Especially the part she matched Sha Zhu and Lou Xiao'e, it was simply the highlight of the whole film.
It is precisely because of the old lady's matchmaking that Sha Zhu at least left a son.
But just such an old lady also has a question, that is, why does she like Qin Huairu so much, but Lou Xiaoe?
In fact, by re-watching "Love-Man Siheyuan" you will understand why!
1, as both women, the old lady knows that the child in Qin Huairu’s heart is the most important thing!
Why does the old lady look down on Qin Huairu?
actually understands this and you will understand it.
The old lady regarded Sha Zhu as a good grandson in her heart.
And who is my good grandson surrounding him all day long?
A widow, and the most important thing is that this widow has three children and a mother-in-law.
As both women, the old lady certainly understands how difficult it is for Qin Huairu, and also knows what is the first and second in Qin Huairu's heart.
Children are always the first priority, and she will consider other things.
So that's why the old lady doesn't like it and looks down on Qin Huairu.
A woman, a widow, but she hangs this bachelor with Sha Zhu all day long.
eat his, use his, and even if something happens, Sha Zhu will take the blame.
To be honest, the old lady didn’t beat Qin Huairu because she was well-educated.
And what happened later did prove that the old lady was right. Sha Zhu and Qin Huairu were originally planning to get married because of her son’s opposition.
They actually put it aside for more than ten years.
Qin Huairu It doesn’t matter whether a widow gets married or not, the key is that Sha Zhu is an older young man.
Just for Qin Huairu, who has not gotten married for more than ten years, it can be seen that Qin Huairu is very cruel.
This is also the reason why the old lady looks down on Qin Huairu the most!
On the contrary, Lou Xiao'e is different, although she is also a married woman.
But she has decided to divorce Xu Damao.
The key is that Lou Xiao'e has no children. If a woman has no children, she will not have too much concern. She will practice love and focus on her husband.
So this is why I had to match Lou Xiao'e and Sha Zhu when I learned that Lou Xiaoe was divorced, because they were indeed men and women waiting to marry, and it was a match made by heaven.
2, Qin Huairu's selfishness is unconcealed!
Although from the perspective of the whole film, Qin Huairu is really a good woman.
Not only did she support her evil mother-in-law Jia Zhang for the rest of her life, she even set up a nursing home in the Siheyuan, supporting all the elderly in the yard.
But from the perspective of what Qin Huairu treats, Qin Huairu is really selfish and unconcealed. Why I said this? In fact, there are several details that explain it all.
One detail is the matter of the silly lunch box.
When Sha Zhu said that the lunch box was given to her, she was full of spring breeze and greeted her with a smile.
Once Sha Zhu said that this lunch box really couldn't be given to him because it was prepared for his sister.
Qin Huairu can change her face on the spot.
To be honest, Sha Zhu really extended a hand of friendship to help him. After all, he did not have this responsibility and obligation. If Sha Zhu didn't help her, there was no need for her to shy face.
It can be said that Qin Huairu's selfish spirit is really written on her face.
And that's nothing. Our modern dramas are all about "If you like someone, you hope that the other person will live happily!"
But from Qin Huairu's perspective, he likes someone and hopes that the other person will live unhappy.
For example, when Sha Zhu was on a blind date, he obviously met so many good girls, but Qin Huairu was all separated one by one.
What is she for?
is because they are afraid that once Sha Zhu gets married, they will no longer help their family. They are because they are afraid that once Sha Zhu gets married, their children will be short of clothes and wear.
It can be said that from this perspective, Qin Huairu really played a selfish female role.
Compared to Qin Huairu, Lou Xiaoe is much kinder.
Not to mention that she gave birth to a son for Sha Zhu, she said that she would return from wealth many years later.
Although she knew that Sha Zhu was still with Qin Huairu, she was still spending her money to make Qin Huairu's family happy.
She didn't say anything either.
The most amazing thing is her attitude towards the second uncle. The second uncle took the team to raid her home, forcing her family to run away.
But in the end she allowed the second uncle to move into the nursing home she invested in.
It can be said that such kind women are really rare, and such women who repay grudges with kindness are really the best.
This is also the reason why Lou Xiao'e was able to develop. She didn't have so many calculations in her mind, and she didn't have so many small calculations.
This is the woman who does big things.
In contrast, Qin Huairu has been calculating Sha Zhu all her life, thinking about how to squeeze out the oil and water from Sha Zhu's body all her life.
The son must live in Sha Zhu's house when he gets married, and the daughter must also bring her son-in-law to occupy the house when she gets married.
The whole family did nothing, just relying on Sha Zhu to bring vegetables back every day.
Qin Huairu's life is really the life that is parasitic on Sha Zhu.
So, it is no wonder that the deaf old lady looks down on this kind of woman, because she is indeed not a good match.
It’s just a pity that love is really easy to make people lose their minds.
Although anyone can see that Qin Huairu is not suitable for Sha Zhu, Sha Zhu just likes this woman for the rest of her life.
Fortunately, he had a relationship with Lou Xiao'e in the middle, and Lou Xiaoe also gave birth to a son for him, otherwise Sha Zhu would be a little miserable in this life!
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